{"id":164585,"date":"2024-05-22T08:17:18","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T08:17:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164585"},"modified":"2024-05-22T08:17:20","modified_gmt":"2024-05-22T08:17:20","slug":"un-post-su-reddit-scatena-una-polemica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-post-su-reddit-scatena-una-polemica\/","title":{"rendered":"Il post di quest'uomo su Reddit scatena la polemica! Le sue aspettative sono ragionevoli o no?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Prima di iniziare a convivere con il mio ragazzo, mi sono assicurata di definire le mie aspettative in modo chiaro<\/strong> and confirm we were on the same page. I told him directly that if he thinks I am going to do absolutely everything around the house, this isn\u2019t going to work. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He assured me that I shouldn\u2019t worry and that tutto il lavoro sarebbe stato diviso in parti uguali<\/strong> no matter what. Although this should be common sense in the 21st century, it still seems like some men just can\u2019t wrap their heads around it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s funny and sad at the same time that we are currently closer to having flying cars (believe it or not, they are being tested) than men doing as many house chores as women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci si aspetta ancora che le donne facciano tutto<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Credito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Un uomo su Reddit voleva sapere se era irragionevole perch\u00e9 voleva che la sua ragazza si occupasse di tutte le faccende domestiche, persino scegliendo i suoi vestiti e frugando nella sua posta.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La sua ragazza ha appena terminato la specializzazione in medicina e ha due mesi liberi prima di iniziare a lavorare a tempo pieno come medico. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Secondo lui, \u00e8 stata vivere la sua vita migliore <\/strong>and therefore should do more work. He says she\u2019s spending her morning studying (\u00e8 questa la vita migliore di cui parla?<\/em>) per il suo nuovo lavoro, andare in palestra e correre con il suo cane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lei continu\u00f2 a lavorare come al solito e, a quanto pare, questo lo sorprese, dato che arriv\u00f2 a Reddit<\/a> per vedere se stava esagerando. Ha scritto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHowever she hasn\u2019t started contributing more to the household. I mean she still cooks and cleans every day but she still expects me to wash the dishes and she won\u2019t pick up my clothes after I have returned from work. The other day I left a bunch of my mail on the table and when I returned it was left unopened, I asked her why she didn\u2019t look through it and she told me she\u2019s not my secretary.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Questa parte ha indignato gli utenti di Reddit che hanno lasciato pi\u00f9 di mille commenti arrabbiati<\/strong> e hanno espresso le loro oneste opinioni. Cos\u00ec oneste che Reddit ha bloccato il post per impedire ulteriori commenti a causa di un eccesso di violazioni delle regole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le finanze sono divise, ma le faccende domestiche non lo sono<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Credito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Molti hanno dichiarato che \u00e8 comportarsi in modo incredibilmente infantile<\/strong> e come ha commentato un utente: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cDeliberately misrepresenting the situation in order to make it seem as though she’s being dreadfully self-indulgent when in reality, she isn’t doing any less than she ever did, and is in fact doing more.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

At the beginning, he mentioned that they split rent and share all costs 50-50. All I\u2019m hearing is that contribuisce ancora finanziariamente<\/strong> even if she\u2019s not making any money at the time. So if finances are split equally, why wouldn\u2019t the chores be as well? He also added:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI have been hinting that she should be picking up more chores now that she\u2019s unemployed but she says that she\u2019s not my housekeeper, she does more than half of the chores and since my workload has not increased I should be able to do mine.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Un sacco di Gli utenti hanno applaudito la fidanzata<\/strong> per aver gestito la situazione, dicendo che ha gi\u00e0 passato l'inferno durante la specializzazione in medicina. Hanno anche convenuto che dovrebbe godersi il meritato riposo prima di assumersi enormi responsabilit\u00e0 come medico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What seems to have hurt his ego is her comment that she didn\u2019t go to medical school just to be someone\u2019s live-in maid, like this isn\u2019t simply stating facts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le donne dedicano 49 minuti alla pulizia ogni giorno<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Credito: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Indagine americana sull'uso del tempo<\/a>ha fornito informazioni su come gli americani utilizzano il loro tempo. Il rapporto ha rivelato che nel 2022 le donne hanno dedicato in media quasi un'ora del loro tempo alla pulizia della casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I dati su retribuzione oraria media<\/a> rendere evidente che le donne svolgono circa $6K di lavoro non retribuito in pi\u00f9 <\/strong>degli uomini su base annua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This statistic just confirms what we as women already know since we are experiencing it firsthand. So ladies, don\u2019t let a man tell you that you should do all the work. If he doesn\u2019t want to contribute, che assuma una governante<\/strong>. I know I wouldn\u2019t mind!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Before I first started living with my boyfriend, I made sure to set my expectations clear and confirm we were on the same page. I told him directly that if he thinks I am going to do absolutely everything around the house, this isn\u2019t going to work.  He assured me that I shouldn\u2019t worry and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":164587,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/This-Mans-Reddit-Post-Sparks-Controversy-Are-His-Expectations-Reasonable-Or-Not-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164585"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164590,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164585\/revisions\/164590"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164587"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}