{"id":167976,"date":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=167976"},"modified":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T18:47:48","slug":"giorno-nella-vita-di-una-coppia-infelice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/giorno-nella-vita-di-una-coppia-infelice\/","title":{"rendered":"Se la vostra giornata con il partner ha questo aspetto, la vostra relazione \u00e8 su un terreno roccioso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever woken up next to your partner but felt like you were miles away? You\u2019ve been together for quite some time but something\u2019s missing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questo \u00e8 uno scenario che tutti temono<\/strong>ma purtroppo molte persone lo riconoscono e lo capiscono un po' troppo bene. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le relazioni che un tempo erano piene di desiderio e di forte amore possono talvolta trasformarsi in qualcosa di completamente diverso. Anche io una volta mi sono sentito come se fossi vivere con un estraneo sotto lo stesso tetto <\/strong>e non un uomo con cui ho passato anni e con cui ho condiviso tutto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psicoterapeuta ed esperto di relazioni, Deborah Krevalin<\/strong> (@debkrevalincounseling<\/a>) ha fatto luce su questo argomento nel suo TikTok<\/a> e ha descritto come si presentano di solito queste relazioni. Se questo vi sembra familiare, potrebbe essere il momento di parlare seriamente del futuro con il vostro partner.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA day in the life of an unhappy couple\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re truly in love and satisfied with your partner, each day looks like the first time you felt butterflies in your stomach. You can\u2019t wait to open your eyes in the morning and see them, or to hear about their day when they get back from work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi piace davvero la loro compagnia e non vi stancate mai di loro. Ogni giorno \u00e8 una nuova emozionante avventura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, quando le persone sono infelici insieme, le cose appaiono un po' diverse. Perdono la scintilla che avevano un tempo e smettono quasi completamente di interessarsi l'uno all'altro.<\/strong> Deborah ha descritto come si svolge di solito una giornata per queste coppie:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThey wake up and maybe they say \u2018good morning\u2019, at best. They do their own things, they get ready for the day, and possibly the partner who leaves first says, \u2018See you later, I\u2019m leaving\u2019, maybe \u2018have a good day.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"donna
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Some people wouldn\u2019t assume this is problematic but I problemi spesso si nascondono in quelle piccole cose, come il semplice non salutarsi o riconoscersi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il mio ex mi mostrava sempre affetto al mattino, mi baciava e mi coccolava ogni giorno prima di andare al lavoro. Dopo un po' di tempo, ha iniziato a comportarsi esattamente come lei ha descritto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Passare da amanti a estranei<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t just end with forgetting you\u2019re not living alone, but also una mancanza di comunicazione e di tempo di qualit\u00e0 insieme. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo psicoterapeuta ha anche aggiunto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThere\u2019s no contact during the day, there\u2019s no \u2018What are we doing for dinner?\u2019, nothing like that. You don\u2019t know when the partner is coming home, you guys just sort of arrive when you arrive.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"vecchia
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

When relationships come to this stage it\u2019s clear something\u2019s not right. Couples tend to get more distant each day and if they don\u2019t put an end to it, o rompono le cose o diventano completamente estranei, solo coesistendo nello stesso spazio. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leaving isn\u2019t always the best option, although it might be the easiest for some. If you\u2019re ready to fight for your love, there\u2019s nothing an honest conversation and a bit of work on your relationship can\u2019t solve. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deborah also mentioned that another hallmark of unhappy couples is that they don\u2019t even spend time together even if they live under the same roof. She said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThen usually during the night you\u2019re reading or watching TV, probably not in the same room, and then you go to bed and rinse and repeat. \u201c<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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\"donna
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Purtroppo questa \u00e8 una triste realt\u00e0 per molte coppie di oggi. <\/strong>While some recognize this toxic pattern and want to fix it, others simply accept their destiny and stay with their partners because they already become comfortable and don\u2019t want to cause drama. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, that can\u2019t lead to anything good and it\u2019s just a matter of time when things will escalate <\/strong>since you can only live in that environment for some time before losing your sanity. One woman said this was her reality once and it didn\u2019t end well:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cBeen there, he didn\u2019t wanna go for a walk, a hike, out to eat, play pool, go watch a sunset. ANYTHING. I was bored, sad, and miserable.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s interesting is that not all people agree this is a miserable life. Some say they live like that and don\u2019t find anything wrong with it<\/strong>mentre altri preferirebbero essere soli piuttosto che avere quel tipo di relazione. <\/p>\n\n\n

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\"commenti
Fonte: TikTok<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

I don\u2019t think this is a healthy way to live with someone, but I guess Ognuno ha le sue preferenze.<\/strong> Maybe some people aren\u2019t keen on affection or need more time alone because they\u2019re introverted, so this lifestyle suits them. Who knows!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either way, openly discussing your relationship and how would you like things to go is always a good idea. In this way, we can avoid having uncomfortable moments and making the other side feel like they\u2019re neglected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every problem can be solved so don\u2019t give up right away! La vostra relazione pu\u00f2 rifiorire come prima <\/strong>if you\u2019re willing to make it work!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever woken up next to your partner but felt like you were miles away? You\u2019ve been together for quite some time but something\u2019s missing.  This is a scenario everyone dreads, but unfortunately, a lot of people recognize it and understand it a bit too well.  Relationships that were once filled with desire and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":167981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167976","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/If-Your-Day-With-A-Partner-Looks-Like-This-Your-Relationship-Is-On-Rocky-Ground-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=167976"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167982,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/167976\/revisions\/167982"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/167981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=167976"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=167976"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=167976"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}