{"id":164579,"date":"2024-05-22T07:59:57","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T07:59:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164579"},"modified":"2024-05-22T07:59:59","modified_gmt":"2024-05-22T07:59:59","slug":"segreto-per-una-relazione-di-successo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segreto-per-una-relazione-di-successo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a0Il segreto del successo di una relazione a lungo termine si nasconde in questo trucco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A volte<strong> le relazioni a lungo termine possono sentirsi stagnanti <\/strong>senza che accada nulla di nuovo ed eccitante. Soprattutto quando si tratta di matrimonio, \u00e8 facile perdersi nei compiti quotidiani che sembrano accumularsi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tornate finalmente a casa dal lavoro, completamente stanchi, con i bambini che urlano e i piatti sporchi che vi aspettano. La casa \u00e8 in disordine e la cena deve essere preparata. Voi e il vostro partner continuate a correre per fare tutto, avendo a malapena il tempo di abbracciarvi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quando finalmente si ha un po' di tempo libero, si \u00e8 troppo stanchi per andare a un appuntamento o per fare qualcosa che non sia marcire sul divano, scorrere il cellulare o guardare il proprio programma televisivo preferito. Vi suona familiare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest, this is actually everyday life for a lot of couples. Handling all the daily tasks (and your kids\u2019 demanding requests) is hard enough but<strong> mantenere viva la scintilla<\/strong> nella vostra relazione a lungo termine pu\u00f2 essere ancora pi\u00f9 difficile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Un semplice ma efficace consiglio matrimoniale fa miracoli&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1440\" height=\"1800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices.jpg\" alt=\"consigli per la registrazione delle donne\" class=\"wp-image-164582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices-10x12.jpg 10w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices-864x1080.jpg 864w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-record-advices-960x1200.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@rachelleehiggins\/video\/7323317058622491946?embed_source=%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.upworthy.com%2Fthree-hour-night-marriage-gamechanger-rp&amp;referer_video_id=7323317058622491946\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Per fortuna, qualcuno ha escogitato un trucco efficace per mantenere viva e fiorente la relazione anche nei matrimoni pi\u00f9 impegnativi. Rachel Higgins ha condiviso il suo suggerimento su TikTok e ha affermato che questo semplice cambiamento nella loro routine<strong> hanno migliorato istantaneamente la loro connessione<\/strong>!<em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cIt\u2019s been so fun and such a game-changer for how our evenings go!<\/em>\u201d says Rachel at the beginning of the video. The so-called <strong>\"<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@rachelleehiggins\/video\/7323317058622491946?embed_source=%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.upworthy.com%2Fthree-hour-night-marriage-gamechanger-rp&amp;referer_video_id=7323317058622491946\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Notte di tre ore<\/strong><\/a><strong>\u201d<\/strong> Il suggerimento non \u00e8 efficace solo per <strong>tempo di qualit\u00e0 <\/strong>con il proprio partner, ma anche per <strong>risolvere i vostri compiti<\/strong> for the day, so it\u2019s a 2-in-1 package deal!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She, like many others, used to spend time with her husband in the same boring way every day \u2013 they would just scroll on their phones until they were too tired and then go to bed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Applying \u201cThree-hour night\u201d to their routines <strong>li ha aiutati a organizzare il loro tempo<\/strong> efficacemente e ha cambiato in meglio la loro relazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Il trucco delle tre ore<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1440\" height=\"1800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera.jpg\" alt=\"donna parla alla telecamera\" class=\"wp-image-164583\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera-10x12.jpg 10w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera-864x1080.jpg 864w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/woman-talks-to-camera-960x1200.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@rachelleehiggins\/video\/7323317058622491946?embed_source=%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.upworthy.com%2Fthree-hour-night-marriage-gamechanger-rp&amp;referer_video_id=7323317058622491946\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Before doing anything make sure to put your little gremlins\u2026I mean kids into bed! The trick is to divide your evening until going to bed into three parts, each dedicated to different activities.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t trick yourself into thinking it\u2019s all fun and games, so <strong>stiamo iniziando a lavorare duramente<\/strong> with everyone\u2019s favorite activity \u2013 cleaning! As she describes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWe start with a quick clean up of the kitchen or just things that accumulated throughout the day, and then we try to do something that either has been put off, like cleaning the bathroom or like organizing the pantry or hall closet, or something super random.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Ha anche dato un ulteriore suggerimento nei commenti dicendo che dovremmo <strong>fare un elenco delle faccende domestiche <\/strong>that need to be done throughout the week so it\u2019s easier and quicker to decide what to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The second and most important part is reserved solely for them. During this time they leave their phones so they wouldn\u2019t distract them. You can do anything that will spark the conversation or connection between you and your partner. As Rachel explains:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cThat could be things like showering together or \u2018having fun\u2019 together, playing a game together, or just like anything that&#8217;s gonna get you guys talking and connecting\u2026that&#8217;s gonna strengthen, and build your marriage.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Don\u2019t forget to dedicate time to yourself<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1440\" height=\"1800\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che parla\" class=\"wp-image-164580\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking-10x12.jpg 10w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking-864x1080.jpg 864w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/young-woman-talking-960x1200.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@rachelleehiggins\/video\/7323317058622491946?embed_source=%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.upworthy.com%2Fthree-hour-night-marriage-gamechanger-rp&amp;referer_video_id=7323317058622491946\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>L'ultima ora della serata \u00e8 dedicata a <strong>cura di s\u00e9 <\/strong>e fare tutto ci\u00f2 che si vuole. La chiave di questa parte \u00e8 <strong>di non giudicarci a vicenda<\/strong> in modo da potersi rilassare completamente e non preoccuparsi dell'assillo dell'altra met\u00e0.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Molte persone nei commenti al video hanno avuto reazioni positive e hanno persino ammesso di avere lo stesso problema. <strong>piaceri colpevoli<\/strong>. Un utente ha scritto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cThis is really cool. The housework is equal. The emotional connection is equal and the self-care is equal. No room for resentment.\u201c<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Altri erano preoccupati per la <strong>fattibilit\u00e0 di farlo tutte le sere, <\/strong>e di mettere i figli a letto presto. Rachel ha spiegato che, anche se questo funziona per loro, non ci sono regole ferree, e <strong>ognuno pu\u00f2 adattare questo consiglio alla propria vita. <\/strong>Come ha aggiunto nei commenti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cMain point is to inspire you to be intentional with your time if you feel stuck doing the same thing every night like we did! No hard rules.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Keeping the spark alive isn\u2019t always easy but it\u2019s manageable. It\u2019s important to keep your relationship fun but also enjoy yourself and recharge. Incorporating small things like this into your routine can <strong>per dare un po' di pepe alla situazione,<\/strong> e fare una grande differenza!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Come fate a mantenere la vostra relazione dinamica? Condividete i vostri consigli nei commenti!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes long-term relationships can feel stagnant with nothing new and exciting happening. Especially when it comes to marriage, it is easy to lose ourselves in daily tasks that just seem to keep piling up.&nbsp; You finally come home from work, completely tired with kids screaming and dirty dishes waiting for you. House is a mess&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164581,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164579","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/The-Secret-To-Successful-Long-Term-Relationship-Hides-In-This-Trick-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164579","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164579"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164579\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164584,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164579\/revisions\/164584"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164581"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164579"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}