{"id":165237,"date":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165237"},"modified":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T07:45:15","slug":"uomo-ferito-moglie-non-ha-mostrato-emozioni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-ferito-moglie-non-ha-mostrato-emozioni\/","title":{"rendered":"Un uomo sorpreso che la moglie non lo abbia pregato di restare quando ha chiesto il divorzio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Women are told that they\u2019re too dramatic their whole life. We\u2019re too sensitive when people hurt us, too emotional when something goes wrong, and doing too much when we\u2019re happy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per di pi\u00f9, gli uomini spesso attribuiscono tutto ci\u00f2 ai sintomi della sindrome premestruale e \u201cthat time of the month\u201d<\/em>, and even go so far as to declare us crazy. So, we end up being labeled just because they don\u2019t know how to deal with our emotions!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gli uomini si aspettano sempre che le donne facciano i capricci per il divorzio e creino il caos.<\/strong>, but they don\u2019t know that a divorce for some women is actually a blessing, not a curse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we finally hit rock bottom and can\u2019t tolerate any more nonsense we calmly leave, then everyone\u2019s surprised we didn\u2019t show any emotions. So, who\u2019s the crazy one here?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Divorzio all'improvviso<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"giovane<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Imagine saying to someone you don\u2019t love them anymore but then you feel hurt when they decide to leave. Some people are just incredibly entitled! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questo \u00e8 accaduto esattamente a una donna che ha condiviso la sua storia su Reddit<\/a> per togliersi ogni peso dallo stomaco. A quanto pare, un giorno suo marito \u00e8 tornato a casa e le ha consegnato i documenti per il divorzio senza alcuna spiegazione. <\/strong>She didn\u2019t even know why as she explains in her post:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI read them over and asked why, he told me he was in love with somebody else, his co-worker, and wanted to marry her. I said ok and began the process of moving out.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ha detto che per fortuna aveva un posto dove poteva stare e ha deciso di andarci. Dopo aver preso tutte le sue cose, compreso tutto ci\u00f2 che aveva pagato, se ne \u00e8 semplicemente andata. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was also smart enough to get herself a lawyer to represent her. Since she works at a law firm, her colleague agreed to help her in the process. You would think that this is where the story ends, but actually it\u2019s just starting!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si aspettava che lei combattesse per lui<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"coppia<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Anche se \u00e8 stato il marito a chiedere il divorzio, si \u00e8 rivelato pi\u00f9 arrabbiato di lei. Ha scritto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy husband contacted me a couple of weeks ago, angry that I had taken all of my things and moved out. He was even more angry that I didn’t have any emotional response and didn’t \u2018fight for him.\u2019 I explained that there was no use throwing a tantrum about divorce and that I take time to process things.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Questo ha ferito molto il suo ego, quindi l'ha accusata di essere fredda e ha cominciato a insultarla<\/strong> in multiple ways. But it didn\u2019t end there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dopo l'udienza in tribunale, gli insulti sono continuati. Non solo l'ha chiamata con brutti nomi, ma ha anche affermato che la stava tradendo.<\/strong> on him with her attorney. She finished her post by saying she\u2019s happy she divorced him even though he now seems to regret it. What a surprise!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ha gestito il divorzio come un boss!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"uomo<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Presentarsi con le carte del divorzio non \u00e8 certo una sensazione piacevole. Tuttavia, comportarsi da pazzi e disperati non vi porter\u00e0 da nessuna parte.<\/strong> If anything it can only make the other side more satisfied. That\u2019s why it\u2019s always interesting to see someone surprised because you didn\u2019t react in the way they expected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This lady set an example of how divorce should be handled! Don\u2019t give them the satisfaction of begging them to stay, because that\u2019s exactly what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anche gli utenti di Reddit hanno dato il loro sostegno alla donna dicendo she definitely broke this man\u2019s fragile ego!<\/strong> Qualcuno ha commentato:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cHe leaves you for someone else and then gets mad that you don\u2019t scream and cry for him, not because he would consider changing his mind, but because he wanted the ego boost.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Altri l'hanno elogiata per la sua sicurezza e lei ha persino risposto dicendo ha impiegato anni per diventare abbastanza sicura di s\u00e9<\/strong> di agire in questo modo e che i colleghi dello studio legale l'hanno aiutata a diventare pi\u00f9 forte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alla fine di questa esperienza selvaggia, \u00e8 giunta anche alla conclusione che lui<\/strong> probabilmente era gelosa del suo avvocato.<\/strong> Ha aggiunto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cMy colleague is everything that my STBX is not. He has a stable job, owns a house, drives a nice car, is pretty conventionally attractive, and has confidence. I think my STBX is jealous and I didn’t realize that.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Well, this surely explains a lot of things, don\u2019t you think? I even wonder if there ever was a co-worker he wanted to leave her for or if it was part of his plan and tentativo fallito di renderla non solo gelosa, ma anche disperata e implorante.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or\u2026hear me out! He was just testing the waters and non si aspettava che dicesse s\u00ec al divorzio <\/strong>ma invece di rimanere al suo fianco e tollerare il suo comportamento schifoso, come fanno alcune donne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qual \u00e8 la sua opinione? Avrebbe dovuto reagire in modo diverso?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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