{"id":165322,"date":"2024-06-06T07:03:11","date_gmt":"2024-06-06T07:03:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165322"},"modified":"2024-06-06T07:03:13","modified_gmt":"2024-06-06T07:03:13","slug":"la-mamma-casalinga-e-tutto-in-uno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-mamma-casalinga-e-tutto-in-uno\/","title":{"rendered":"Essere una mamma casalinga \u00e8 come essere un elettrodomestico tutto in uno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Che cos'\u00e8 la SAHM?<\/em> you were probably wondering when you first encountered an abbreviation for a stay-at-home mom. The next thing you must\u2019ve thought is \u201cWell, it\u2019s great, she gets to <\/em>spend a day playing with the kids and rests on the couch watching Netflix\u201d<\/em><\/strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Non ne avete idea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To tell you the truth, the good side of being SAHM is that you have the chance to be present in your kids\u2019 special moments. You\u2019ll see their first steps, hear their first words, watch them learn and grow<\/strong>, comfort them when they cry\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Besides witnessing their milestones there\u2019s a lot more to do. Being a stay-at-home mom is a full-time job that\u2019ll require you to work overtime <\/strong>and you\u2019ll have to deal with very ruthless and demanding bosses \u2013 your children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per me tutto \u00e8 iniziato quando il mio test di gravidanza \u00e8 risultato positivo, mi sono eccitata e ho deciso:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI want to be a supermom!\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Quando \u00e8 nata la mia figlia maggiore, Emma, Ho interrotto la mia carriera e sono diventata una mamma casalinga.<\/strong>. My idea of the role was quite different from what I experienced every day in my \u201ctenure\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, we all love to spend time with our kids but sometimes it can be so draining and overwhelming. You\u2019re juggling so many responsibilities on a daily basis. <\/strong>Compared to this, regular office multitasking seems like duck soup. You\u2019re always on the clock!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you\u2019re wearing many hats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIn the morning I am the babysitter\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ci svegliamo, pap\u00e0 esce per andare al lavoro, e poi io e le mie ragazze ci godiamo una lunga colazione<\/strong>. When it\u2019s done we clean the messy table, and it’s playtime. Sometimes we go out in the yard or we stay in if it rains. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gioco con la mia bambina e allo stesso tempo aiuto Emma a fare i compiti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m the family\u2019s chef \u00e0 la carte\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Cucino pasti separati per il bambino e poi preparo il pranzo per Emma e per noi,<\/strong> the grown-ups. Sometimes Emma refuses to eat the food that\u2019s on the menu, so I always have a fast backup plan to fill her belly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La pasta fa sempre la sua parte, ma poi after lunch, there\u2019s a dish-jam at the kitchen top and in the sink.<\/strong> It\u2019s time for the chef to roll up her sleeves and clean the mess.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s school time and I become the driver\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Allaccio entrambe le mie figlie ai seggiolini e ci dirigiamo a scuola. Dopo accompagniamo Emma, <\/strong>ci fermiamo per fare la spesa e comprare alcuni articoli per la casa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything is put in the trunk and we can go back. When we arrive home, it’s nap time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhen the baby is asleep I shapeshift into a housekeeper\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Finally, it\u2019s time to put everything in the dishwasher. Quel mucchio di biancheria sporca sta piangendo per andare in lavatrice.<\/strong> Devo spolverare e passare l'aspirapolvere in salotto e a volte in tutta la casa. Ma prima di pulire, devo mettere i giocattoli nelle scatole!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finalmente la nostra casa ha un aspetto decente, il bambino dorme ancora e io posso passare al mio prossimo ruolo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m the lady of the house and general affairs manager\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Faccio annotare gli appuntamenti e i piani di vaccinazione, redigere un'altra lista della spesa,<\/strong> e organizzare le riparazioni degli elettrodomestici, se necessario.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Controllo se i bambini hanno bisogno di vestiti o scarpe nuove, quali giocattoli didattici potrebbero essere utili e i semi di fiori che ho ricevuto l'altra settimana dovrebbero essere piantati ora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAt night I put my glasses on and transform into a finance manager\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Qualcuno deve pagare le bollette per mantenere l'acqua corrente e le luci accese. I fare bilanci, conti e fatture.<\/strong> Also, I plan our investments \u2013 maybe it\u2019s time for a new stroller or a bicycle. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ok, I must admit my husband helps me sometimes, but with all these roles and duties, phew\u2026 I\u2019m starting to feel a burnout coming my way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI can\u2019t cope and I\u2019m like \u2018Babe, I\u2019ve had enough!\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019s confused and doesn’t get it. I\u2019m upset and emotional, feeling underappreciated for all I\u2019ve been doing lately<\/strong>. He just goes to work and that\u2019s all. I\u2019m exhausted, of course I\u2019m nervous and then he accuses me of spreading bad vibes. It\u2019s just not fair!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questa \u00e8 la NOSTRA casa e i bambini sono i NOSTRI figli, quindi ioSignifica che dobbiamo lavorare insieme per tenere tutto in ordine e assicurarci che i bambini siano nutriti, felici e in salute.<\/strong> I don\u2019t have to take care of everything on my own, ALL THE TIME!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dopo aver trascorso diversi giorni a litigare, abbiamo finalmente trovato un terreno comune. Questo \u00e8 il nostro nuovo accordo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSharing is caring! Even if it means we are sharing a burden.\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Esattamente, ci dividiamo tutti i compiti. I get to keep my roles of chef, driver, and babysitter and he\u2019s in charge of the general affairs and finances<\/strong> (with a little help from me, of course). Also, he cooks on the weekends. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci dividiamo i compiti di pulizia<\/strong>, so he\u2019s responsible for the laundry, vacuuming, and dusting. I do the dishes and ironing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finora tutto bene. Siamo una squadra da sogno.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quindi, ragazza, sii intelligente ed evita di esagerare. You won\u2019t be a supermom if you\u2019re tired as a fading sunset<\/strong>. It\u2019s not only about you, the kids deserve a happy mom, able to join their plays. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Risparmia te stessa! Fate un piano in anticipo e condividete tutte le responsabilit\u00e0 con il vostro maritino. Vorrei averlo saputo fin dall'inizio.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What in the world is SAHM? you were probably wondering when you first encountered an abbreviation for a stay-at-home mom. The next thing you must\u2019ve thought is \u201cWell, it\u2019s great, she gets to spend a day playing with the kids and rests on the couch watching Netflix\u201d. You have no idea! To tell you the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":165323,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Being-A-Stay-At-Home-Mom-Feels-Like-Being-An-All-In-One-Family-Appliance-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165322"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165322\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165326,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165322\/revisions\/165326"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165323"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}