{"id":167084,"date":"2024-07-03T11:55:09","date_gmt":"2024-07-03T11:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167084"},"modified":"2024-09-14T15:58:52","modified_gmt":"2024-09-14T15:58:52","slug":"la-verita-sugli-appuntamenti-con-i-ragazzi-belli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-verita-sugli-appuntamenti-con-i-ragazzi-belli\/","title":{"rendered":"Pensi che uscire con un uomo sia facile quando sei un bell'uomo? Non ne hai idea.\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Essendo una persona molto visiva, <strong>Avevo una passione per i ragazzi belli,<\/strong> but it changed over time. Not that I\u2019ll miss noticing a handsome man on the street, but now I choose a good personality rather than good looks. If <em>Il Sig.<\/em> <em>Grande personalit\u00e0 <\/em>happens to be handsome too \u2013 it&#8217;s a jackpot!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Mi ci \u00e8 voluto molto tempo per iniziare a valutare le qualit\u00e0 reali negli uomini.<\/strong> e cercare coloro che sono semplicemente a posto, un po' nella media in termini di aspetto, ma con un fascino unico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So che gli appuntamenti possono essere difficili e che bisogna baciare molte rane lungo la strada. So che pu\u00f2 essere anche frustrante e che ci si chiede continuamente, <strong><em>\u201cWhy does it take me such a long time to find the right person?\u201d<\/em><\/strong>. Beh, forse continuate a fare scelte sbagliate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Forse avete aspettative irrealistiche, <\/strong>and that\u2019s why it\u2019s hard to get what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But have you ever thought of\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Com'\u00e8 la situazione per le persone attraenti?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spesso diamo per scontato che essere <strong>un bell'aspetto garantisce una vita facile agli appuntamenti <\/strong>pieno di infinite possibilit\u00e0 e di connessioni senza sforzo. Gli uomini e le donne di bell'aspetto possono avere chi vogliono e trovare l'amore per loro \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile che per il resto di noi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ma la realt\u00e0 \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 diversa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gli uomini e le donne straordinari devono affrontare le loro sfide di coppia.<\/strong> che pu\u00f2 rendere sorprendentemente difficile trovare relazioni autentiche e durature.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They often struggle with being perceived only as a nice face \u2013 <strong>il loro aspetto mette in ombra la loro personalit\u00e0. <\/strong>Sometimes, it\u2019s hard for them to be taken seriously or for others to recognize their deeper qualities and interests.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando si parla di uomini belli, si ricorre sempre ai buoni vecchi stereotipi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s often believed good looks in men come with certain traits such as <strong>carisma, sicurezza e persino una personalit\u00e0 da playboy.<\/strong> Tutto questo li mette sotto pressione e crea in loro grandi aspettative per soddisfare questi ideali.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>\u201cHere\u2019s the truth about dating as a handsome guy\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A TikToker, Austin Dunham, shared some insights on dating as a handsome guy\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I couldn\u2019t resist being sarcastic and thought <em>Poveri uomini belli! La vita \u00e8 cos\u00ec dura, anche per loro!&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But let\u2019s get real and see what he has to say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cMost guys think whenever you increase your looks your attraction is, women are just gonna fly to you and in some cases that can be true, but it\u2019s mostly gonna be a particular type of woman, not the ones you\u2019re thinking about.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I actually have a theory that if you\u2019re a man you\u2019re gonna attract women in mostly one or two points below your current looks threshold or at least your perceived looks threshold.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quindi, sostiene che non importa quanto possiate essere stupefacenti, <strong>you\u2019ll always attract partners who are not as good-looking as you. <\/strong><em>Man, that doesn\u2019t feel fair!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then he explains if a man is like eight out of ten, or seven out of ten, he\u2019ll have more \u201cfives\u201d or \u201csixes\u201d looking for his attention. Pretty women will not even consider him, because\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cWomen who are the eights, nines, and tens they\u2019re feining after the all stars, the athletes, the celebrities, the musicians. And when you become a handsome man, you\u2019re gonna wanna date on your same level.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>However, those women are gonna be increasingly more difficult to actually communicate with, to get in touch with, because the absorbent amount of options that they have.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sottolinea inoltre che <strong>gli uomini belli che non hanno abbastanza denaro, status sociale e reti di contatti hanno poco da offrire<\/strong> and they\u2019ll be unable to keep the women they attract.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quindi, a parte il look, <strong>a<\/strong> <strong>l'uomo deve avere tutto. <\/strong>Anche per mantenere quelle donne che sono <em>uno o due livelli sotto di lui.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&nbsp;\u201cSure, they think you\u2019re a nice face so have a good time with you, but if you wanna get to the point where you actually wanna keep these women in your life, it\u2019s gonna be that much more harder.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>So that\u2019s why as a man, you have to be well rounded, not just attractive but in every aspect of your life.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi sono quasi dispiaciuto per <strong>all those handsome men who can\u2019t get what they want<\/strong> e devono lavorare sodo per avere successo nonostante la loro attrattiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poi ho controllato la sezione dei commenti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>\u201cI consider myself a six and I get a bunch of fours and fives\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un utente ha commentato che <strong>tutti i sette sopra citati sono sopravvalutati, <\/strong>so he prefers lower numbers as they\u2019re easier to handle. Another one said it\u2019s all about money:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments.jpg\" alt=\"commenti\" class=\"wp-image-167105\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poi, qualcuno ha chiamato <em>Testorenesandwich,<\/em> si \u00e8 descritto come un <em>\u201chandsome dude\u201d <\/em>who doesn\u2019t need money, and <strong>Le donne sono felici quando lo circondano. <\/strong>Una donna ha detto che gli uomini di bell'aspetto sono per il gioco ma non per l'impegno.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media.jpg\" alt=\"commenti sui social media\" class=\"wp-image-167108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Questa sui rossi mi ha fatto scoppiare a ridere:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform.jpg\" alt=\"commenti su piattaforme di social media\" class=\"wp-image-167107\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/comments-on-social-media-platform-1200x795.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Credito: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sembra quindi che gli appuntamenti non siano una zuppa d'anatra, nemmeno per gli uomini attraenti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sebbene essere belli abbia certamente i suoi vantaggi, comporta anche grandi aspettative, se si vuole mantenere il proprio partner. <strong>It\u2019s nice they\u2019re handsome, but they must be smart and successful too, <\/strong>hanno potere, contatti e denaro!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci si aspetta che gli uomini belli abbiano tutto.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Guardate il video qui:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham\/video\/7332127592306232607\" data-video-id=\"7332127592306232607\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@basedaustindunham\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@basedaustindunham?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@basedaustindunham<\/a> <p>La realt\u00e0 degli incontri tra uomini belli<\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c suono originale - Austin Dunham\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7332127901334850335?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Austin Dunham<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a very visual person, I used to have a thing for hunky guys, but it changed over time. Not that I\u2019ll miss noticing a handsome man on the street, but now I choose a good personality rather than good looks. If Mr Great Personality happens to be handsome too \u2013 it&#8217;s a jackpot! It&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167106,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167084","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Do-You-Think-Dating-Is-Easy-When-Youre-A-Handsome-Guy-You-Have-No-Idea-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":244,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":244,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167084","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167084"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167084\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167110,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167084\/revisions\/167110"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167084"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167084"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167084"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}