{"id":168001,"date":"2024-07-11T07:41:24","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T07:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168001"},"modified":"2024-07-11T07:41:27","modified_gmt":"2024-07-11T07:41:27","slug":"come-trovare-lamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-trovare-lamore\/","title":{"rendered":"Il segreto per trovare l'amore senza cercarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anche voi siete stufi di sentirvi dire: \u201cOh, you\u2019ll find someone when you stop looking.\u201d<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ec, lo ero anch'io. Ogni volta che qualcuno mi diceva una cosa del genere, sgranavo gli occhi. So che avevano buone intenzioni e volevano farmi sentire meglio, ma onestamente lo odiavo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Non ho mai capito come smettere di cercare qualcuno quando volevo davvero, davvero, avere una relazione seria. Cosa significa fingere finch\u00e9 non ce la fai? \u00c8 cos\u00ec? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec brutto voler avere qualcuno al proprio fianco? Come posso incontrare qualcuno se cancello tutte le mie app di incontri, abbandono gli eventi per single e smetto di cercare l'anima gemella?<\/strong> Non ha mai avuto senso per me!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wouldn\u2019t I be seen as someone who\u2019s not interested in relationships and guys would get a totally different message from me? These are all the things that would spin around my mind until I finally realized what people meant by saying I\u2019ll find love when I stop searching for it. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quindi voglio condividere con voi le cose che mi hanno aiutato a trovare l'amore senza nemmeno provarci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDon\u2019t worry about finding the right person, focus on being the one\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"bella<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This quote describes the essence of what people actually want to say to you. It\u2019s not really about not looking for love, it\u2019s about not forcing something that isn\u2019t meant to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although we think we know what\u2019s best for us, I think that\u2019s not always the case. We might think we\u2019re ready to commit and give our everything to another person but in reality, we\u2019re far away from that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why I really believe the universe sometimes saves us from misery and trouble by not letting us have what we want at some moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spesso pensiamo di aver bisogno di un'altra persona per sentirci appagati, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 ben lontana da questo. <\/strong>Dobbiamo concentrarci e lavorare su noi stessi. Essere sicuri di s\u00e9 e felici \u00e8 stata una parte importante per trovare la mia anima gemella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need your \u201cother half\u201d, you\u2019re already whole<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

People rush to meet someone while they don\u2019t even know themselves fully.  This is dangerous as it could resurface later in your relationships and cause issues. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inoltre, se hai bisogno di qualcun altro per essere felice, tesoro, hai un grosso problema. Nessuno vuole stare con qualcuno che \u00e8 disperato.<\/strong> I don\u2019t know, it\u2019s just not attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, people don\u2019t want their partner to be clingy all the time and suffocate them just because they can\u2019t live without them. Do you understand now where I\u2019m going with this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ec, quindi in pratica \u00e8 necessario imparare a passare del tempo da soli e a godersi la vita da single.<\/strong> \u00c8 il momento in cui potete fare tutto ci\u00f2 che volete senza dover pensare a qualcun altro. Tutte le decisioni importanti dipendono da voi e da ci\u00f2 che desiderate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So use that time wisely to live life however you want. When you see how happy you can be even when you\u2019re alone, you won\u2019t depend on anyone else for your happiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is really important and will come in handy if you realize at some point you don\u2019t want to be in a relationship anymore. You\u2019ll know there\u2019s nothing bad about being alone and it\u2019s better than being miserable with someone else.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t want to be the person who stays with someone even if they\u2019re a horrible person just because you don\u2019t want to be single, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vivere appieno la propria vita<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The key is not to completely give up on love and then expect it will find us, it\u2019s just to shift our focus from desperately searching for l'uno<\/em> a qualcosa che amiamo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s crazy how many people I attracted once I looked satisfied with where I was in life and didn\u2019t force anything. That\u2019s what you need as well!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oltre a concentrarsi sul miglioramento personale, potete letteralmente fare tutto ci\u00f2 che vi rende felici. <\/strong>Viaggiare, dedicarsi a nuovi hobby, uscire e divertirsi con gli amici, avviare un'attivit\u00e0 in proprio, qualsiasi cosa! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vivere la vita in questo modo e non preoccuparsi costantemente di trovare qualcuno vi far\u00e0 capire che avere un partner \u00e8 solo un bonus, non una necessit\u00e0. <\/strong>When people see what kind of life you have, they\u2019ll naturally want to be a part of it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mettersi in gioco \u00e8 anche il modo pi\u00f9 semplice per incontrare qualcuno inaspettatamente e le persone che si incontrano in questo modo spesso si rivelano le migliori!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So stop overthinking already, damn it! By forcing things, you\u2019re just setting yourself up for failure. You\u2019ll see that once you shift your energy from finding true love, it\u2019ll come quicker than you expect and surprise you.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Are you also sick of hearing people say: \u201cOh, you\u2019ll find someone when you stop looking.\u201d? Yeah, I was too. I would roll my eyes every time someone said that to me. I know they had good intentions and wanted to make me feel better, but honestly, I hated it.  I never understood how to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":168007,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168001","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/The-Secret-To-Finding-Love-Without-Searching-For-It-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168001"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168011,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168001\/revisions\/168011"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168007"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168001"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168001"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168001"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}