{"id":164648,"date":"2024-05-22T12:25:54","date_gmt":"2024-05-22T12:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164648"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:09:36","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:09:36","slug":"il-fratello-dello-sposo-si-rifiuta-di-essere-il-suo-testimone-di-nozze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-fratello-dello-sposo-si-rifiuta-di-essere-il-suo-testimone-di-nozze\/","title":{"rendered":"Il fratello dello sposo si dimette da testimone dopo che la sposa maltratta senza piet\u00e0 la moglie"},"content":{"rendered":"

A long time ago I came across an outrageous testimony of a man who withdrew the decision to be the best man at his brother\u2019s wedding, several days before the event. He couldn\u2019t assess if his reaction was justified or whether he had betrayed his sibling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anche voi sarete scioccati e penserete Come ha potuto fare questo a suo fratello?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ma aspettate di sentire il resto della storia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una babysitter per la moglie?<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Fonte: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Un uomo ha condiviso la sua storia sul canale Reddit AITA<\/a> (the perfect place to get unbiased opinions if you’re struggling to decide if your actions are justified or not). He deleted the post in the meantime but comments remained, so it\u2019s easy to piece the puzzle together and get the dettagli della storia<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cos\u00ec, all'inizio, aveva accettato di fare da testimone al fratello. Gli sposi hanno invitato gli invitati a partire dai 12 anni di et\u00e0. I loro La lista degli invitati comprendeva anche persone con bambini pi\u00f9 piccoli<\/strong> so they\u2019ve arranged an additional room for children, and the babysitter as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Two days before the wedding, during the rehearsal dinner, the man learned his brother and SIL (sister-in-law) assumed his wife should stay in the kids’ venue together with a babysitter. That way he would be able to relax and enjoy the wedding without the need to \u201cfeed her or anything\u201d<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ha inoltre spiegato che la moglie era affetta da una patologia<\/strong> che la rendeva lenta nel rispondere o nel capire ci\u00f2 che gli altri dicevano. A volte aveva bisogno di aiuto per mangiare, quindi lui le tagliava il cibo in piccoli pezzi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All this did not make her unsuitable to sit at an adult’s table. As he explained:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThis doesn’t mean she’s nothing and she’s a smart, capable woman.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Una pressione familiare<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Fonte: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

L'uomo rimase scioccato quando scopr\u00ec che suo fratello e sua cognata avevano deciso di maltrattare la moglie disabile in modo cos\u00ec irrispettoso.<\/strong> Sicuramente si \u00e8 arrabbiato molto e si \u00e8 tirato indietro come testimone di nozze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il la famiglia si \u00e8 infuriata<\/strong> e ha iniziato a mandare messaggi, cercando di fargli cambiare idea. I commenti sotto il post hanno mostrato come la maggior parte dei i lettori hanno appoggiato la sua decisione<\/strong> e ha condannato il comportamento dei suoi genitori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI’d guess OPs parents are trying to avoid the embarrassment for THEM of explaining why the best man isn’t there. Sounds to me like pretty typical religious raised previous generation. Avoid the uncomfortable situation at all costs.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Le persone erano disgustate dall'abitudinariet\u00e0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nei commenti le persone hanno condiviso la sua opinione e hanno ammesso che avrebbero fatto e si sarebbero aspettati lo stesso dai loro partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI would absolutely disown any relative that tried to treat me like OPs family did his wife. If my spouse didn’t stick up for me, I would disown them too. OP did right by his wife. OPs family is awful.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Alcuni sottolineavano che il fratello e SIL stavano infantilizzando la moglie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\"<\/strong>This is one of the most insensitive things I\u2019ve ever read on here, by far. They absolutely did try to treat your wife like a literal child because of her disability, regardless of the reason. Just because it\u2019s \u201cher day\u201d doesn\u2019t give them the right to insult you and your wife like that.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Tutti hanno convenuto che si trattava di un comportamento inaccettabile e che l'uomo aveva ragione a ritirare la sua decisione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI would be absolutely appalled and heartbroken if someone looked at my spouse like that. This is beyond disgusting behavior. She has a delay. She is NOT a child and for them to even <\/strong>suggerimento<\/em><\/strong> that she may be better suited for the children\u2019s venue so you can have a \u201cbetter time\u201d makes my blood boil for you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Qual \u00e8 la sua opinione su questo storia<\/a>? What would you do if you were in this man\u2019s shoes?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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