{"id":164936,"date":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","date_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164936"},"modified":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","modified_gmt":"2024-05-28T11:31:17","slug":"come-flirtare-su-instagram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-flirtare-su-instagram\/","title":{"rendered":"Come flirtare su Instagram e ottenere un appuntamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Okay, let\u2019s get real. We often use Instagram as a dating app. There, I said it! I am sorry, Mark Zuckerberg, it is what it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You sometimes find yourself stalking someone\u2019s profile, analyzing their pictures and stories while trying to figure out how to talk to them. Well, you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a reality for many people, but don\u2019t worry, I got your back! Just listen to me and imparerete a scivolare nei loro DM e a restarci. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So che l'intero concetto di Instagram pu\u00f2 essere un po' complicato, perch\u00e9 un passo sbagliato pu\u00f2 portarvi in \u201cseen land\u201d<\/em> o, peggio ancora, un elenco di blocco. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, le mie tattiche di flirt su Instagram mi hanno assicurato un uomo<\/strong> so I think I know what I\u2019m talking about! But before we start, I have a question! What does your IG profile look like?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Il vostro profilo \u00e8 una finestra sulla vostra vita<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"bruna<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Try to look at your profile from someone else\u2019s perspective and see if you would accept your request in their place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La prima impressione \u00e8 sempre importante e questa potrebbe essere l'unica occasione per attirare la loro attenzione<\/strong> or a reply back. If you don\u2019t have a profile picture of yourself, your bio is empty, and your profile is locked, don\u2019t expect them to accept your request. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Personally, when I get a request from someone with a profile like that, I don\u2019t even think twice but decline it immediately. So make sure your profile looks attractive, and if they do accept your request, don\u2019t like all of their pictures immediately just because you\u2019re excited, take it slow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Rilassarsi con i like<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Calm down, I get you, you don\u2019t know how to get their attention. Trust me, there are better ways to do it than attacking the like button. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. Liking a few of their recent photos is a great way to get noticed at first but pu\u00f2 anche risultare fastidioso o addirittura strano<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi \u00e8 capitato che ai ragazzi piacessero tutte le mie foto nel giro di un paio di minuti, e badate bene, avevo sempre una collezione di post piuttosto grande. Ancora peggio sarebbe se gli piacessero nel cuore della notte, scegliendo solo quelle che ho postato mentre ero in spiaggia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, it\u2019s giving Joe Goldberg energy. Don\u2019t be that guy that will end up in a girls’ group chat as a \u201cinquietante stalker di mezzanotte<\/em>\u201d. Instead, play it cool, and if you wouldn\u2019t bother someone like that when you meet them in person, then why do it online?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Comportarsi come nella vita reale<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"donna<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

If you saw someone you like in public, would you approach them and start harassing them, saying inappropriate things? Well, let\u2019s hope not! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

People can get weird on social media because they get too comfortable and give themselves more freedom. Don\u2019t hide behind your profile and think you suddenly became someone else and then give completely different energy in person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ricordate sempre che just because it\u2019s an online world, it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not real<\/strong>. Being genuine and respectful will take you further than pretending you are something you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I once went on a date with someone who seemed perfect over messages. However, when we finally met in person he was a weirdo and even attacked the waiter just because he didn\u2019t put ice in his drink! Safe to say I was shocked and never went out with him again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Don\u2019t force things<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The best flow is the natural flow and honestly, this goes for everything in your life. My friends and I would often try to figure out what is the logic behind someone who repeatedly sends you a follow request and just doesn\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se l'ho negato ieri e dieci volte prima, perch\u00e9 pensa che abbia cambiato idea? Questo non pu\u00f2 che rendervi pi\u00f9 ripugnanti<\/strong>e non il contrario. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo stesso vale per la messaggistica. Entrate nei loro DM ma vi lasciano in sospeso o vi danno solo risposte a vuoto? Per favore, prendete il cartello. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Le parole gentili possono aprire una porta di ferro<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Donna<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Questo \u00e8 sicuramente il mio motto di vita. In base alla mia esperienza, e questo vale per ogni aspetto della vita, Spesso le parole scelte con cura permettono di ottenere ci\u00f2 che si vuole.<\/strong>. Basta sapere come realizzarli nel modo giusto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec che mi sono riservata un appuntamento con chiunque volessi, e alla fine ho persino sposato un ragazzo conosciuto su IG!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wouldn\u2019t just react with a fire emoji on his selfie, I took it to the next level. I would wait for him to post something about things he did or loved and then take it as a chance to start a conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOmg! I didn\u2019t know you also loved that TV show. It\u2019s my favorite!\u201d<\/em> Something like this would always keep a conversation going for quite a while. It\u2019s also proven that Le persone sono pi\u00f9 disposte a rispondere quando si<\/strong> porre loro una domanda<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So instead of only congratulating them for their achievement, ask them to tell you more about that experience. You can even ask for advice on something they\u2019re good at. If people like something, then it must be talking about themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ricordate sempre di keep it casual and don\u2019t be too pushy<\/strong>. Piccoli errori possono costare molto. Possono sembrare molte le cose da tenere d'occhio, ma la pratica rende perfetti!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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