{"id":16661,"date":"2020-03-20T11:46:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T11:46:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16661"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:15:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:15:22","slug":"ecco-perche-non-crede-che-tu-la-ami","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-non-crede-che-tu-la-ami\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 non crede che tu la ami"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le era stato promesso l'amore in passato ed \u00e8 stata lasciata senza.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Le \u00e8 stato detto che era amata eppure \u00e8 rimasta sola. Ha creduto agli altri, solo per vedere quella fiducia ritorcersi contro di lei.<\/p>\n

E anche lei vuole crederti, ma il dolore \u00e8 ancora l\u00ec, a tenere alti tutti quei muri.<\/p>\n

The pain is still there, keeping you out and keeping her safe. She wants to believe you and she doesn\u2019t, both at the same time. Because how could you love her? When no one else did, how could you?<\/p>\n

In passato ha lasciato entrare le persone, solo per far s\u00ec che le saccheggiassero il cuore e l'anima.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Hanno preso ci\u00f2 che serviva e se ne sono andati, lasciandola vuota e svuotata.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Lasciandola a tirarsi su<\/a>Quando sapeva che non c'era nessuno l\u00e0 fuori a darle una mano. Quando credeva di essere la ragione, la causa del suo stesso dolore.<\/p>\n

When she was left wondering if there was something she could\u2019ve done differently. Was there a chance for them to work out if she had only tried a little bit harder?<\/p>\n

And with time, she slowly realized that no matter how hard she tries, she can\u2019t make people stay when they don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

Allora, perch\u00e9 vorresti restare?<\/p>\n

Lei credeva nell'amore, sai? Credeva di poter amare qualcuno con tutto il cuore e che anche lui l'avrebbe amata.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Credeva che avrebbe avuto qualcuno al suo fianco con cui invecchiare. Qualcuno che l'avrebbe amata anche quando i suoi capelli sarebbero diventati grigi e il suo viso si sarebbe raggrinzito con il tempo.<\/p>\n

But it wouldn\u2019t matter because he would love her for who she was.<\/p>\n

It wouldn\u2019t matter because when he looked at her, he would see the woman he fell in love with.<\/p>\n

Una donna con onde di capelli castani, lentiggini sul viso e guance arrossate, che ama la vita e lotta contro le difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

She used to believe but she no longer does. She used to fight, but she gave up a long time ago. Why haven\u2019t you given up yet?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stata lasciata sola troppe volte<\/a>.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

People who swore to love her for eternity, ghosted her. People who promised her they would be there, weren\u2019t there when she needed them.<\/p>\n

Le persone che le hanno tolto l'amore e il calore, l'hanno lasciata al gelo.<\/p>\n

And when you promise her that you will be there, to love her, she fears you\u2019ll leave too.<\/p>\n

When you tell her that she\u2019s the one for you, she already sees you walking away, like all the others before you did.<\/p>\n

Quando la stringi forte, sente gi\u00e0 la solitudine che la colpir\u00e0 quando te ne andrai.<\/p>\n

Vuole crederti, ma l'idea che tu rimanga la terrorizza a morte.<\/p>\n

The idea of someone making her believe all over again, only to break her, is what\u2019s worrying her.<\/p>\n

She is afraid to trust you, because after the calm comes the storm. And she knows she can\u2019t survive another one.<\/p>\n

She was convinced that she\u2019s both too much and not enough.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

She is too much to handle and not enough to hold onto. She\u2019s too much to take in and not good enough to love.<\/p>\n

Era convinta che ogni parte di lei fosse sbagliata. Come ci si riprende da una cosa del genere?<\/p>\n

How do you get back on your feet when they\u2019re too broken to keep you standing? How do you keep on going when there\u2019s nothing left to look forward to?<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

And even when she seems like she has it all under control, there are still days when she can\u2019t get out of bed.<\/p>\n

E ci sono giorni in cui si alza dal letto, solo per andare in giro vuota e senza senso.<\/p>\n

Ha il pilota automatico, fa le cose che ci si aspetta da lei, ma non le vive. Non le ama. Non ama se stessa. Quindi, come potete amarla?<\/p>\n

Vuole fidarsi di voi. Vuole che tu superi tutti i suoi meccanismi di difesa, vuole che sia tu a rimettere insieme i milioni di pezzi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vuole che tu sia il motivo per cui ascolta le canzoni d'amore e le capisce. Vuole che tu sia la causa delle sue farfalle e il motivo del suo sorriso.<\/p>\n

Vuole mettervi a nudo la sua anima e mostrarvi le parti pi\u00f9 dolci e vulnerabili di lei. Ma ha bisogno che voi la incontriate a met\u00e0 strada.<\/p>\n

She needs to know you\u2019re in it as much as she is. Tell her that you\u2019re afraid too.<\/p>\n

Tell her that the thought of giving your heart to someone terrifies the shit out of you but that she\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s worth all of it. Make her believe that you love her and she will. Show her that there\u2019s no one else for you and she will be all you ever looked for.<\/p>\n

Once she lets you in, that\u2019s the only home you\u2019re ever going to need. And you\u2019ll be hers too.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>\n

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