{"id":167763,"date":"2024-07-10T08:30:48","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T08:30:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167763"},"modified":"2024-07-10T08:30:50","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T08:30:50","slug":"il-segreto-di-un-lungo-matrimonio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-segreto-di-un-lungo-matrimonio\/","title":{"rendered":"Una coppia sposata da 69 anni condivide la propria saggezza per un matrimonio lungo e felice"},"content":{"rendered":"

Viviamo in un'epoca in cui i matrimoni lunghi e felici sono sempre pi\u00f9 rari. \u201cHappily ever after\u201d<\/em> sembra qualcosa di puramente fiabesco, ma alcune coppie ci stanno dimostrando che non \u00e8 cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Immaginate di trascorrere quasi sette decenni con la vostra anima gemella<\/strong> \u2013 going through thick and thin, surviving storms, and enjoying the rainbow after rainy days. While this might sound like a dream for us, it\u2019s a reality for one couple. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanno conquistato i cuori di 2,5 milioni di euro <\/strong>persone su TikTok che hanno visto un loro video e si sono subito innamorate della loro energia e del loro umorismo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il segreto di un grande matrimonio \u00e8 piuttosto semplice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You have to see Yair Brachiyahu\u2019s most recent video virale<\/a> dell'intervista che ha fatto a una coppia di anziani. Il loro matrimonio, durato quasi 7 decenni, \u00e8 la prova che il vero amore esiste ancora!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Quando Yair chiese loro un consiglio per un matrimonio lungo e sano, l'uomo rispose scherzosamente:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cJust say yes all the time.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Although he joked, I think there\u2019s some truth in his words, don\u2019t you think? His wife added it\u2019s important to say no to fighting <\/strong>and you\u2019ll have a great marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, arguments are completely normal and not having any is what can cause problems in a marriage, but fighting is something completely different. It\u2019s important to learn how to discuss sensitive topics and how to approach conversations about different opinions with respect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spesso cerchiamo spiegazioni pi\u00f9 complesse che ci svelino il segreto di un buon matrimonio, ma questa coppia dimostra che il segreto si nasconde in realt\u00e0 in queste piccole cose.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando un intervistatore ha chiesto loro cosa amano l'uno dell'altra, hanno risposto rapidamente. Lei ha detto che ama quando lui la ascolta, e lui, ridendo, ha risposto che ama tutto di lei, come il modo in cui si comporta e quello che fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le persone hanno apprezzato la loro energia positiva e le loro battute e qualcuno ha commentato:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cTheir sense of humor is obviously one of the reasons they have kept the marriage intact.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Penso anche che le vibrazioni positive e il non prendere le cose troppo sul serio siano una parte importante del loro successo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La capacit\u00e0 di piegarsi ha tenuto in vita il loro matrimonio per 69 anni<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

La coppia ha anche raccontato come \u00e8 iniziata la loro storia d'amore. Quando Yair le ha chiesto come si sono conosciuti, lei ha risposto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThrough friends. And he felt for me immediately! He went home and called me up on the phone. It was fun. We were young. It was nice!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Credito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

It\u2019s no surprise that she took all his attention the moment they met! He recalls what made him fall in love with her and said it was her looks, body, and personality saying that\u2019s all you really need in a person. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As Yair said, a lot of couples today get a divorce after a couple of years spent together and I think it\u2019s mostly because le persone non sono disposte a impegnarsi per far funzionare il loro matrimonio.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes there\u2019s no other option and it\u2019s best everyone goes their separate ways, but often couples don\u2019t know how to resolve simple disagreements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cos\u00ec, quando l'intervistatore ha chiesto loro cosa avesse tenuto in vita il loro matrimonio cos\u00ec a lungo, entrambi hanno concordato su una cosa. Essere in grado di piegarsi un po', o molto a volte, \u00e8 la ricetta per un matrimonio lungo e sano.<\/strong> Ha detto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYou know, you have to accept the good and the bad in the person.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s true! You can\u2019t just give up easily on someone. Of course, accepting the bad shouldn\u2019t be the case when that\u2019s something that\u2019s abusive or harmful in any sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Significa essere flessibili, capaci di adattarsi e di trovare un compromesso.<\/strong> Finding common ground with your spouse it\u2019s all that matters to make both of you happy and satisfied. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il video si \u00e8 concluso con un'altra risposta divertente che ha fatto ridere tutti. Yair ha chiesto loro qual \u00e8 stato il momento pi\u00f9 bello trascorso insieme e l'uomo ha risposto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c2 o\u2019clock in the morning!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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Credito: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Many people in the comments loved his response and said that\u2019s the real magic behind a marriage like that. Some even said this was their favorite couple he interviewed by far!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi consiglio di per saperne di pi\u00f9 sul suo profilo<\/strong> from other couples! If you\u2019re happily married, share your secret to the long marriage in the comments below!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We live in a time where long and happy marriages are becoming more and more rare. \u201cHappily ever after\u201d seems like something purely existing in fairytales but some couples are proving us wrong. Imagine spending almost seven decades with your soulmate \u2013 going through thick and thin, surviving storms, and enjoying the rainbow after rainy…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167771,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167763","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/A-Couple-Married-for-69-Years-Shares-Their-Wisdom-For-A-Long-and-Happy-Marriage-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167763","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167763"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167763\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167774,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167763\/revisions\/167774"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167771"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167763"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167763"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167763"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}