{"id":16507,"date":"2018-03-15T13:52:22","date_gmt":"2018-03-15T13:52:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16507"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:42:49","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:42:49","slug":"sei-stata-la-mia-lezione-piu-dura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-stata-la-mia-lezione-piu-dura\/","title":{"rendered":"Sei stata la mia lezione pi\u00f9 difficile"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando sei entrato nella mia vita per la prima volta, ero certo che <\/span>sei stata la mia benedizione.<\/b> Eri tutto ci\u00f2 per cui avevo sempre pregato. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were smart, interesting, handsome and mature. I thought I\u2019d finally found my other half, my soulmate. For the first time ever, my life made perfect sense with you in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi hai completato<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you were the missing part of the puzzle. I\u2019d met someone who understood me, who took care of me and who was always by my side, no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto avevo qualcuno che mi amava incondizionatamente. O almeno questo era quello che pensavo. Consideravo il suo amore per me fuori dal mondo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Noi due eravamo un'accoppiata perfetta.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Il destino deve averti mandato da me, non c'era altra spiegazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then everything changed overnight. Actually, you changed and it probably didn\u2019t happen overnight or maybe you showed your true face? <\/span><\/p>\n

In ogni caso, una mattina mi sono svegliata e ho capito che la nostra relazione era condannata. Ma ho continuato a lottare per tenerla in vita. Ho continuato a lottare contro di te. Ma niente \u00e8 servito. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sei diventato distante e emotivamente violento. Hai smesso di dimostrarmi quanto ti importava di me.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>probabilmente perch\u00e9 hai smesso di preoccuparti. <\/span><\/p>\n

I realized that you had been too good to be true in the beginning and I\u2019d finally seen your true colors. You\u2019d become selfish and controlling and then all the affairs started. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I didn\u2019t leave you even then. I lost all the confidence I had and I just waited for you to go back to your old ways. I wasn\u2019t stupid<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Sapevo che mi stavi tradendo, ma mi rifiutavo di accettare la verit\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was ready to stay by your side, although it killed me knowing I wasn\u2019t the only one for you. I reassured myself that you only loved me and that not one of these girls were important to you. Until one day, you left me for one of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

E cos\u00ec facendo hai distrutto tutto il mio mondo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando mi hai lasciato, <\/span>L'ho vista come una maledizione.<\/b> Pensavo che fosse la cosa peggiore che potesse capitarmi. Cosa avevo fatto per meritarmi una cosa del genere? <\/span><\/p>\n

Why couldn\u2019t you love me? I did everything right but even that wasn\u2019t enough. Fate had given you to me just to show me what love was. And having to live without you was my curse. <\/span><\/p>\n

Per me, la mia vita era giunta al capolinea<\/span>\u2014<\/span>non aveva pi\u00f9 alcuno scopo o significato. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you left, you didn\u2019t just take yourself away from me<\/span>\u2014<\/span>hai portato il mio cuore con te<\/span><\/a> e non avevo alcuna speranza per un domani migliore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ero devastata, a pezzi e non avrei mai immaginato di potermi riprendere. Passavo i miei giorni ad aspettare che tornassi, nonostante il modo in cui mi trattavi e nonostante il modo in cui mi avevi lasciato. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is a period of my life I don\u2019t remember gladly. I just know that I didn\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel until one morning, you weren\u2019t the first thing that crossed my mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

And when I realized that during the day, I was ecstatic. I didn\u2019t know how or why it happened but I hoped that I was about to begin my path to recovery. <\/span><\/p>\n

And I was right. It wasn\u2019t easy and it wasn\u2019t fast but it happened. I got over you and I moved on.<\/span><\/p>\n

E <\/span>Ora mi rendo conto che non sei stato n\u00e9 una benedizione n\u00e9 una maledizione. Sei stata una lezione<\/a> Ho dovuto imparare. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still believe that everything happens for a reason. And you were sent to my life for a reason. Although I don\u2019t think that my life is meaningless without you anymore, I am sure that your existence in it had a bigger purpose. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned how strong I actually am. You leaving me has made me a lot tougher and braver. Now I know that if I can get over you, I can also take whatever life throws at me.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that I shouldn\u2019t believe everyone from the very start. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prima di incontrarti, pensavo che tutti quelli che mi circondavano fossero onesti e che non avessero cattive intenzioni. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma dopo di te, ho capito che esistono persone cattive che amano fingere di essere qualcosa che non sono. Ci sono persone che si divertono a giocare con gli altri e che si divertono a rendere gli altri infelici. Tu sei una di queste persone. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that I should never put so much love, effort and patience into someone who doesn\u2019t do the same for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have known what it is that I don\u2019t want from life.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would have spent the rest of my life without knowing what true love is all about.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never <\/span>ho imparato ad amare me stesso<\/span><\/a>. When you left, I had this enormous amount of love I didn\u2019t know what to do with. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ho continuato a cercare qualcuno a cui dare il mio amore, finch\u00e9 non ho capito che dovevo darlo a me stessa prima di amare qualcun altro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, grazie per essere entrata nella mia vita. Ma ancora di pi\u00f9, grazie per averla lasciata. E <\/span>thank you for teaching me a lesson I\u2019d never have learned otherwise.<\/b><\/p>\n

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