{"id":16520,"date":"2020-09-16T08:58:01","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T08:58:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16520"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:49:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:49:15","slug":"smettila-di-spezzare-il-tuo-cuore-lui-non-cambiera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettila-di-spezzare-il-tuo-cuore-lui-non-cambiera\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettetela di spezzare il vostro cuore: non cambier\u00e0 mai"},"content":{"rendered":"

So che vi siete convinti che le cose andranno in un altro modo.<\/p>\n

I know you believe it from the bottom of your heart, that you actually want things to change. But unfortunately, we don\u2019t always get the things we want in life.<\/p>\n

So che il tuo amore ti ha legato a quest'uomo. So che l'amore che provi a volte ti mette le ali, ma pi\u00f9 spesso ti mette in catene.<\/p>\n

So che tutto il tuo corpo si paralizza quando pensi di lasciarlo.<\/p>\n

Il vortice della tossicit\u00e0 vi ha trascinato troppo in profondit\u00e0 e uscirne \u00e8 ormai una missione impossibile per voi.<\/p>\n

I also know you go through hell on a daily basis and that you handle it all with a smile. The love you feel isn\u2019t healthy.<\/p>\n

The love you\u2019re feeling is breaking you because he\u2019s playing the love card just so he\u2019ll be able to use you.<\/p>\n

\"bruna<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s not love when all you get are crumbs of affections, words without actions and tears rolling down your face each night.<\/p>\n

God, how can you not see that love is so much more and you\u2019re worth so much more?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you but you won\u2019t be able to live like this for long now.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t notice it because you are refusing to open your eyes but even if you don\u2019t want to see it, the fact that your soul is getting drained more and more each day stays.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is you have nothing to refill it with because the one person who should do that is the one who\u2019s killing you. And you call it love.<\/p>\n

Believe me when I tell you that being alone is always a better decision than being with someone who\u2019s sucking the life out of you.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s taking everything and he\u2019s not giving anything in return. That\u2019s quanto \u00e8 egoista<\/a>. E pensa a quanto tempo gli hai permesso di farla franca.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

How long will you be the only one dragging your relationship forward and sacrificing everything for someone who isn\u2019t worth it?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re holding on by a thread. All your hopes are stuck on this picture you have of your future and how things could be but unfortunately it\u2019s only you who sees that.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s just an illusion. It\u2019s a mirage only you see and trust me when I say that it won\u2019t take long before it disappears, before he does something to shatter it into millions of pieces.<\/p>\n

After all this time, why won\u2019t you open your eyes?  <\/strong>Why can\u2019t you realize what is happening in your life? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 avete permesso al vostro cuore di ingannarvi cos\u00ec a lungo? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 avete bisogno che qualcun altro vi dica le cose che gi\u00e0 sapete da soli ma che vi rifiutate di accettare?  <\/strong>He isn\u2019t worth it and he will never be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Alcune persone sono cos\u00ec egoiste, egocentriche e crudeli che nessuna quantit\u00e0 di amore sarebbe in grado di cambiarle, e mille occasioni diverse o la persona pi\u00f9 gentile di questo mondo non le farebbe cambiare.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Darling, you\u2019re just breaking your own heart. Stop pretending your illusions are real.<\/p>\n

Smettere di vedere le cose meglio di come sono. Smettete di sprecare la vostra vita. Meritate molto di pi\u00f9. Meritate di vivere al meglio la propria vita<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Meritate di ricevere almeno tanto amore quanto ne date.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be treated with respect and you deserve a man who\u2019ll take you seriously, who\u2019ll plan his future with you and who\u2019ll make promises he actually intends to keep.<\/p>\n

And what you don\u2019t deserve is a manipulative asshole who\u2019s just going to take advantage of your feelings and use you.<\/p>\n

I know you can\u2019t picture your life without him but I swear you will hate yourself when you realize what kind of man you chose to be your life companion or if you stick by this man who did nothing but take everything you had to offer and gave nothing in return.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No matter how much love you give him, no matter how many chances he receives, no matter how much time passes or what you do for him, he isn\u2019t going to see your worth.<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t going to appreciate you. He isn\u2019t going to respect you or bother to give you what you deserve.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

And I know it breaks your heart but you need to make this stick in your head and it\u2019s better to do it sooner than later.<\/p>\n

The sooner you accept the truth, the more time you\u2019ll have to react. The more time you\u2019ll have to heal your broken heart. <\/strong><\/p>\n

The less time you\u2019re going to be investing in someone who isn\u2019t worth a second of your time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop breaking your own heart by giving all of yourself to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

Stop hoping that a man who did nothing but hurt you will be able to make you happy in the future. He isn\u2019t the man you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n

Tieni la testa alta, asciuga le lacrime dalle guance e ringrazia Dio per la lezione che hai ricevuto.<\/p>\n

Ora sapete cosa non cercare in un uomo. E potete fare tutte le cose che facevate per l'uomo sbagliato, per l'uomo buono.<\/p>\n

Trust me, there is someone who\u2019ll kiss the ground you\u2019re walking on. Stop settling for less than you deserve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Smettetela<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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