{"id":165075,"date":"2024-06-03T10:49:32","date_gmt":"2024-06-03T10:49:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165075"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:13:47","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:13:47","slug":"miti-sugli-uomini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/miti-sugli-uomini\/","title":{"rendered":"Sfatiamo i miti e infrangiamo gli stereotipi sugli uomini"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been wrong about men my entire life. I\u2019m not afraid to admit it. It\u2019s not easy to grow up and live in a world that\u2019s full of stereotypes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I couldn\u2019t know any better because that\u2019s what I was taught in school, what I saw in movies, and read on the internet. Luckily, <strong>Sono riuscita a superare i miei pregiudizi e a lasciarmi alle spalle tutti gli stereotipi.<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although the guys I dated weren\u2019t a perfect match for me, they taught me a thing or two about men in general. Who knew there are so many things about men we got completely wrong?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cReal men don\u2019t cry\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo duro\" class=\"wp-image-165077\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Tough-man-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Starting strong with the famous quote known to everyone! Come on, we live in the 21st century for God\u2019s sake! I thought we\u2019d be over with this by now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La societ\u00e0 dipinge gli uomini come esseri che se ne vanno in giro senza una sola preoccupazione. Fin da quando siamo bambini, guardiamo film in cui <strong>Gli uomini sono mostrati come duri come una roccia e privi di emozioni.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s obviously not the case and we shouldn\u2019t treat it as a condition to be considered manly. Even cartoon characters like Millhouse in the Simpsons are <strong>sempre ridicolizzato per il suo essere romantico ed emotivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A volte dimentichiamo che anche gli uomini sono esseri umani e quindi hanno emozioni, positive e negative, che devono essere espresse senza essere derise.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cAsking for help is a sign of weakness\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>While I was living with my parents, my dad was in charge of repairing everything in our house and backyard. Mind you, he\u2019s not a construction worker, electrician, or anything similar. Man is in finances!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, that didn\u2019t stop him from<strong> <\/strong>trying to do it all alone. He would spend hours repairing something, looking at YouTube tutorials, and annoying himself just so he wouldn\u2019t ask for help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Questo problema \u00e8 profondamente radicato nel nostro <strong>convinzione che un uomo debba essere in grado di fare tutto da solo.<\/strong> Allo stesso modo, le persone si aspettano che tutte le donne sappiano cucinare, pulire e prendersi cura dei bambini, e vengono svergognate quando chiedono aiuto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if your first thought was that you knew men sometimes need help with physical stuff, you\u2019re still biased. Who says they don\u2019t need help with the mental workload as well?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cMental health issues affect only women\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo forte in piedi\" class=\"wp-image-165078\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Strong-man-standing-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This stereotype is exactly why men don\u2019t seek help when they need it. They are<strong> lasciati soli ad affrontare i loro problemi<\/strong> and don\u2019t talk about them. They are made to feel less of a man if they speak up and admit that it\u2019s all too much for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s unbelievable how much we evolve as people but still get stuck in some stupid misconceptions that should have been left in the past a long time ago. A shocking <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/nchs\/data\/databriefs\/db433.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dati<\/a> ha rivelato che <strong>uomini rappresentano 78% del totale dei tassi di suicidio<\/strong> negli Stati Uniti!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anche se questo \u00e8 un fatto terribile, \u00e8 davvero sorprendente? Questo dovrebbe essere un <strong>un campanello d'allarme per rompere finalmente lo stigma<\/strong> una volta per tutte. La mascolinit\u00e0 non \u00e8 determinata dalla capacit\u00e0 di mascherare i nostri sentimenti. Punto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cShowing feelings takes away your masculinity\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Una volta andai a una partita di basket con una mia amica per fare il tifo per il suo fratellino. Alla fine della partita, la squadra avversaria riusc\u00ec a segnare il tiro vincente e vinse la partita.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Si \u00e8 seduto in campo tutto deluso e triste, mentre le lacrime iniziavano a scorrere sul suo viso. A quel punto il suo allenatore si \u00e8 avvicinato e ha iniziato a urlare:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWhat are you doing?! Toughen up, be a man!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Chi ha detto agli uomini che devono essere sempre macho? Sono esseri umani, non dannati caveau resistenti a tutto!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Mostrare i sentimenti \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 virile che un uomo possa fare!<\/strong> They\u2019re exposing the deepest parts of themselves they usually hide. That\u2019s brave and something only strong people can do!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E s\u00ec, gli uomini sono i nostri protettori, i nostri fornitori e il nostro luogo di sicurezza, ma <strong>hanno anche bisogno di qualcuno che li ascolti<\/strong> e apprezzarli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If they\u2019re only burying things deep in themselves, they\u2019ll become a ticking bomb waiting to explode. Swiping things under the carpet doesn\u2019t make them disappear. It just makes a huge bump and an opportunity to trip and fall.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been wrong about men my entire life. I\u2019m not afraid to admit it. It\u2019s not easy to grow up and live in a world that\u2019s full of stereotypes. I couldn\u2019t know any better because that\u2019s what I was taught in school, what I saw in movies, and read on the internet. 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