{"id":16467,"date":"2020-09-15T11:49:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:49:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16467"},"modified":"2022-02-24T00:49:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T00:49:16","slug":"o-mi-vuoi-o-non-mi-vuoi-questa-e-quasi-una-tortura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/o-mi-vuoi-o-non-mi-vuoi-questa-e-quasi-una-tortura\/","title":{"rendered":"O mi vuoi o non mi vuoi, questo \"quasi\" \u00e8 una tortura"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un attimo prima mi avvicini e un attimo dopo mi allontani. Sai come mi fa sentire? Ti rendi conto che stai incasinando la mia mente e il mio cuore?<\/p>\n<p>Desidero la coerenza. Odio questo tuo andare avanti e indietro. Passiamo del tempo insieme e tutto va alla grande.<\/p>\n<p>You are into me I am into you. You are kind, loving and the sweetest man alive while we are together and when we are apart, you don&#8217;t even bother to check up on me.<\/p>\n<p>E non appena mi vedrai allontanare, ti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-inseguire-se-non-sei-pronto-a-catturare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">inseguirmi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Lo odio. Odio i giochi. Odio che tu mi desideri solo quando hai paura di perdermi. Quando sono distante.<\/p>\n<p>I need more than words and empty promises. I need more than, \u201cLet things be. \u201c, \u201cEnjoy the moment don&#8217;t stress about tomorrow \u201c, \u201cAren\u2019t you happy with the way things are now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No, non sono felice ora. Ho bisogno che tu mi dica a che punto siamo. Ho gi\u00e0 sentito tutte le scuse e sono stanco di sentirle.<\/p>\n<p>If you care for me as much as you say you do, I don&#8217;t see anything stopping you but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/segni-che-ha-paura-di-quanto-gli-piaci\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">la propria paura<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121849\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna all&#039;aperto che pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/young-woman-outdoors-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are full of \u2018what ifs\u2019. And so am I. I am scared too.<\/p>\n<p><em>E se mi fai del male? E se tutto andasse per il verso sbagliato? E se trovassi qualcun altro? E se mi spezzassi il cuore come nessuno ha mai fatto?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You know what? I am tired of what-ifs too. We can\u2019t know what the future will bring. What if we are great together? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>E se avessimo qualcosa di reale e lo perdessimo a causa delle paure? Ma sono pronto a rischiare. Sono pronto a lasciare da parte le mie paure. Siete disposti a fare lo stesso?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Spero che lo siate. Perch\u00e9<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-il-momento-di-darsi-una-regolata-perche-lei-non-ti-aspettera-ancora-per-molto\/\"> I won\u2019t wait much longer<\/a>. I think I\u2019ve waited for more than enough.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like I\u2019ve been here already with somebody else and I don\u2019t want to repeat the same scenario\u2014he one that involves a half-assed man, half-assed promises, and half-assed love.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to go through that again. It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t care for you. I really do.<\/p>\n<p>Like I never cared for anyone before but you have to realize that I can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2014\/02\/17\/settling-relationship_n_4777120.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">accontentarsi di meno<\/a> di quanto io meriti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121851\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta sul divano di casa immersa nei suoi pensieri\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-deep-in-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I learned my lessons in the past. I don\u2019t want to look back and see you as one more lesson. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Spero che sarete di pi\u00f9. So che puoi essere di pi\u00f9. So che possiamo essere fantastici insieme. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Somehow, I sense you feel it too\u2014you just haven\u2019t admitted it to yourself. I hope you will before it\u2019s too late. Before I give up on us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Devi solo prendermi tra le braccia e dirmi che ci stai. Poi potremo fare le cose con calma. Un passo alla volta.<\/p>\n<p>Ho solo bisogno di sapere che sei mia. Che puoi chiamarmi con orgoglio la tua ragazza o presentarmi ai tuoi amici.<\/p>\n<p>Che siete pronti a scommettere e a puntare tutto su di noi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi decidete. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-non-riesci-ad-amarmi-nel-modo-giusto-fatti-da-parte-cosi-che-qualcun-altro-possa-farlo\/\">Either you want me or you don\u2019t<\/a>. I don\u2019t want to be stuck in the middle with you anymore. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Odio la situazione in cui ci troviamo. Sembra una tortura. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s not making me happy or complete. I hate the \u201calmost\u201d love you are giving me. I hope you will realize that I deserve more than almost. We are better than \u201calmost\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121838\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"O mi vuoi o non mi vuoi, questo &quot;quasi&quot; \u00e8 una tortura\" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are pulling me close one minute and you are pushing me away the next one. Do you know how that makes me feel? Do you realize you are messing with my mind and my heart? I crave consistency. I hate this back and forth thing you do. We spend time together and everything is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121850,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/You-Either-Want-Me-Or-You-Dont-This-Almost-Is-Torture-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16467"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16467\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}