{"id":164714,"date":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164714"},"modified":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T13:51:02","slug":"segni-che-mostrano-se-si-e-stabilita-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-mostrano-se-si-e-stabilita-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Non siete sicuri che la vostra relazione si stia stabilizzando? Fate attenzione a questi segnali"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi \u00e8 mai capitato di ascoltare una vostra amica parlare del suo fidanzato o marito e di pensare: <em>\u201cOh God, she could do much better than that.\u201d<\/em> Gi\u00e0, <strong>non siete soli<\/strong>. Nove volte su dieci probabilmente avevate ragione perch\u00e9 avevate notato degli schemi che avevano <em>bandiera rossa<\/em> scritto su di esso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mia madre diceva sempre:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cNever settle for a man because you feel sorry for him or you\u2019re scared of being alone.\u201d<\/em> Lasciatemi dire che quella donna aveva completamente ragione. Giuro, qualcuno dovrebbe darle un talk show!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Naturalmente nessuno vuole accontentarsi, ma spesso ci si perde in <strong>il labirinto delle esperienze tossiche<\/strong>. This sometimes happens because we don\u2019t even notice that right away. It looks like the famous phrase that <em>l'amore ci rende ciechi<\/em> \u00e8 vero, dopo tutto!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Se queste bandiere rosse vi suonano familiari, scappate!<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che tengono in mano i telefoni e si guardano l&#039;un l&#039;altro\" class=\"wp-image-164750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-and-woman-holding-phones-and-looking-at-each-other-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Grazie a Dio c'\u00e8 TikTok perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ladylikelifeshop\/video\/7359344007589383470\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@ladylikelifeshop<\/a> shared her view on what the most common red flags are, that can actually help you realize whether you\u2019re settling or not!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You know those couples who caption their pictures: \u201cWe had our ups and downs, it wasn\u2019t always easy\u2026\u201d Yeah, think twice before saying they are <em>\u201ccouple goals\u201d<\/em> e un'ispirazione.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>@ladylikelifeshop spiega:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cLife is hard and life can happen to your relationship. Your relationship should not be hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish I realized this earlier! Even if we had a hard period with someone, it\u2019s important to know the reasons behind it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Forse abbiamo sperimentato qualche <strong>difficolt\u00e0 al di fuori della nostra relazione<\/strong>come la perdita di una persona cara, una malattia o un altro evento inaspettato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Things we don\u2019t have control over can occur sometimes, and that is fine.<\/strong> The problem is when you\u2019re miserable <em>perch\u00e9<\/em> of your relationship! I ain\u2019t judging, we\u2019ve all been there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The woman continues to explain how she doesn\u2019t agree with people saying that the first year of marriage is the hardest because it shouldn\u2019t be. The first thing I thought when she said that was \u2013 say it louder for the people in the back!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ci sono modi per evitarlo, come <strong>assicurarsi di conoscere veramente la persona<\/strong> con cui passerete il resto della vostra vita. Dovrebbe essere logico, no?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In un altro <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ladylikelifeshop\/video\/7358611873559825706\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TikTok<\/a>, she listed some of the red flags in a relationship that aren\u2019t talked about enough. To be honest, when I watch videos like this one, I sometimes feel like she\u2019s describing my past relationships (maybe we should make a support group?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@julie_anna_j\/video\/7358611873559825706\" data-video-id=\"7358611873559825706\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@julie_anna_j\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@julie_anna_j?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@julie_anna_j<\/a> <p><a title=\"punto\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/stitch?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#stitch<\/a> with @eringibney let\u2019s talk about it! Part gossip, part advice \ud83e\udd2a<\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - julie_anna_j\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7358612010721987374?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; julie_anna_j<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Purtroppo \u00e8 stata vittima delle stesse cose da cui ci mette in guardia. Come direbbe Pitbull: <em>\u201cBelieve me, been there, done that.\u201d<\/em> Ha ammesso di aver anche <strong>didn\u2019t realize she was settling in her previous long-term relationship until they broke up.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s like we all magically see all the <strong>segnali di pericolo<\/strong> dopo l'uscita dalla relazione. Ha spiegato il primo segno:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWhen you are compatible with someone, you will barely ever fight, and when you disagree over something it\u2019s a totally different type of disagreement because there is no resentment anywhere.