{"id":165894,"date":"2024-06-21T08:52:47","date_gmt":"2024-06-21T08:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=165894"},"modified":"2024-06-21T08:52:51","modified_gmt":"2024-06-21T08:52:51","slug":"uscire-con-un-uomo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uscire-con-un-uomo\/","title":{"rendered":"Pensa come un uomo, esci come un professionista\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lei dice che uomini e donne sono cablati in modo diverso. <strong>Lei dice che veniamo da pianeti diversi, <\/strong>or we have different mindsets than you, blah, blah, blah\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che <strong>Gli uomini hanno standard e aspettative diverse quando si tratta di appuntamenti.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quindi, se gli appuntamenti vi rendono esausti, delusi o senza speranza, <strong>forse \u00e8 il caso di provare un nuovo approccio.<\/strong> Un approccio maschile!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ora vi chiedete: cosa significa uscire con un uomo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bear with me, I\u2019m gonna give you some legit relationship advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Date un po' di pepe agli appuntamenti multipli!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Le donne investono le loro energie per uscire con un uomo sperando che diventi il loro fidanzato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your tactics \u201cone man at a time\u201d failed, bring more testosterone into the game and try multi-dating. You see, dating is actually a numbers game. That means you&#8217;re <strong>vedere pi\u00f9 uomini contemporaneamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Provate a mantenere basse le vostre aspettative e a frequentare diversi tipi di uomini fino a quando non avrete fatto centro. Vedete,<strong> gli uomini non sono cos\u00ec ambiziosi negli appuntamenti,<\/strong> we don\u2019t date thinking <em>\u201cThis is the one\u201d<\/em>. Instead, we\u2019re trying to have a good time chatting and spending a nice evening with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The essence of dating is to be commitment-free. It doesn&#8217;t mean you two are exclusive, at least not yet. So, <strong>vivacizzate i vostri appuntamenti con una variet\u00e0 di opzioni<\/strong> e vi aiuter\u00e0 in molti modi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Know what you want! You\u2019re there to discover, not to decide.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"donna attraente che sorride\" class=\"wp-image-165901\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/attractive-woman-smiling-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you hurry to &#8220;settle down&#8221; <strong>fermatevi subito e guardate come lo facciamo.<\/strong> Rallenta, ragazza!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men always give themselves time to mature. We&#8217;re ready for a serious relationship when we figure out our life and careers. We don\u2019t commit until we\u2019re ready or until we are 100% sure we want you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fate tacere l'orologio nella vostra testa! Prima conoscetelo e lasciate che il processo avvenga in modo naturale. Ricordate <strong>cosa volete veramente da un partner e prendetevi del tempo per conoscerlo bene.<\/strong> Then you\u2019ll know if he\u2019s the one for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;re there to discover if he\u2019s right for you, not to decide. Yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Don\u2019t force it, cut him loose!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Date who you want, when you want, until you&#8217;re ready to commit. No pressure, please.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s all about getting to know him. Exploring <strong>if he\u2019s the man with the potential to be your significant other.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it seems like he\u2019s not that into you, then <strong>cut him loose. Don\u2019t waste your time.<\/strong> There are plenty more fish in the sea, you\u2019ll find someone who\u2019ll like you. With the right guy, you will not have to prove yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If things don\u2019t flow, it\u2019s not meant to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Siate aperti e diretti.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia felice che parla insieme seduta su un divano\" class=\"wp-image-165898\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You should just say it when you want to stop seeing him. It\u2019s not rude to say how you feel, <strong>Il ghosting \u00e8 scortese e immaturo. <\/strong>It&#8217;s just lame.<strong> <\/strong>Don\u2019t like him, just say it, clearly. No loss to anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il <strong>cosa buffa di <\/strong><strong><em>fantasmi<\/em><\/strong><strong> \u00e8 che tornano sempre<\/strong> comportandovi come se foste voi ad averli uccisi. Potreste ricevere messaggi che iniziano come <em>\u201cHello stranger, how are you doin\u2019?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se pensava che fosse una buona idea<strong> di sparire nel nulla e di ignorarvi,<\/strong> and now he\u2019s acting as if it didn&#8217;t happen, close that door for good. Don\u2019t let him come back into your life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Vivete la vostra vita migliore!