{"id":167060,"date":"2024-07-03T11:24:19","date_gmt":"2024-07-03T11:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167060"},"modified":"2024-09-14T15:59:00","modified_gmt":"2024-09-14T15:59:00","slug":"errori-che-gli-uomini-commettono-agli-appuntamenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/errori-che-gli-uomini-commettono-agli-appuntamenti\/","title":{"rendered":"I 10 peggiori errori che i ragazzi fanno agli appuntamenti e che le donne odiano"},"content":{"rendered":"

Conosco cos\u00ec tante storie di appuntamenti andati male che potrei scriverci un libro! Sometimes it\u2019s funny, other times it’s just disappointing and creepy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

From guys who turned out to be complete narcissists to the ones who are rude and don\u2019t know how to act like gentlemen, I\u2019ve heard it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You simply can\u2019t go through life without ending up on at least one bad date. I\u2019ve definitely been on a few dates I wish never happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dopo aver ascoltato le lamentele dei miei amici e in base alle mie esperienze personali, mi sono resa conto che ci sono alcune errori comuni che gli uomini commettono agli appuntamenti e che sono un vero e proprio rifiuto per le donne. <\/strong>There\u2019s legit nothing worse than when they:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Presentarsi in ritardo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"donna<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Questa \u00e8 una cosa che mi fa storcere il naso! Presentarsi in ritardo dappertutto, a meno che non si abbia un'ottima scusa, \u00e8 semplicemente irrispettoso! Arrivare in ritardo d\u00e0 un'energia negativa fin dall'inizio dell'appuntamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ricordo che una volta ho aspettato un ragazzo per quasi un'ora! Dopo che il mio pasto si \u00e8 raffreddato, anche il mio interesse per lui si \u00e8 raffreddato. Quindi, per favore, preparatevi per tempo e prendete sempre in considerazione diverse cose che potrebbero influire sull'orario di arrivo a un appuntamento, come ad esempio il traffico!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re already late and can\u2019t do anything about it, at least send a quick message and make sure you apologize and make up for it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Parlare solo di se stessi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Whenever I went out with a guy who couldn’t stop talking about himself, I always felt like he was not interested in me but only wanted to tell someone his whole life story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, we want to get to know you but conversation requires at least two people, so don\u2019t be the only one talking! I know you want to present yourself in the best light but talking only about yourself is doing the exact opposite! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E francamente, we\u2019re not interested in every minor detail about your life. <\/strong>Instead, we want to see if we\u2019re compatible and decide if we\u2019re gonna see each other ever again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Vantarsi troppo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"uomo<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Lo stesso vale per chi parla troppo di se stesso, che noia! Ci piacciono i ragazzi sicuri di s\u00e9, ma non quelli pieni di s\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I once went on a date with a guy who couldn\u2019t stop bragging about how much money he makes, where he travels, and famous people he works with. It was so annoying! It\u2019s nice to know you\u2019re successful but people who are obsessed with materialistic things aren\u2019t attractive at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Concentratevi sulla creazione di un legame e su cose che rivelino la vostra personalit\u00e0 e i vostri valori.<\/strong>, non i numeri del vostro conto in banca!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Don\u2019t listen<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Essere in grado di ascoltare attivamente gli altri \u00e8 un'abilit\u00e0 cos\u00ec importante e preziosa! Ascoltare con attenzione e impegnarsi in una conversazione<\/strong> to show women you\u2019re interested in them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t only wait for them to finish so you can say something. Try to understand what they\u2019re saying, ask follow-up questions, and validate their opinions and feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My friend told me she was out with a guy who didn\u2019t pay attention to anything she was saying. She felt like she wasn\u2019t important to him and couldn\u2019t understand why he asked her out since he seemed uninterested. If she talked to the wall it would feel the same!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Concentrarsi sui loro telefoni<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"uomo<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