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Oltre a questo, @ladylikelifeshop segnala che <strong>it\u2019s never right if someone wants to change you<\/strong>. Non per diventare una persona migliore, ma per cambiare letteralmente la vostra personalit\u00e0, il vostro modo di vestire e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another thing that\u2019s very important is to <strong>make sure you\u2019re on the same page <\/strong>when it comes to your plans. It\u2019s something you should discuss at the beginning of your relationship. As she said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYou have to be able to live in a way that is compatible with your goals, both of you, without having to nag him every single day, or it will not work.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I couldn\u2019t agree more with her tips! Maybe she can join my mom on a talk show, or maybe the two of them can lead our support group?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Una relazione sana porta pace, non caos<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love.jpg\" alt=\"coppia innamorata\" class=\"wp-image-164751\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/couple-in-love-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve never been more thankful for social media and TikToker <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@oldsoulentries<\/a> \u00e8 parte del motivo! Ha aggiunto un'ulteriore prospettiva basata sulla sua esperienza personale.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kristen ha avuto modo di vedere esempi di relazioni sia buone che cattive e quindi \u00e8 stata molto severa (come \u00e8 giusto che sia) quando si \u00e8 trattato di trovare il suo partner perfetto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Voleva essere sicura <strong>she didn\u2019t lower her standards<\/strong> solo per il gusto di avere una relazione. Penso che qualcuno dovrebbe gi\u00e0 dare un trofeo a questa donna!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nella sua <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\/video\/7358823483192724778?embed_source=%3Bnull%3Bembed_name&amp;refer=embed&amp;referer_url=www.dailydot.com%2Fnews%2Fhow-to-tell-if-youre-settling%2F&amp;referer_video_id=7358823483192724778\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">video<\/a>, Kristen added that she didn\u2019t understand couples who were saying that \u201cmoving in stage\u201d is not all colors and rainbows because she couldn\u2019t relate. Apparently, God has its favorites! As she said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cIf you are with the right person I genuinely believe it\u2019s like having a sleepover with your best friend every single day. We just laugh, we have fun together, we accomplish and tackle things together. If you are questioning things and if you\u2019re not having fun living with this person\u2026that\u2019s probably a big sign that you might be settling.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries\/video\/7358823483192724778\" data-video-id=\"7358823483192724778\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@oldsoulentries\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@oldsoulentries?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@oldsoulentries<\/a> <p>What \u201cdon\u2019t settle\u201d actually means!! @Lady Like Life Store such a great explanation <a title=\"mentalit\u00e0\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/mindset?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#mindset<\/a> <a title=\"gratitudine-mentalit\u00e0\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/gratitudemindset?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Gratitudine-mentalit\u00e0<\/a> <a title=\"consigli sulle relazioni\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationshipadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Consigli di relazione<\/a> <a title=\"relazioni\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationships?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">1TP5Relazioni<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c suono originale - Kristen \ud83c\udf1e\ud83c\udf3f\ud83c\udf0e\ud83c\udf3b\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7358823768191437610?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Kristen \ud83c\udf1e\ud83c\udf3f\ud83c\udf0e\ud83c\udf3b<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Kristen continua a spiegare che il <strong>Il segreto di una relazione o di un matrimonio lungo e sano<\/strong> \u00e8 assicurarsi che l'altra met\u00e0 sappia<strong> <\/strong>quanto li apprezzi. Ha detto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cI think that gratitude and expressing gratitude to the other person every single day is like the biggest connection point you can have. It never gets old, you can never do too much!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I suoi follower sono stati d'accordo con lei e hanno condiviso le loro esperienze (alcuni direbbero traumi). Un utente ha scritto qualcosa che dovremmo mettere nei libri:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYour partnership should be your refuge and bring you peace! If it doesn\u2019t, they\u2019re not the right one.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Alla fine della giornata, <strong>avere rispetto di s\u00e9<\/strong> <strong>\u00e8 la radice di una buona collaborazione.<\/strong> Se tollerate costantemente un comportamento tossico solo per poter avere quell'appuntamento il sabato, allora dovete controllare voi stessi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cambiando noi stessi in meglio, possiamo cambiare anche la nostra vita. Gli altri possono amarci pienamente, solo <strong>quando amiamo veramente noi stessi.<\/strong> Questo \u00e8 l'ingrediente segreto per un amore sano!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever listened to your friend talk about her boyfriend or husband and thought: \u201cOh God, she could do much better than that.\u201d Yeah, you are not alone. 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