{"id":164997,"date":"2024-05-31T07:45:51","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T07:45:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164997"},"modified":"2024-05-31T07:45:52","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T07:45:52","slug":"la-nonna-si-e-rifiutata-di-fare-da-babysitter-gratuitamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-nonna-si-e-rifiutata-di-fare-da-babysitter-gratuitamente\/","title":{"rendered":"I nonni dovrebbero essere tenuti a fare da babysitter gratuitamente?"},"content":{"rendered":"

My best childhood days always return me to the same place \u2013 my grandparents\u2019 house. I can still remember the coziness of their old armchair next to the fireplace. The sound of fire cracking and the smell of freshly baked cookies will forever be engraved in my mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ho trascorso un bel po' di tempo l\u00ec e ho capito che i miei nonni sarebbero ricchi oggi se venissero pagati ogni volta che si sono presi cura di me<\/strong>! I am sure they did it out of love, but still\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sapevate che circa 60% dei nonni negli Stati Uniti fornisce regolarmente assistenza ai nipoti?<\/strong><\/a> Anche se questo non \u00e8 un dato sconvolgente, il fatto che meno di 8% di loro sono pagati per questo <\/strong>sicuramente lo \u00e8!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tutti sanno di amare i propri figli pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa al mondo. Tuttavia, immaginate di crescere i vostri figli, di lavorare duramente per tutta la vita e, quando finalmente andate in pensione, qualcuno si aspetta che facciate da babysitter gratuitamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I would be one pissed-off grandma no matter how much I love those kids, that\u2019s for sure! One woman started a whole discussion on the internet\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sono ragionevole se mi aspetto che mia madre faccia la babysitter gratis?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Immaginate un giorno in cui gli utenti di Reddit siano finalmente d'accordo su qualche argomento. Potrebbe sembrare un altro episodio di Missione Impossibile<\/em>, but we are living in that moment right now. I know, I also couldn\u2019t believe it! Wonder what\u2019s the topic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una donna si rivolse a Reddit<\/a> per avere un'opinione su un dramma familiare. A quanto pare, la madre si rifiut\u00f2 di prendersi cura del neonato<\/strong>. Grandmother said she was too old for that and had already done her part by raising her children (preach). This didn\u2019t sit right with a woman so she wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cShe also added that if I really wanted this baby, then maybe I should have thought about staying home like she did to take care of it while my partner goes to work and provides for us like a “traditional” family, and that if she and my dad were able to work it out, so can we.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

La mamma ci ha spiegato che le cose sono difficili dopo la pandemia e che loro can\u2019t survive on one income<\/strong> so she needs to go back to work. When you\u2019re the one making more money, you can\u2019t afford to be a stay-at-home mom. She continued:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI as the higher breadwinner, have an internal obligation to go back to work since not only I have the most at stake, I also make the most to keep our family afloat. We are currently in a small, 1-bedroom apartment in a metropolitan area, and would need to save money to move to a 2-bedroom once the baby grows up in a couple of years as we will need more space.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Grandma couldn\u2019t say no to her daughter after all, but ha chiesto di essere pagata per il babysitting.<\/strong> Inoltre, voleva che le fornissero tutto ci\u00f2 di cui il bambino avrebbe avuto bisogno, come seggiolino auto, passeggino e altro ancora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ha concluso il post chiedendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cSo, AITA for wanting my mom, who again is at home all day long (trust me, she does not do anything besides watch TV and cook meals), to take care of my baby for free while me and my partner try to fix our finances?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Lei ha chiesto, e gli utenti di Reddit hanno risposto!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The final Reddit\u2019s verdict is that\u2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Grandparents are not obligated to take care of their grandchildren! Even though they might have a lot of free time on their hands it doesn\u2019t mean they should spend it on working. And I totally agree!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quelle persone hanno lavorato tutta la vita e si sono guadagnate la pensione. dovrebbero fare quello che vogliono nel loro tempo libero.<\/strong> If they want to sleep all day long and do nothing, it\u2019s their choice! One user wrote:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIt\u2019s generous of her to be willing to do it for pay, and you have the gall to be mad she won\u2019t do it for free? She is entitled to spend her life and free time however the hell she wants. It\u2019s not her fault you\u2019re in debt and decided to have a baby you can\u2019t afford.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Molte persone hanno giudicato la madre per non essersi assunta la responsabilit\u00e0 e preparata finanziariamente prima di avere un figlio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I bambini sono costosi! Studi<\/a> dimostrare che il costo della crescita di un bambino nel 2024 \u00e8 di circa $306.924<\/strong> per le famiglie a medio reddito. E questo solo fino all'et\u00e0 di 17 anni! Quindi, se state pensando di avere dei figli, pensateci due volte!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although all grandparents love spending time with their grandchildren (this is universal, right?), we need to understand their point of view too! We shouldn\u2019t be entitled to think we have free daycare just because our parents are retired and \u201chave nothing better to do\u201d. Trust me, they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If there\u2019s a simple, single solution to most of the problems humans face, it must be communication! Discussione aperta sulle nostre aspettative<\/strong> con il nostro partner e la nostra famiglia prima di prendere decisioni importanti pu\u00f2 evitarci molti grattacapi. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qual \u00e8 il vostro verdetto su questo tema? Condividete la vostra opinione nei commenti!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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