{"id":165706,"date":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165706"},"modified":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T08:14:52","slug":"regole-nella-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/regole-nella-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Una donna rivela le 5 regole non negoziabili che il suo fidanzato deve rispettare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ognuno ha aspettative diverse quando si tratta del partner dei propri sogni. Forse a un certo punto ne ho avute anche troppe. Tuttavia, ho sempre pensato che it\u2019s good to be direct with what you want and communicate your boundaries <\/strong>so there\u2019s no room for misunderstanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anche se a volte pensiamo che alcune aspettative siano normali e comuni, per alcuni potrebbero essere oltraggiose. We differ in our opinions of what\u2019s right and wrong<\/strong> and therefore it\u2019s important to be clear from the very beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taylor Donoghue si \u00e8 fatta sentire in modo chiaro e forte mostrando la sua lista di 5 regole a tutto il mondo su TikTok<\/a>! Now guys can\u2019t say they didn\u2019t know what they got themselves into!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Niente migliori amicizie femminili!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Ha iniziato il video affermando la sua prima e principale regola:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cFirst is super obvious, but I would never allow my boyfriend to have a girl best friend. I don\u2019t believe in them.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Before anyone gets pissed off, she explained that it\u2019s okay if he has female acquaintances, but il posto di migliore amico \u00e8 riservato agli uomini! <\/strong>Ha aggiunto che avere una migliore amica femmina potrebbe creare problemi e nessuno lo vuole. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some agreed with this and one woman even said she didn\u2019t think this would be a problem so she allowed her boyfriend to have a girl roommate. Let\u2019s just say it didn\u2019t end well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. La posizione deve essere sempre attiva!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Questa \u00e8 una grande bandiera rossa per alcune persone. Lo considerano un'invasione della privacy del partner ma Taylor thinks it\u2019s more a safety measure.<\/strong> Ha detto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI feel like you get to a point where when you\u2019ve been dating someone for so long, having each other\u2019s like locations on like \u201cFind My iPhone\u201d is more of a safety thing. I just want to make sure he\u2019s okay.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

However, she\u2019s not purely concerned with safety because she also thinks not letting your partner know where you are is shady. Others think she just has trust issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I kinda agree because me and my partner never have our locations on. If he tells me he\u2019s going to some pub with the boys, I know he\u2019s going there. But we\u2019re also grown-ups who have free will to go where we want without someone breathing down our neck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Gli strip club sono un grande NO!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"piedi<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Ha proseguito con la terza regola dicendo che potrebbe essere controversa ma her record is set straight \u2013 no strip clubs!<\/strong> Come ha spiegato lei stessa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe third thing I never allow my boyfriend to do is go to strip clubs. And I feel like this is a controversial one, and some couples go to them together. But nope, not our scene. You can go to bars, you can have a guys\u2019 night, but strip clubs\u2026 Absolutely not.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Are there really people who allow their significant others to go to strip clubs? Couldn\u2019t be me, but you do you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Le finanze sono divise al 50%!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I feel like guys really loved this one\u2026wonder why. Le donne dall'altra parte avevano opinioni diverse.<\/strong> Pensano che gli uomini dovrebbero almeno pagare per i loro appuntamenti. Tuttavia, Taylor ha detto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe fourth thing I would never allow my boyfriend to do is pay all the bills. I feel like the men paying for 100% of everything is just like wrong. And I\u2019m not even trying to sound \u2018pick me.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

I think paying 50-50 is slowly becoming a standard set for women. They want us to be homemakers but also contribute financially. And while this would be fine if men did the same, they mostly don\u2019t participate in the homemaking part at all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Le foto in bikini sono off-limits!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"uomo<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Taylor thinks liking provocative pictures of girls on Instagram is a major red flag saying it simply doesn\u2019t look good from the perspective of others:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI feel like there\u2019s been so much more awareness on this, but it always makes me sad when I see someone that\u2019s like married with kids or just in a relationship and they\u2019re like, liking girls\u2019 photos, especially very like provocative ones. I\u2019m just like, it\u2019s not a good look.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Per lei si tratta di un'aspettativa piuttosto ovvia<\/strong> that doesn\u2019t need further explanation. And while some agreed with everything she listed, others said it doesn\u2019t make sense to have these rules. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 dispotica o ragionevole?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Uno ha detto che queste sono le basi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI agree with you on every one of these. It is basic respect and for the health of the relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Qualcuno si \u00e8 dichiarato d'accordo dicendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThese are all completely normal things everyone should expect in a relationship. How is it a red flag? Basic respect has just gone\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Un uomo \u00e8 rimasto scioccato dai commenti negativi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhat are these comments!? it’s not controlling or being insecure. It’s called being reasonable and having standards.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A lot of people said Tayor is controlling and they wouldn\u2019t set these rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI hope this works for you cause there\u2019s no way I\u2019m telling my man what\u2019s allowed and what\u2019s not\u2026 he\u2019s an adult.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Some think we shouldn\u2019t have any rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI have one rule \u2026 you won\u2019t tell me what I can and can\u2019t do and vice versa. Been happily married for 25 years.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Mentre la gente discuteva se questo fosse normale o meno, altri volevano sapere se il suo ragazzo aveva delle regole per lei<\/strong> e ha fatto volentieri un altro video<\/a> a questo proposito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her boyfriend said he only has 4 simple rules \u2013 no flirting with guys, no liking pictures of other men, and no lip fillers. He also said he wants her to update him every hour or two when she\u2019s out without him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everyone seemed more chill with his boundaries and said this is a bare minimum. Of course, everything\u2019s fine and nothing\u2019s \u201ccontrolling\u201d or \u201cinsecure\u201d when it comes to men sharing their rules. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cosa ne pensate? Avete delle regole nella vostra relazione? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guardate il video completo qui sotto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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@taylordonoghuee<\/a>

Hot take but just my opinion \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffd\u200d\u2640\ufe0f<\/p> \u266c original sound – Taylordonoghuee<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote>