{"id":16664,"date":"2020-05-20T11:50:16","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:50:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16664"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:06:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:06:33","slug":"ci-vuole-un-vero-uomo-per-amare-una-donna-distrutta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ci-vuole-un-vero-uomo-per-amare-una-donna-distrutta\/","title":{"rendered":"Ci vuole un vero uomo per amare una donna distrutta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>To her, love seems like a game of power and she\u2019s the one who hands it over.<\/b> Perch\u00e9 per lei l'amore \u00e8 qualcosa per cui vale la pena vivere e lottare.<\/p>\n<p>Love is something she\u2019s ready to lose herself in without even skipping a beat. It terrifies her to death but she\u2019d do it any day and anytime.<\/p>\n<p>You can see the fear in her eyes and hear the tremble in her voice but the strength of her love and the heat of her passion is what knocks you off of your feet. You can see that she\u2019s scared to the bone and she goes for it anyway.<\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for the fact that she\u2019s standing while she\u2019s falling apart inside. For the fact that she gets up every morning, facing the sunshine, while fighting with the darkness in her. <\/i><i>E per essere il porto in cui cercare sicurezza.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>A lei, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/chose-sweetest-words-get-heart-poisonous-actions-break\/\"><b>parole dolci<\/b><\/a><b> sono solo un'arma per attirare qualcuno, per poi farlo crollare.<\/b> Per lei l'amore \u00e8 tanto dolce quanto terrificante.<\/p>\n<p>And every time someone promises her love, she nods in agreement but deep down the doubt is tearing her apart, warning her of another break that\u2019s to come.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg\" alt=\"Donna pensierosa nella vasca da bagno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hugs are just there to ease the pain and to make it harder for her once you\u2019re gone. Because you ought to leave. Everyone else did, why wouldn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for facing her fears every single day while she\u2019s loving you. Love her for tumbling her walls down to show you that she trusts you. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for the fact that she\u2019s the fiercest and gentlest heart there is. Not the broken one but the beautiful one. Because she is so much more than just broken.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Per lei, l'idea di non amarti \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 dolorosa dell'idea che tu te ne vada.<\/b> Perch\u00e9 conosce il dolore di <a href=\"https:\/\/www.purposefairy.com\/82772\/5-things-learn-not-being-loved-way-needed\/\" rel=\"noopener\">non essere amati<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Sa quanto fa male quando si d\u00e0 tutto e si riceve cos\u00ec poco in cambio. Sa quanto fa male essere trascurati e quanto fa male sentirsi mentire.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi non giocher\u00e0 mai e poi mai con la vostra fiducia. Non vi lascer\u00e0 mai al buio se pu\u00f2 essere la luce. Non vi lascer\u00e0 mai al freddo se pu\u00f2 essere la fiamma.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88172\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for bringing color to your black and white life and warmth to the freezing caves of your mind. For putting a smile on your face and having a laugh so contagious that you\u2019re left wondering if sadness even exists next to her.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Per lei la rottura \u00e8 qualcosa che nasconde con un sorriso.<\/b> It\u2019s not because she\u2019s embarrassed, it\u2019s because she\u2019s afraid it\u2019ll seem too much to you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s afraid that you will see the woman she once was. The woman who let others take away her worth and her smile.<\/p>\n<p>La donna che si fidava di tutti avrebbe tenuto il suo cuore al sicuro, proprio come lei teneva il loro.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s afraid that you will run away because you can\u2019t fix her. But the thing is, there is no point in fixing something that doesn\u2019t need to be fixed.<\/p>\n<p><i>Love her for the amazing mosaic of all the battles and victories she\u2019s had. Love her for all of the pain she endured with that smile that would put the sun to shame. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>La amo per il fatto che lo spezzato le sta bene.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Per lei ogni giorno \u00e8 l'ultimo, quindi non trattiene nulla.<\/b> Perch\u00e9 aspettare le persone che non sono mai arrivate \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che l'ha uccisa alla fine.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88173\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul pavimento che guarda fuori dalle porte\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-the-doors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sperare invano \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che l'ha distrutta. E dare il suo cuore \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che l'ha spezzata.<\/p>\n<p>Ma vedete, lei vive ogni giorno un giorno alla volta. Si dona completamente ogni secondo della giornata.<\/p>\n<p>When pain pins her down, she whispers, \u201c<i>Abbiamo questo<\/i>.\u201d When fear tries to hold her back, she whispers, \u201c<i>Ancora una volta.<\/i>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>E quando i ricordi la inseguono, urla, <i>\u201cNot today.<\/i>\u201d Being broken is part of her and if you leave her for it, you\u2019re not the real man she deserves.<\/p>\n<p><i>Amarla per lei. Respirate con lei, piangete con lei. Aspettate l'alba accanto a lei e apprezzate ogni secondo che passate con lei. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Admire her and watch her in awe. And if you\u2019re not ready to do it, let her go. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>To her, being set free is better than being locked in a gilded cage with no love. If you\u2019re <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/youre-not-ready-love-let-go\/\"><i>non \u00e8 pronto ad amarla tutta, lasciarla andare<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-88167\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ci vuole un vero uomo per amare una donna distrutta\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To her, love seems like a game of power and she\u2019s the one who hands it over. Because love to her is something worth living and fighting for. Love is something she\u2019s ready to lose herself in without even skipping a beat. It terrifies her to death but she\u2019d do it any day and anytime&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":88168,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16664","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/It-Takes-A-Real-Man-To-Love-A-Broken-Woman.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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