{"id":16767,"date":"2020-03-22T08:07:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-22T08:07:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16767"},"modified":"2022-05-22T22:53:40","modified_gmt":"2022-05-22T22:53:40","slug":"6-motivi-per-cui-non-dovreste-mai-riprendervi-un-traditore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-cui-non-dovreste-mai-riprendervi-un-traditore\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivi per cui non dovreste mai riprendervi un traditore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s so hard to find a faithful partner because it\u2019s easier to cheat and hope the other one doesn\u2019t find out than to talk to your significant other and tell them you are not happy or that you have a problem and you want to solve it.<\/p>\n<p>La maggior parte dei miei amici \u00e8 stata tradita almeno una volta nella vita, che loro sappiano.<\/p>\n<p>And I always told them the same thing: \u201cYou can forgive him, but things are never going to be the same.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s true. You will never be able to forget what he did to you.<\/p>\n<p>Every time he touches you and kisses you, you\u2019ll know that he touched and kissed her, too. You\u2019ll know that you weren\u2019t the only one.<\/p>\n<p>Living with that burden is not easy, and no matter how sorry he was, he couldn\u2019t be sorry enough.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 assolutamente nessuna scusa che possa giustificare le sue azioni. E quello che alcune donne fanno dopo questo tradimento definitivo \u00e8 riprendersi il suo culo dispiaciuto.<\/p>\n<p>They do it because they love him and despite the horrible thing he has done, they still didn\u2019t stop loving him.<\/p>\n<p>But, don\u2019t do that mistake because things are never going to be the same. Your love for him will change and it will fade.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco i motivi per cui non dovreste mai riprendere un traditore:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">1. He doesn\u2019t love you enough<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94341\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall.jpg\" alt=\"Un uomo fissa una donna vicino a un muro grigio\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Man-stares-at-woman-near-gray-wall-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know this is hard to hear, but it\u2019s true. If he loved you the way you deserve, he wouldn\u2019t have cheated on you.<\/p>\n<p>It wouldn\u2019t even have crossed his mind because you would have been more than enough. This way, he offended you and showed you he doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n<p>That is not love. Don\u2019t fall for the mind game of convincing you that it\u2019s your fault because you didn\u2019t give him enough attention or you didn\u2019t fulfil his needs.<\/p>\n<p>There is a cure for that and it\u2019s called \u2018communication\u2019. Too bad for him for not trying it sooner\u2014now it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">2. Lo far\u00e0 di nuovo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94342\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/lovers-showering-together.jpg\" alt=\"amanti che fanno la doccia insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/lovers-showering-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/lovers-showering-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/lovers-showering-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se rimanete con lui, creder\u00e0 inconsciamente che ci\u00f2 che ha fatto non \u00e8 poi cos\u00ec grave perch\u00e9 lo avete perdonato.<\/p>\n<p>La sua mentalit\u00e0 cambier\u00e0 e inizier\u00e0 a fare cose che probabilmente ti feriranno perch\u00e9 gli hai dimostrato che puoi superare cose come questa.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why he will probably do it again. He will cheat on you and turn you into an emotional wreck because he knows he can. He knows you love him and you will get over things which you wouldn\u2019t normally.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">3. Vi ha messo in imbarazzo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94343\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confused-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"donna confusa in posa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confused-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confused-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confused-woman-posing-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When he chose to cheat on you, he did it willingly and on purpose\u2014which means that he hurt you on purpose.<\/p>\n<p>His deed showed that he doesn\u2019t respect you and maybe even thinks that you are too dumb to find out he was cheating on you.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t care what other people think. He didn\u2019t care that others might have known of his infidelity and they laughed behind your back, or felt sorry for you, but no one ever had the guts to say it to your face.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t care for any of that. He embarrassed you and moved on with his life. Do you want to live like the woman who was played for a fool and took him back?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-riprendete-mai-un-ex-che-vi-ha-scaricato\/\">14 ragioni definitive per non riprendersi mai un ex che vi ha scaricato<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">4. Non lo dimenticherete mai<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94344\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"Donna d&#039;affari pensierosa e timorosa che guarda altrove\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Pensive-fearful-business-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 essere il vostro pi\u00f9 grande amore, pu\u00f2 essere il vostro mondo, ma sar\u00e0 anche il ragazzo che vi ha tradito.<\/p>\n<p>Sar\u00e0 l'uomo che ha tradito la vostra fiducia, ha agito alle vostre spalle e si \u00e8 preso gioco di voi. \u00c8 una cosa che non dimenticherete mai.<\/p>\n<p>You can try, you can pretend, but the moment he goes out and doesn\u2019t text you back, you will be wondering if he is with another woman again.<\/p>\n<p>Ricorderai tutto quello che ti ha fatto. Come quando ti sei ubriacata cos\u00ec tanto da cadere nel bar.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t your proudest moment, but you will remember it forever. You will remember him cheating on you forever and it will bother you every minute of every day.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">5. Non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 fiducia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94345\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-lying-on-sofa-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste sdraiata sul divano che pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-lying-on-sofa-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-lying-on-sofa-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-lying-on-sofa-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His act only shows he didn\u2019t give a shit about you. He was too selfish to take your feelings into consideration. It\u2019s not like he didn\u2019t have a choice.<\/p>\n<p>Avete sempre una scelta e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/chose-love-chose-destroy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ha scelto di imprimere sul tuo cuore<\/a> and break it. He chose to cheat on you\u2014he didn\u2019t think twice about it.<\/p>\n<p>How can you be sure he won\u2019t do it again? How can you be sure when he goes somewhere that he is not cheating on you again. You can\u2019t. You know what they say, \u201cOnce a cheater, always a cheater.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">6. Meritate di pi\u00f9<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94346\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-puts-hand-on-woman-hand.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo mette la mano sulla mano della donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-puts-hand-on-woman-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-puts-hand-on-woman-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-puts-hand-on-woman-hand-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a guy betrays your trust and does something like this to you, let\u2019s face it\u2014he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, perch\u00e9 sprecare il proprio tempo con una persona del genere? Perch\u00e9 sprecare il vostro tempo per cercare di renderlo migliore, per portarlo sulla retta via?<\/p>\n<p>He will never change and he chose it to be like that. If he had cared, he wouldn\u2019t have cheated.<\/p>\n<p>Quell'uomo non vale i vostri sforzi o le vostre lacrime. Ci sono milioni di altre persone che ti terrebbero al sicuro tra le loro braccia, proteggendoti da tutto. Non gli passerebbe mai per la testa di farvi del male come ha fatto lui.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste another minute of your life on a cheater because if he did it once, he will do it again. Period.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94339 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 motivi per cui non dovreste mai riprendervi un traditore\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s so hard to find a faithful partner because it\u2019s easier to cheat and hope the other one doesn\u2019t find out than to talk to your significant other and tell them you are not happy or that you have a problem and you want to solve it. Most of my friends have been cheated on&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":94340,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You-Should-Never-Take-Back-A-Cheater.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16767"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16767\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}