{"id":165878,"date":"2024-06-20T10:08:35","date_gmt":"2024-06-20T10:08:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165878"},"modified":"2024-07-08T09:20:13","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T09:20:13","slug":"segni-di-bombardamento-damore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-di-bombardamento-damore\/","title":{"rendered":"Sono stata bombardata dall'amore e non me ne sono nemmeno resa conto"},"content":{"rendered":"

La mia ultima relazione sembrava troppo bella per essere vera. Davvero. Non avrei mai pensato di poter provare tanto amore da parte di qualcuno e la sensazione \u00e8 stata incredibile. He was everything I\u2019ve ever wanted. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quella sensazione di qualcuno che ti ossessiona, che ti inonda di attenzioni e di amore \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che ogni donna desidera. Mi \u00e8 piaciuto molto, soprattutto dopo il mio ex fidanzato che era estremamente tossico e mi ha lasciato il cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was ready for a new beginning and wanted someone to take care of me and show me all his love. And that\u2019s exactly what I got. However, that la dolce fase della luna di miele ha preso una piega inaspettata<\/strong> e si \u00e8 conclusa con un altro grande colpo di fulmine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In seguito, ho capito di essere stata cieca perch\u00e9 mi ha bombardata d'amore. In mia difesa, come potevo sapere che mi avrebbe ferito cos\u00ec tanto dopo essersi comportato come l'uomo migliore mai esistito?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I bet I\u2019m not the only one who has fallen for this. So let me share some signs that can help you realize it\u2019s not true love before you get your heart broken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Vi sentite obbligati a impegnarvi troppo presto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The first moment I met James I felt something I couldn\u2019t even explain. There was a lot of chemistry and romance going on and we immediately knew we had something special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On our third date, he had already mentioned moving in together and wanted to meet my family. Although it was flattering to hear that, I can\u2019t say I wasn\u2019t caught off guard. He said that like it was nothing and no big deal but to me it was huge!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t really feel ready to take that big step and was anxious as hell but mi rassicurava che eravamo innamorati e che non c'era bisogno di perdere tempo.<\/strong> That\u2019s the moment he slowly started his manipulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ha ingannato e convinto che vi conoscete bene<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

James would always say things insinuating that he feels like we\u2019ve known each other for ages. He would often talk about something we had in common, things we both like, and opinions we share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi ha convinto che eravamo anime gemelle e che eravamo fatti l'uno per l'altra.<\/strong> \u00c8 stato davvero bello pensare di aver finalmente trovato l'uno<\/em>. Ma poi qualcosa \u00e8 scattato nella mia mente e mi sono resa conto che era sempre d'accordo con tutto ci\u00f2 che dicevo e amava assolutamente ogni piccola cosa che facevo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sembrava irreale perch\u00e9 lo era! It\u2019s impossible for someone not to have their own personality.<\/strong> James tried so hard to make a connection that didn\u2019t even exist. He would shower me with sweet words and I loved it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Vi elogia e vi ricopre di affetto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"bella<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

While women are always complaining their men don\u2019t show them enough love, I was almost sick of all the attention I was getting. Sometimes I felt like I couldn\u2019t take a breath without him being by my side.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He would tell me he never met someone like me, that I was the most beautiful woman he\u2019d seen, and that he couldn\u2019t even imagine his future without me. It wasn\u2019t only compliments James was giving me all the time, it was also the affection. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Constant kissing, hugging, holding hands \u2013 it seemed like he couldn\u2019t get enough of me! <\/strong>All'inizio era bello, ma poi ha iniziato a sembrare falso, come se stesse cercando di ottenere qualcosa in cambio ogni volta. A volte mi chiedo ancora se tutto ci\u00f2 che diceva fosse vero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Dice cose che volete sentire<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Se conoscevo qualcuno perfetto con le parole, quello era James. E questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che mi ha davvero appassionato. Sapeva sempre cosa dire per farmi sciogliere. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what I was talking about, my goals, insecurities, or trauma, James had the perfect response for everything! Oh, I enjoyed it so much. I thought I finally found someone who wanted to listen to me and I felt understood after a long time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo fece solo per guadagnarsi la mia fiducia, ma me ne resi conto troppo tardi.<\/strong> It wasn\u2019t honest at all, it was just his little game to make me think we actually have a deep connection. And that\u2019s exactly what I was thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. You receive gifts like it\u2019s your birthday every day<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

James didn\u2019t only give me all the words I wanted to hear, he also gave me gifts, a lot of them! There wouldn\u2019t be a date we would go on without him bringing something for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A volte si trattava di qualcosa di piccolo, come dei fiori o quel cioccolato che mi piace molto, ma altre volte ha fatto le cose in grande. Una volta mi ha regalato i biglietti aerei per un viaggio a sorpresa! Mentre mi sentivo lusingata e speciale, cominciai a imparare this wasn\u2019t as genuine as I thought.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was buying my loyalty and making slow steps to ensure I felt like I owed him something. Every time I complained about his behavior he would mention the sweet things he\u2019s done for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Si mette sulla difensiva ogni volta che lo si interroga<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When I finally realized something wasn\u2019t right and gained the courage to bring it up, he went nuts. James always acted as a victim and guilt-tripped me into believing there wasn\u2019t anything wrong.<\/strong> Era solo insicuro e aveva problemi di fiducia\", ha detto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every discussion he didn\u2019t want to have looked the same. I would try to talk nicely, but he would get defensive and then accuse me of being the crazy one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il modo in cui quell'uomo si \u00e8 comportato come se fosse ferito \u00e8 stato incredibile! Qualcuno dovrebbe dargli un Oscar o qualcosa del genere! Tutto questo mi ha fatto sentire in colpa<\/strong> so I stayed thinking my feelings weren\u2019t valid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Vi vuole solo per s\u00e9!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Man mano che progredivamo nella nostra relazione, James voleva che tutto il mondo girasse intorno a lui. Ogni volta che volevo uscire con i miei amici o andare a trovare la mia famiglia, si arrabbiava. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A volte fingeva persino di essere malato, cos\u00ec io restavo a prendermi cura di lui. Ho iniziato lentamente a perdere i miei amici e mi sentivo sola. Non avevo nessuno oltre a lui e \u00e8 riuscito in qualche modo a isolarmi da tutti. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questo era l'ultimo passo del suo gioco malato e un'opportunit\u00e0 perfetta per manipolarmi in tutto ci\u00f2 che voleva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per fortuna mia sorella mi ha fatto ragionare e sono uscita dalla bolla in cui vivevo. ITutto \u00e8 diventato chiarissimo quando ho preso le distanze da lui.<\/strong> Who knows where I\u2019d be if I stayed in that relationship but all I know is that I\u2019m happy I\u2019ll never find out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next time someone acts this way with you think twice before diving into something serious you\u2019ll regret 100%. Remember that Il vero amore non \u00e8 mai soffocante o controllante.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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