{"id":165019,"date":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165019"},"modified":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T15:59:22","slug":"domande-sulla-gen-z-che-frequentano-i-millennial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/domande-sulla-gen-z-che-frequentano-i-millennial\/","title":{"rendered":"Una donna Gen Z si interroga sulla sua decisione di uscire con i Millenials dopo aver ricevuto questo messaggio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mi ricordo di una volta in cui stavo chattando con un ragazzo millenario. Era pessimo nel mandare messaggi, niente emoji, gif, niente! Io ero sempre cercando di decodificare i suoi sentimenti dietro i messaggi<\/strong> che mi mandava. \u00c8 sicuro che non sono mai riuscito a rilassarmi del tutto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although there wasn\u2019t much chemistry going on, I decided to go out with him and give him a chance because he seemed sweet. God, I made such a mistake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I never expected a few years of age gap would be such a challenge! He didn\u2019t understand any of the slang I\u2019m used to saying so I spent half of our date just explaining Gen Z terms to him. I felt like a fricking dictionary!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And just imagine my pain when he said he never used TikTok. Great, I thought, now I can\u2019t even reference viral trends and he won\u2019t understand my humor!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quindi s\u00ec, dopo questo appuntamento ho capito che maybe Gen Z and millennials aren\u2019t so compatible<\/strong> after all. However, it turns out I\u2019m not alone in this thought\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIs he a bad texter or is he 35?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Una creatrice di TikTok, Elizabeth Castaldi, ha fatto il giro del web con i suoi 7 secondi video<\/a>! Ha avuto un appuntamento con un uomo di 35 anni e ha finito per scioccata dopo aver ricevuto il suo messaggio il giorno dopo<\/strong>. Immaginate di svegliarvi il giorno dopo il vostro appuntamento tutti eccitati e di ricevere questo messaggio:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHey, had fun last night. Have a good day.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"donna<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Yeah, I would be confused too, but maybe that\u2019s only because I\u2019m Gen Z too? Well, after all, una semplice emoji non ha mai fatto male a nessuno<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, he had me in the first half. But then what\u2019s with this passive-aggressive second sentence? I feel like even the emoji wouldn\u2019t be able to save it from sounding so formal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elisabetta ha fatto s\u00ec che l'intero guerra tra Gen Z e millennial<\/strong> in the comments! Her peers related to her saying he\u2019s texting with that pap\u00e0 energia<\/em>. Alcune hanno anche condiviso i loro tentativi disperati di decifrare i messaggi dei loro fidanzati millennial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Altri, invece, si sono schierati dalla parte dei loro colleghi millennial:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c35 here. I see no issue with that. Because it’s what I send. I want to gauge if you had a good time. To set up another date.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

They also said she shouldn\u2019t overthink it because it\u2019s simply the way they text everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questo TikTok \u00e8 stato anche un campanello d'allarme perch\u00e9 alcune persone si sono rese conto di essere diventate vecchie da quando they genuinely didn\u2019t understand what was wrong<\/strong> con il messaggio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Molti millennial nei commenti (che siano benedetti) sono stati anche abbastanza coraggiosi da accettare il loro destino e chiedere semplicemente consigli su come messaggiare meglio. Gli utenti della generazione Z, ovviamente, hanno salvato la situazione con tutti i consigli!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dato che Elizabeth ha incuriosito tutti con la sua vita sentimentale, era giusto dare agli altri un seguito alla sua storia!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alcuni testi non sono poi cos\u00ec difficili da decifrare<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

She admitted she didn\u2019t mind the first message as much but she was confused if he wanted to see her again. Without waiting for her date to break the ice, lei<\/strong> ha seguito il consiglio dei suoi seguaci e lo ha invitato ad uscire<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A questo punto, mi sono sentita investita, ma per fortuna lei ha condiviso un altro TikTok<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"mani<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Dopo aver espresso il desiderio di vederlo mercoled\u00ec, lui ha risposto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cNext week might be a little crazy with work as I have some deals closing. Basically not sure I\u2019d be able to make it to RI. So maybe we play it by ear a little.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Okay, let\u2019s address the elephant in the room \u2013 \u201cplay it by ear\u201d<\/em>? I mean, who speaks like that to their date?! This is probably Gen Z speaking out of me, but still\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dopo aver visto questa conversazione, i suoi seguaci sono finalmente d'accordo sulla stessa cosa<\/strong> \u2013 he\u2019s not interested. One girl gave her friendly advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf he\u2019s not organizing a second date it\u2019s simple, he\u2019s not interested in you, and that\u2019s ok, move on girl.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

It looks like sometimes some texts send a clear message, we just need to open our eyes and be real with ourselves. However, even if you\u2019re dating someone with an age gap, don\u2019t lose hope! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si pu\u00f2 sempre insegnare loro a messaggiare meglio e ad essere diretti con le proprie esigenze<\/strong>. If they really care about you, sending an emoji here and there, and leaving formal texting for work colleagues shouldn\u2019t be an issue!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I remember this one time when I was chatting with a millennial guy. He was awful at texting, no emojis, gifs, nothing! I was always trying to decode his feelings behind the messages he sent me. Safe to say I could never fully relax. Although there wasn\u2019t much chemistry going on, I decided to go…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":165043,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Gen-Z-Woman-Questions-Her-Decision-To-Date-Millenials-After-Receiving-This-Message-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165019"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165049,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165019\/revisions\/165049"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165043"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}