{"id":16785,"date":"2020-08-22T09:06:06","date_gmt":"2020-08-22T09:06:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16785"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:52:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:52:12","slug":"la-verita-e-che-ti-amo-ma-non-ne-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-verita-e-che-ti-amo-ma-non-ne-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ti amo, ma tu non ne vali la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c8 cos\u00ec difficile lasciare andare qualcuno che si pensava fosse quello giusto. \u00c8 straziante sapere che non si \u00e8 mai stati destinati a stare insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Questa volta \u00e8 successo qualcosa di strano, un errore nel sistema, un cablaggio sbagliato che ci ha messo insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I think it\u2019s a cruel joke God played on me. Here you go, fall in love with him, give him everything you\u2019ve got, open your heart, let him in and he will spin around and stomp on it.<\/p>\n<p>He will have the time of his life and you\u2019re going to be paying the price in tears.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>This pain I feel won\u2019t go away. It appears everywhere\u2014in my heart, in my soul <\/strong><\/em>e<em><strong> in my mind. I can\u2019t fight it anymore. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I can\u2019t fight you anymore. I\u2019m sorry, but I\u2019m giving up.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ti sei preso la briga di conquistarmi, perch\u00e9 hai chiesto la mia attenzione se non hai mai fatto sul serio? Perch\u00e9 qualcuno dovrebbe fare una cosa del genere, far s\u00ec che una persona <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/this-is-why-you-should-fall-in-love-with-a-strong-woman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">innamorarsi<\/a> e poi fregarsene?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110627 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una bella bionda triste siede appoggiata alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-beautiful-sad-blonde-sits-leaning-against-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hai giurato di amarmi. Hai promesso di tenermi al sicuro. Hai promesso che nessuno mi avrebbe mai toccato, che nessuno mi avrebbe mai fatto del male.<\/p>\n<p>Ma l'ironia \u00e8 che tu hai infranto tutte le promesse che mi hai fatto. Sei tu che stai facendo tutto quello da cui avevi detto di volermi proteggere.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Maybe you\u2019re not hurting me on purpose but that just proves that you don\u2019t care and you never did. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>And that\u2019s why you don\u2019t deserve me. That\u2019s why you are not worthy of me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m trying so hard to erase my love for you, I\u2019m hoping it will fade away and slowly disappear. I hope that letting you go and getting over you won\u2019t be that hard.<\/p>\n<p>It shouldn\u2019t be so hard but it is because my heart doesn\u2019t want to accept that you don\u2019t love me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>My heart doesn\u2019t want to believe that you never loved me. My mind doesn\u2019t want to accept that our paths should never have crossed.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110629 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"una brunetta triste \u00e8 seduta sul divano a pensare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-couch-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But it will have to because I don\u2019t want to live like this anymore. I have to let you go, even though I still love you, because I have to think about myself and what\u2019s good for me.<\/p>\n<p>Questa volta devo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/2018-will-put-first\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mettere me stesso al primo posto<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done making everyone around me feel happy and satisfied. I\u2019m done granting wishes and stomping all over myself while doing so. I\u2019m done being my own last resort.<br \/>\nHo puntato molto sulla nostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Even when I saw that we were growing apart, just because I stopped trying, I gave it another shot. I didn\u2019t give up right away, even though I should have, because you didn\u2019t deserve another chance.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ho cercato di capirti. Ho cercato di trovare una ragione per cui le cose sono andate come sono andate. Sono stato pi\u00f9 che ragionevole con te. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>No one else would put up with your shit like I did and you still didn\u2019t appreciate me. You still didn\u2019t see how much I tried, not even then.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ero sempre l\u00ec per te quando la vita ti buttava gi\u00f9. Ero la spalla su cui appoggiavi la testa quando eri stanco.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110633 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man.jpg\" alt=\"sulle scale una donna consola un uomo triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/on-the-stairs-a-woman-comforts-a-sad-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ero il volto sorridente che tornavi a casa dopo una giornata difficile. Ma sai una cosa?<\/p>\n<p>Your head was too heavy to rest on my shoulder but I let you do it anyway. I didn\u2019t feel like smiling but I did it anyway; I did it to make you feel better.<\/p>\n<p>L'ho fatto per confortarti quando avevi bisogno di me. Ancora una volta, ti ho messo al di sopra di me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I can\u2019t keep trying to make you love me. I can\u2019t keep fighting for us because there was never us, it was only you and it was only me. And you\u2026 you didn\u2019t deserve me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>This relationship has become torture. I\u2019m not happy and now that I\u2019ve stopped trying to please you, you aren\u2019t happy either. It hurts like hell to let you go but it will hurt even more to make you stay.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll find someone who is right for you and I know I will find someone who is right for me. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/cath-pascual\/2017\/02\/i-ready-to-let-go-of-you-and-find-someone-who-deserves-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Qualcuno che mi merita<\/a>, someone who will be worthy of all the love and effort I\u2019m going to put into our relationship.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I love you but you\u2019re just not worth it. You will never love anyone but yourself so I just hope you\u2019ll find someone who will accept you for who you are.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-110640 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/The-Truth-Is-I-Love-You-But-Youre-Not-Worth-It-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ti amo, ma tu non ne vali la pena\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/The-Truth-Is-I-Love-You-But-Youre-Not-Worth-It-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/The-Truth-Is-I-Love-You-But-Youre-Not-Worth-It-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/The-Truth-Is-I-Love-You-But-Youre-Not-Worth-It-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/The-Truth-Is-I-Love-You-But-Youre-Not-Worth-It-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/The-Truth-Is-I-Love-You-But-Youre-Not-Worth-It-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s so hard to let go of someone you thought was the one. It\u2019s heartbreaking to know that you were never meant to be together. This time something strange happened, a mistake in the system, wrong wiring that put us together. Sometimes I think it\u2019s a cruel joke God played on me. Here you go,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16785","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16785","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16785"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16785\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16785"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16785"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16785"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}