{"id":16703,"date":"2020-03-21T08:05:01","date_gmt":"2020-03-21T08:05:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16703"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:55:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:55:02","slug":"7-tipi-di-uomini-che-vi-faranno-del-male-prima-che-vi-innamoriate-sul-serio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-tipi-di-uomini-che-vi-faranno-del-male-prima-che-vi-innamoriate-sul-serio\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tipi di uomini che vi faranno del male prima che vi innamoriate per davvero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It has happened to you and if it hasn\u2019t, it will. You have to go through a lot of stuff before you hit the right one. It\u2019s the same thing with men. You have to go through a lot of wrong ones and you have to learn a lot of lessons before you fall in love for real and forever.<\/p>\n<p>This will teach you to love and cherish your true love when you meet him because of all the times you\u2019ve been hurt, mistreated and manipulated. So, here goes, the list of men who\u2019ll hurt you and you\u2019ve probably encountered them already and if you haven\u2019t, then you will:<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Quelli che si approfittano di voi e se ne vanno<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>They will keep you by their side as long as they need you. If you are a people-pleaser and you don\u2019t know how to say no when you\u2019ve had enough, they will keep using you as long as you can take it and as long as they need you.<\/p>\n<p>If they were dumped and are hurting now, they will be with you only to make themself feel better. They will just keep you for the rebound. Every time they need help, you are there for them but when you\u2019re hurting, they are nowhere to be seen. And once they feel better, they will <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/accade-finalmente-di-scartare-il-narcisista-manipolatore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">scartare<\/a> completamente.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Quelli che amano il controllo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Control freaks are extremely dangerous but they can\u2019t help themselves. They enjoy control and even if a tiny thing is not under their rule, it will make them crazy. They are assured that they know and see everything and if you try to suggest something, not only will they deny it but they will hurt you in the process because, you know, your opinion doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<p>Finch\u00e9 sarete sottomessi a loro e farete esattamente tutto ci\u00f2 che vi diranno, tutto andr\u00e0 bene; loro saranno felici e non ci sar\u00e0 bisogno di farsi prendere dal panico. Ma non appena sviluppate il vostro senso di s\u00e9 e volete che la vostra opinione sia presa in considerazione, allora avete un problema, perch\u00e9 la cosa peggiore che pu\u00f2 capitare a un maniaco del controllo \u00e8 di perdere il controllo su di voi.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Fottuti ragazzi<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The classic case of a D-bag but even so, girls seem to fall for them every time. Even when they see and know a guy they like is a fuckboy, they don\u2019t give up. Every one of them thinks they can change his behavior and turn him into a normal guy. That is not going to happen! It\u2019s impossible and it\u2019s pretty ridiculous to even think that you can change someone. You can help them if they want to change themself, you can be their support but you can\u2019t decide to change them without them knowing it.<\/p>\n<p>And what happens every time? He doesn\u2019t change, he breaks your heart and moves on to the next <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-modi-in-cui-chi-tradisce-fa-la-vittima\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">vittima<\/a>. You have to understand that you can\u2019t play his mind games because you will lose. He was playing this game long before you came along and he knows exactly what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Quelli che fanno la vittima<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>For every mistake they make, they have an excuse which leads you to think that something is wrong with you, and that you are overreacting. So you slow down and find more understanding for them, even though they don\u2019t deserve it. They are one of the most toxic people to be around.<\/p>\n<p>Their victim-playing is their strongest weapon because in that way they are manipulating you and you don\u2019t get that you are being played. They never accept that they did something wrong and if you corner them, they play the victim, so you feel sorry for them and doubt yourself and your actions.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Bugiardi<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to handle a liar because you never know if they are telling the truth. You can\u2019t trust them and you can\u2019t build a relationship if there is no trust. And even if the slightest problem arises, you will doubt him and his words won\u2019t mean anything to you.<\/p>\n<p>And in the end, it will turn out that you were right all along. He betrayed you, he lied to you and he broke your heart. That\u2019s what you get when you mess with liars. They can never change and that\u2019s something you should have known from the start.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. The ones who aren\u2019t quite ready for a relationship<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First of all, this is a lame excuse. Who is ever ready for love? It\u2019s not like you can say to yourself, okay now, I want to love someone and I want to be loved, so let\u2019s do it! Yeah right, if only that could be possible. This guy is just not the right person for you.<\/p>\n<p>These men will never be ready to commit to you, they will always have problems in life that keep them from giving their attention to your relationship. Either they have problems at work, or with their family, or they haven\u2019t yet gotten over their last break-up. They are still aching, but what they\u2019re actually doing is keeping you as a backup plan, so if something better comes along, they will leave.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Quelli che ti permettono di essere l'unico a provarci<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Vi lasceranno fare tutto. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/fulfillment-any-age\/201712\/the-top-5-ways-the-psychopathic-will-try-manipulate-you\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Vi manipoleranno<\/a> into chasing them because they don\u2019t feel like it. They will never do anything nice for you but they know how to make you do something nice for them. They never answer their texts and it makes you wonder if everything is okay, so you send 10 of them.<\/p>\n<p>And the scenario is, they answer tomorrow with: \u201cHey babe, sorry I didn\u2019t see you texted me,\u201d which is ridiculous because you know he never lets his phone out of his sight. Anyway, they will hurt you but they will help you at the same time because you\u2019ll learn your lesson and never make that mistake again.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It has happened to you and if it hasn\u2019t, it will. You have to go through a lot of stuff before you hit the right one. It\u2019s the same thing with men. 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