{"id":16494,"date":"2020-03-15T13:31:21","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T13:31:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16494"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:04:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:04:59","slug":"3-segni-che-non-sei-altro-che-la-sua-ragazza-di-ripiego","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/3-segni-che-non-sei-altro-che-la-sua-ragazza-di-ripiego\/","title":{"rendered":"3 segni che non sei altro che la sua ragazza di ripiego"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se il vostro ragazzo \u00e8 uscito da poco da una relazione a lungo termine, \u00e8 perfettamente normale che vi chiediate se le cose tra loro due siano davvero finite.<\/p>\n<p>You know that most people take time to get over a relationship and to find someone else and that scares you. You don\u2019t know if your boyfriend has given himself enough time to grieve his past relationship and to process the break-up before he met you.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, the relationship between the two of you is going great, so you simply don\u2019t know what to think. Has he really gotten over his past relationship or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-hes-faking-hes-moved-on\/\" rel=\"noopener\">is he just faking that he\u2019s moved on<\/a> con la sua vita?<\/p>\n<p>Ti sta usando per dimenticare lei e per farla ingelosire o \u00e8 davvero pronto per qualcosa di serio? Queste sono tutte le domande che ti passano per la testa, ma le risposte non si trovano da nessuna parte.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se avete dei dubbi sul fatto di essere una ragazza di ripiego per il vostro fidanzato, ecco 3 chiari segni che lo siete.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. La sua ex-fidanzata fa ancora parte della sua vita<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It is perfectly normal for an ex-couple to stay in friendly relations and it\u2019s the same with your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend. The fact that they\u2019ve stayed on good terms doesn\u2019t have to mean anything.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s one thing if they are polite to each other when they accidentally meet and another if they call each other for some reason. If she still has an active role in his life, it is quite likely that things between the two of them are not quite over.<\/p>\n<p>If your boyfriend still hangs out with his ex or with her friends and family on a regular basis, it is possible that he\u2019s still not ready to move on with his life and that he wants to stay in hers, one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect him to pretend like she and everyone around her were never a part of his life but if he acts like the two of them never ended things, it should ring alarm bells for you.<\/p>\n<p>Un'altra cosa che potrebbe essere una bandiera rossa \u00e8 il fatto che si imbatta costantemente nella sua ex ragazza.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really a coincidence, due to the similar habits they developed while they were in a relationship, or maybe he has an urge to see her but doesn\u2019t want to admit it, so he makes it all look like a coincidence?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Parla sempre di lei<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se il vostro partner ha avuto una relazione a lungo termine con qualcuno, dovete accettare che questa persona ha rappresentato una parte importante della sua vita.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you shouldn\u2019t be bothered if he mentions her from time to time, when she is relevant to some event from his past which he wants to share with you. But it doesn\u2019t mean that he ought to talk about her all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Se continua a nominare la sua ex ragazza senza alcun motivo, questo pu\u00f2 essere uno dei segni che siete bloccati in un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/11-segni-che-siete-bloccati-in-una-relazione-malsana-di-ripiego\/\">relazione di ripiego malsana<\/a>. This can mean that he probably thinks about her all the time and can\u2019t help but mention her.<\/p>\n<p>Se ti senti costantemente paragonata a lei e se ti sembra di dover competere con i fantasmi del suo passato, sei solo la sua ragazza di ripiego, senza dubbio.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. \u00c8 troppo ansioso di mostrarvi in pubblico<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando si incontra per la prima volta un ragazzo che vuole rendere la vostra relazione il pi\u00f9 pubblica possibile, di solito lo si prende come un ottimo segno. Pensate che sia <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-cose-che-luomo-ama-follemente\/\">follemente innamorato di te<\/a> e che \u00e8 orgoglioso di avere una fidanzata del genere e che vuole che lo sappiano anche tutti quelli che lo circondano.<\/p>\n<p>But this isn\u2019t always such a good sign. Every relationship has its own pace and if your boyfriend wants to move things too fast, you need to ask yourself what he is trying to prove and to whom.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s been introducing you to all of his friends and family and he keeps posting pictures of the two of you all over social media but is it possible that he is only trying to make his ex-girlfriend jealous? Does he invest more energy in making your relationship look good from the outside rather than improving it for real?<\/p>\n<p>If this is the case, it is likely that your boyfriend just wants his ex-girlfriend\u2019s attention. He doesn\u2019t choose which ways to get it and he is ready to do whatever it takes just so she finds out that he is completely over her.<\/p>\n<p>La dura verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che lei potrebbe essere solo il suo strumento per sbatterle in faccia la sua nuova felicit\u00e0.<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If your boyfriend has recently gotten out of a long-term relationship, it is perfectly normal for you to wonder whether things are really over between the two of them. You know that most people take time to get over a relationship and to find someone else and that scares you. You don\u2019t know if your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":16495,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/jake-davies-235504-unsplash.jpg",800,600,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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