{"id":167748,"date":"2024-07-10T07:46:31","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:46:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167748"},"modified":"2024-07-10T07:46:33","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:46:33","slug":"come-non-affezionarsi-presto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-non-affezionarsi-presto\/","title":{"rendered":"L'esperto di appuntamenti rivela come evitare di cogliere i sentimenti troppo presto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Getting caught up in feelings early during the dating stage can be a real roller coaster, and I\u2019ve experienced that crazy ride more times than I\u2019d like to admit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I used to be the person who would one day casually go out with a guy, and the next thing you know, I\u2019m daydreaming like crazy. We didn\u2019t even set up a second date and I\u2019m already planning our future together!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ero cos\u00ec disperata per l'amore che Pensavo che ogni uomo con cui uscivo fosse <\/strong>l'uno<\/em><\/strong>senza rendermi conto che mi sarebbe costato molti cuori infranti. Poi mi sono imbattuta in Shahrzad Parandeh, una dating coach su TikTok che mi ha cambiato la vita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi ha elencato tutto ci\u00f2 che ho sbagliato, ma per fortuna mi ha fornito anche delle soluzioni! Ha iniziato il suo video<\/a> dicendo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cIf you\u2019re a woman who gets attached early on during the dating phase, I\u2019ve got you, girl! I want you to listen to this, I want you to save this and come back to it because it\u2019s going to change your dating game and it\u2019s going to really help you approach dating in a much healthier way.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Shahrzad spiega come ha fatto gli stessi errori in passato e le si sono sempre ritorti contro.<\/strong> but now everything\u2019s different. She shared the things that helped her and that every woman can apply to her life. So try this out next time!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realize you don\u2019t even know this guy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Anche se all'inizio pu\u00f2 sembrare strano, ha senso! Spesso fantastichiamo su una persona inventata nella nostra mente.<\/strong> while not knowing anything about them. Who knows if he\u2019s even half of those things you want him to be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Invece di passare il tempo a convincervi che lui \u00e8 la persona giusta per voi, cercate di conoscerlo meglio prima di fare progetti sul vostro futuro. <\/strong>This man might be a convicted criminal while you\u2019re here thinking he\u2019s your perfect match.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Credito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Shahrzad explains you\u2019re focusing on the wrong things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYou wanna know whether or not he has what it takes to be with you. Is he gonna be a person that\u2019s reliable, is he trustworthy, is he consistent, is he gonna treat you right?… And if right off the bat, he\u2019s not showing you the qualities that you want, instead of focusing on what do I do to make him come to me, take a step back and say I don\u2019t even know who he is. Let me see if he has the qualities, the real qualities that I want.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

You gotta admit she\u2019s right. How can you think you\u2019re in love when you haven\u2019t even found out much about him? Don\u2019t think you know him fully just from one date and late-night texting.<\/strong> Prendetevi il tempo di incontrarlo davvero e poi decidete se vi piace, non la versione immaginaria che avete in testa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rallentate il ritmo dei messaggi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Sappiamo tutti che potrebbe essere difficile, soprattutto quando vi piacciono molto. Tuttavia, you can\u2019t find out everything about someone immediately.<\/strong> Sarebbe anche noioso ripercorrere velocemente tutta la nostra vita attraverso i messaggi e non lasciare nulla per il futuro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ha parlato dell'importanza di essere reali con se stessi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cWhen you\u2019re texting all day and all night, you start to get this false sense of intimacy. You start to have real feelings for someone that\u2019s just texting you. They\u2019re not really dating you when they\u2019re just texting you!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Credito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

So che \u00e8 una bella sensazione quando si entra in sintonia con qualcuno e si hanno molti argomenti di cui parlare, ma non ha tutti i torti. It\u2019s just a nice conversation, nothing more! <\/strong>So why would you invest your feelings as if you\u2019re in a committed relationship when you\u2019re far away from that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il dating coach ha anche spiegato it causes unnecessary drama and anxious feelings the moment they\u2019re busy and can\u2019t text you.<\/strong> If you get nervous while waiting for his response and then drop everything the second he answers, that\u2019s the biggest sign you need to step back!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Concentrare l'energia su se stessi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Shahrzad ha concluso il video ricordando il consiglio che d\u00e0 a tutti i suoi clienti. \u00c8 necessario think about all the energy you\u2019re wasting on him and redirect it towards yourself.<\/strong> Come ha detto lei stessa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cAll that attention, all of that beautiful love that you\u2019re freely giving away to someone that you hardly know, you deserve it, so call it back to you. Bring all of that attention back to you. You deserve all of that energy!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Credito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Imagine you\u2019re spending all this time and energy on someone who\u2019s not even worth it and you\u2019ll forget he existed one month from now. It\u2019s much better to focus on yourself and relax.<\/strong> Don\u2019t fantasize about him, let him show you if he\u2019s what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I suoi consigli sugli appuntamenti hanno aiutato molti!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A lot of women in her comments said she read them like an open book and they found this video very helpful. Some even admitted it wasn\u2019t easy to come clean about this problem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThis was hard for me to hear\u2026 it\u2019s was only 3 wks and he already ghosted me. It\u2019s been really really draining.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Un'altra ragazza rimpiange di non aver ascoltato questo consiglio in tempo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI wish I would have seen this before he friend-zoned me then ghosted me after 5 weeks. He was a gentleman but now I wonder if he was talking to someone else.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re not the only ones who have been enlightened. I have to admit questo dating coach ha aiutato anche me.<\/strong> After implementing everything she talked about, I\u2019ve experienced a huge change!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Non sono pi\u00f9 ansioso e mi sento pi\u00f9 rilassato e sicuro di me. I try to be open to everything and don\u2019t make any conclusions ahead of time.<\/strong> So definitely try it out and you\u2019ll be thankful to Shahrzad for sharing her wisdom!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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