I think it\u2019s pretty clear we all became obsessed with our phones. Seriously, it\u2019s something we should work on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You live in the real world and get a chance to have fun with someone and build a connection but you choose the virtual world instead? If you check your phone too much on dates, women think whatever you\u2019re looking at is probably more important than them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siate rispettosi e dimostrate loro che volete davvero uscire con loro. <\/strong>No one wants to be with someone who can\u2019t leave their phone alone for a couple of hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Parlare del proprio ex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I went out to grab a drink with one guy once and that was the last time I saw him. He talked so much about his ex, how they\u2019re still hanging out, and he told me she\u2019s smart, beautiful\u2026 This whole time I wondered why he wasn\u2019t with her if he liked her that much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guys, if you\u2019re still not over your ex, please give yourself some time before engaging with other people. Focus on the person you\u2019re with, not someone you left in the past.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But even if you\u2019re not on good terms with your ex, don\u2019t talk trash about them! Just avoid mentioning them in any sense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Non hanno buone maniere<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"donna<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

I sometimes feel that gentlemen have gone extinct! It\u2019s so easy to be a decent human being and still, some people manage to fail in that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing speaks more about you and your character than the way you behave. Don\u2019t act like a Neanderthal, for God\u2019s sake! Aprirle la porta, tirarle fuori la sedia ed essere gentili.<\/strong> alle persone che vi circondano!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sono tutte piccole cose che fanno una grande differenza nell'opinione che abbiamo di voi e che possono decidere se vogliamo rivedervi o ghostarvi sui social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Fare il gradasso con il tocco fisico<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This one might be the biggest turn-off. Some men seriously need to learn what consent means. It\u2019s so important to know how to read someone\u2019s body language so you can see if they\u2019re comfortable around you or not. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per favore respect women\u2019s boundaries and don\u2019t be too touchy<\/strong> a meno che non sappiate 100% che il vostro accompagnatore lo desidera. Se notate che sembrano a disagio anche solo per un secondo, fate un passo indietro e chiedete scusa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s no need to rush. If you have real chemistry with someone, things will kind of happen on their own without you having to push anything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Don\u2019t care about their appearance<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"uomo<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Le donne fanno molto prima di uscire con un appuntamento. Esfoliamo e depiliamo tutto il corpo, passiamo ore a truccarci e a scegliere cosa indossare, ci assicuriamo che i capelli siano perfetti e molto altro ancora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quindi potete solo immaginare la nostra delusione quando usciamo con qualcuno che si \u00e8 fatto a malapena la doccia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando il mio amico mi ha chiesto cosa ne pensassi del suo abbigliamento per un appuntamento, sono rimasta scioccata! Voleva uscire con una maglietta stropicciata, i capelli scompigliati e la barba nemmeno rasata. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dovete fare di meglio, ragazzi. Vestitevi in modo appropriato, mettete una bella colonia e andate dal vostro barbiere prima dell'appuntamento! <\/strong>That\u2019s the least you can do compared to what women go through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Lasciare che siano le donne a comandare<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Questo \u00e8 probabilmente l'errore pi\u00f9 comune che vedo fare agli uomini. Pensate che siccome oggi pi\u00f9 donne sono femministe, vogliamo prendere l'iniziativa? Oh no, avete sbagliato tutto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vogliamo la parit\u00e0 di diritti, ma essere un gentiluomo \u00e8 ancora il vostro lavoro. Quindi assicuratevi di pianificare la data, di prenotare e di organizzare tutto. Show us you\u2019re capable and take initiative.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women appreciate that more than you think. If you\u2019re not sure what\u2019s her vibe, suggest a couple of different options you have in mind and let her choose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember that a first impression is the most important. Show her you\u2019re interested and enjoy her company. Cercate sempre di rendere l'appuntamento indimenticabile e memorabile<\/strong>In modo positivo, naturalmente. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know so many stories about dates gone wrong that I could write a book about them! Sometimes it\u2019s funny, other times it’s just disappointing and creepy. From guys who turned out to be complete narcissists to the ones who are rude and don\u2019t know how to act like gentlemen, I\u2019ve heard it all. You…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":167063,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/10-Worst-Mistakes-Guys-Make-On-Dates-That-Women-Hate-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167060"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167060\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167071,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167060\/revisions\/167071"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167063"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}