{"id":165346,"date":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","date_gmt":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165346"},"modified":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","modified_gmt":"2024-06-07T08:47:16","slug":"quello-che-le-donne-possono-perdonare-ma-non-dimenticare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quello-che-le-donne-possono-perdonare-ma-non-dimenticare\/","title":{"rendered":"Come donne, perdoniamo tanto i nostri mariti, ma possiamo mai dimenticare davvero?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Marriage is sometimes smooth sailing and sometimes it\u2019s a boat in a storm\u2026 If you’ve ever been married, you know this. Good times come and they go\u2026 and the bad ones too. <\/strong>La vita \u00e8 piena di alti e bassi, e lo stesso vale per i matrimoni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ogni tanto Sono cos\u00ec furiosa con il mio maritino che ho un forte impulso a trasferirmi immediatamente.<\/strong> Poi passo la serata a scorrere gli annunci degli appartamenti. Qualche ora di scorrimento mi aiuta a calmarmi e le cose tornano alla normalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes I wonder if it\u2019s right to forgive him. I noticed every so often, <\/strong>che I do forgive but can\u2019t make myself forget. <\/strong>Ero curiosa di sapere cosa avevano da dire le altre donne sul perdonare senza dimenticare. Cos\u00ec ho chiesto a tutte le donne che conosco di partecipare a un sondaggio anonimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prendevano un pezzo di carta e scrivere brevi aneddoti sulle cose che si sono perdonate <\/strong>to keep their relationships or marriages, but couldn\u2019t forget. Then they would insert the piece of paper in my survey box.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve made a compilation of 20 most hilarious and unforgettable micro-stories about MEN\u2019s wrongdoings that WOMEN had to forgive to save their relationships:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u201cHis mom and dad were his primary family\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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2. \u201cWork was more important than me\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A few weeks after we started dating, he got a new job. It was UX\/UI design \u2013 his dream job. As it was all quite new for him (earlier he was a graphic designer) he\u2019d spend nights learning and improving his skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He didn\u2019t have time to see me, except for the weekends.<\/strong> I don\u2019t remember why we broke up after all, as things got better in time, but I still remember how I felt awful when he would rather work than spend time with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u201cHe had to watch the game\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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4. \u201cTold me I\u2019m overdramatizing\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nostra figlia di sei mesi \u00e8 caduta dal letto mentre le stavo cambiando il pannolino ed ero cos\u00ec in preda al panico mentre cercavo di calmarla. Tremavo di paura e continuavo a ripetere che dovevamo andare da un medico.<\/strong> Mi disse che ero troppo drammatica e che tutto sarebbe andato bene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u201cForgot about me\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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6. \u201cI\u2019ve been told I was passing on negative vibes\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mi ha accusato di essere sempre negativa su tutto e ha detto che io gli ha reso impossibile godersi il tempo libero.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This was when my mom was very sick and I was worried we haven’t got much time together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. \u201cMissed our anniversary\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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8. \u201cLeft me alone to handle the colic\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mentre mi stavo riprendendo da un parto cesareo mi ha lasciato alone with a newborn who had horrifying colic and wouldn\u2019t stop screaming.<\/strong> He thought going out with his friends to celebrate our son\u2019s birth was a good idea. I wanted to strangle him when he came back home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. \u201cWas late for our son\u2019s school play\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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10. \u201cNo sympathy when my granny died\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I was devastated when my grandma died. As he wasn\u2019t very close to his grandparents he couldn\u2019t sympathize with my grief. So he was minding his own business and didn\u2019t even try to hug me<\/strong> o dire qualcosa per confortarmi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. \u201cBaby fell under his watch\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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12. \u201cHe gambled away our vacation money\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Abbiamo risparmiato per mesi per trascorrere le vacanze a Bali. Dopo un primo trimestre molto difficile sul lavoro, Avevo davvero bisogno di riposare in un luogo cos\u00ec esotico.<\/strong> Sapevo che aveva lievi problemi di dipendenza dal gioco d'azzardo, ma non avrei mai pensato che avrebbe fatto una cosa cos\u00ec orribile a entrambi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. \u201cHe was texting his ex-girlfriend\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Non stavo controllando il suo telefono o altro, ma il dispositivo era l\u00ec, sul tavolo, e il suono della notifica mi ha portato a guardarlo. Quando ho visto il suo nome sul display sono impazzito.<\/strong> Ho chiesto di vedere tutti i messaggi e mi ha dato il telefono. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allegedly, she only asked for some old friend\u2019s phone number, but I couldn\u2019t be convinced it was the main reason she texted him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. \u201cTurned down my dinner invitation\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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15. \u201cTold bad things about me in his sleep\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Parlava sempre nel sonno, ma una volta ho scoperto alcune cose molto brutte che aveva detto su di me. Credo che stesse sognando che stava bevendo una birra con il suo amico e si lamentava di come lo trattavo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wasn\u2019t speaking to him for two weeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. \u201cIgnored my call to \u2018bedroom action\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Era un venerd\u00ec sera e ho pensato che avremmo potuto celebrate the weekend with some \u201cfireworks in bed\u201d<\/strong>. Indossai la mia lingerie seducente, mi truccai pesantemente e mi acconciai i capelli in modo selvaggio. Entrai con entusiasmo in camera da letto e lo trovai che russava rumorosamente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ero sicuro che stesse fingendo di dormire, ma feeling so miserable and rejected while standing next to our bed all dressed up for \u201cthe action\u201d<\/strong> I couldn\u2019t humiliate myself more by trying to \u201cwake\u201d him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I only forgave him because tomorrow he swore he was really sleeping and repaired the damage next evening when he was the one initiating \u201cthe call\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. \u201cWas secretly purchasing video games\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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18. \u201cRead my private emails\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La mia migliore amica, Lisa, vive sulla costa occidentale e ci scriviamo una volta alla settimana. Le nostre e-mail sono come saggi in cui condividiamo i pensieri e i sentimenti pi\u00f9 profondi sulla vita e sulle situazioni quotidiane<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He mentioned something that was part of my latest email exchange and that\u2019s how I realized he went through my inbox.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L'ho perdonato, ma da quel giorno ho cambiato regolarmente password. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. \u201cMade our home look like a warehouse\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

He is a huge fan of comic books, and he\u2019s been collecting them since he was a kid. Besides collecting, aveva bisogno di conservarli in scatole, al riparo dalla polvere e dalla luce.<\/strong> Alcuni mesi dopo il matrimonio la nostra casa \u00e8 stata trasformata in un magazzino. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I forgave him when he moved his precious collection to his parent\u2019s house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. \u201cLying about his childhood\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

While talking to his mom on Thanksgiving, I realized he\u2019s been heavily embellishing his childhood memories. I forgave him and many years later, I realized he wasn\u2019t really lying. Our la memoria \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 un processo molto creativo<\/strong> e a volte memorizziamo versioni immaginarie di eventi che abbiamo vissuto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Come perdonare<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In the end, we\u2019ll agree forgiving means different things to different women. Some of us will really forgive and move on, but not gonna forget ever. Others will forget it as if it never happened. I know mia sorella ama ricordare a suo marito tutte le sue malefatte<\/strong>. Honestly, I think she\u2019s a bit mean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturalmente, \u00e8 necessario non perdonare mai una cosa cos\u00ec grave come un tradimento o un abuso<\/strong>, but as you could notice, there’s a whole spectrum of ways our partners can hurt us, sometimes unintentionally. Find a way to understand what really made him act in that way and try to forgive.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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