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Men love to be free and do as they please. Be like men! Don\u2019t make dating your top priority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gli piace fare le cose da solo e <strong>he will appreciate you more if you\u2019re busy and independent.<\/strong> Avere una vita propria ti rende ancora pi\u00f9 attraente per lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quindi, <strong>continuate la vostra vita e mantenete i vostri progetti e interessi.<\/strong> Invece di aspettare che sia lui a mandarvi un messaggio, fatevi fare un massaggio, andate in discoteca con i vostri amici o bevete un drink dopo il lavoro con i vostri colleghi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stabilite dei limiti, <strong>don\u2019t always be available, and don\u2019t hang out with him a lot. <\/strong>Uscire con qualcuno significa uscire con qualcuno fino a quando non si stabilisce se \u00e8 un buon partito con cui avere una relazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Allo stesso tempo, avete altre cose da fare. Anche se tra voi due c'\u00e8 stato un vero feeling, <strong>don&#8217;t let your world stop for them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s how to date. Like you don\u2019t give a shit. Like a man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Essere un autocompiacimento.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna rilassata sul divano\" class=\"wp-image-165899\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Smettere di essere un compiacente per le persone e diventare un compiacente per se stesso. Come gli uomini.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Siate egoiste e fate in modo che gli appuntamenti siano il pi\u00f9 possibile convenienti per voi e smettete di preoccuparvi della sua opinione. <strong>Flip the coin \u2013 don\u2019t try to impress him. Instead, expect to be impressed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make him do all the legwork. Let HIM plan your dates and give him space to show efforts he\u2019s willing to make. Also, <strong>assicuratevi che il luogo o l'orario scelto sia sempre comodo per VOI.<\/strong> Don\u2019t sacrifice or rearrange your schedule for a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t think about his perspective, rather <strong>ask yourself if he\u2019s ticking your boxes.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Act like you&#8217;re hot <\/strong>e provate a pensare che tutti gli uomini che trovate attraenti provino lo stesso per voi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vedete? Il solo pensare in questo modo vi fa sentire pi\u00f9 sicuri e consapevoli di voi stessi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Don\u2019t chase, make him chase you.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Hunting is in men\u2019s nature so you won\u2019t be appealing if you take over his job. <strong>We feel intimidated if we\u2019re being chased. <\/strong>Also, if you need to chase him, he\u2019s not that into you, let him go.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inseguire vi far\u00e0 sembrare disperati. <\/strong>We don\u2019t like desperate women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fidatevi di me, <strong>Se vuoi renderti inseguibile. <\/strong>Men don\u2019t really chase, they pursue. It\u2019s different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quindi lasciate che vi insegua! <strong>Be self-confident, have a life, and don\u2019t be easy to get.<\/strong> He\u2019s just one small part of your life, not your world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Evitare il dramma a tutti i costi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Dating should be easy and drama-free. Men don\u2019t do drama while dating. No exaggeration and weirdness pretty please.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If he senses you\u2019re a drama queen he\u2019ll run away from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drama and dating don\u2019t go well together, so make sure to avoid any drama while you two are still just getting to know each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ora, <strong>you\u2019re armed with a bunch of tips <\/strong>and you\u2019ll feel more confident when you go on your next date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quindi, divertitevi e uscite come un professionista, come un uomo!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You say men and women are wired differently. You say we come from different planets, or we have different mindsets than you, blah, blah, blah\u2026 The truth is that men just have different standards and expectations when it comes to dating. So, if dating is making you exhausted, disappointed, or hopeless, you may wanna try&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":165902,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-165894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Think-Like-A-Man-Date-Like-A-Pro--1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=165894"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":165903,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/165894\/revisions\/165903"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165902"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=165894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=165894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=165894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}