{"id":168024,"date":"2024-07-11T09:15:09","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T09:15:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168024"},"modified":"2024-07-11T09:15:09","modified_gmt":"2024-07-11T09:15:09","slug":"giocare-con-i-bambini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/giocare-con-i-bambini\/","title":{"rendered":"Pap\u00e0 dice che non gli piace giocare con suo figlio e chiede se \u00e8 normale"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re a parent you know that sweet phase when your baby is just cooing and giggling quickly turns into a toddler phase which is not that fun. Well, almost not fun at all if you ask some people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parenting isn\u2019t always the most enjoyable experience<\/strong> and we don\u2019t talk about it enough. Sure, there are some really special moments, like when your baby smiles for the first time or says their first word. But then they become toddlers and want you to play with them all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is when I started questioning everything. Why do I hate playing with my child so much? I don\u2019t even know how to play with them and sembra pi\u00f9 un lavoro noioso che un momento di legame!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So you can only imagine my relief when I found out I\u2019m not the only one and a lot of parents struggle with this. One dad asked Reddit how they feel about playtime with their toddlers. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDoes anyone actually enjoy playing with their child\/children?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Un recente post su Reddit<\/a> sparked discussion among parents. Apparently a lot of people don\u2019t really enjoy playing with their kids, especially toddlers. A dad started his post by saying:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cAs basically all parents do I really love my son and there are some really enjoyable moments as well as some really difficult and exhausting moments. So far so normal and expected.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Prima di diventare genitore,<\/strong> si aspettava di trascorrere questi momenti con suo figlio.<\/strong>ma presto la realt\u00e0 lo colp\u00ec duramente. Ha continuato:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cBut one thing bothers me. Before becoming a parent I expected that playing with once child would be quite enjoyable… But it’s sooooo incredibly boring. I really have to try hard to seem interested and not give away that I’d rather do something else.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Si \u00e8 subito reso conto che Spingere continuamente macchinine giocattolo non era proprio come si immaginava l'essere genitore.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"pap\u00e0<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Credo che non ci sia nemmeno un genitore che possa dire che la genitorialit\u00e0 sia andata esattamente come se l'era immaginata. Tutti noi intraprendiamo questo viaggio con l'idea che essere genitori sia pieno di momenti dolci e divertenti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dopo un po' di tempo, questa sensazione iniziale svanisce e diventiamo schiavi della noiosa routine quotidiana. \u00c8 allora che ci rendiamo conto che intrattenere un bambino pu\u00f2 essere piuttosto opprimente ed estenuante. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s not that we\u2019re tired of our kids or don\u2019t love them, that\u2019s far away from the truth! We simply don\u2019t find joy in little things they are just discovering for the first time. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you may feel guilty and I did too! However, this is a completely normal part of parenthood and there\u2019s nothing to worry about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il pap\u00e0 ha concluso il post dicendo che spera che le cose cambino quando suo figlio sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 grande. Altri genitori lo hanno sostenuto e hanno condiviso i loro consigli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you think playing with toddlers is boring, you\u2019re not alone<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Reddit users quickly validated dad\u2019s feelings saying they feel the same about playtime with their kids. Many shared their own experiences and how they cope with this problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il messaggio comune a tutti i commenti era lo stesso; while playtime is crucial for kids, it\u2019s also normal for parents to find it monotonous.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"famiglia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

One parent shared their struggles with pretend games and said while she enjoys board games and card games she can\u2019t stand playing with Barbies or anything similar. This was the top comment for a reason because apparently, it\u2019s what bothers other parents as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tutti hanno detto trovano fastidioso quando i loro figli attraversano la fase immaginativa del gioco <\/strong>e vogliono che gli altri giochino con loro esattamente come desiderano. Tuttavia, non tutti sono d'accordo e dicono di amare questo aspetto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI enjoy very much playing pretend with my 4-year-old. She has a great imagination and makes up fun and interesting scenarios. They are often removed enough from reality to be entertaining to me. I also guide the game to a place where I get to enjoy myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Un altro genitore ha detto la sincera verit\u00e0 che nessuno vuole ammettere:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI really don’t enjoy playing, no. I do play and try to fake it for their good, but mostly I try to do the things that I do enjoy: reading or art. And I watch them do the other things and let them tell me about it. But playing pretend makes me want to ram my head into a brick wall, so I keep that to a minimum.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

The dad replied to her thread and wrote he\u2019s now relieved knowing other people feel that way as well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alcuni utenti hanno condiviso ci\u00f2 che li ha aiutati a gestire i loro bambini. <\/strong>A lot of parents try playing with their kids only when it comes to something they actually enjoy. In other cases, they encourage them to play alone as that\u2019s also important. <\/p>\n\n\n

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Fonte: Reddit<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Il segreto \u00e8 trovare qualcosa che piaccia a entrambi.<\/strong> so you can make the most out of your time together. Being a parent isn\u2019t easy with everything we have to do and then to always be ready to play with kids on top of that is almost impossible sometimes. So don\u2019t be hard on yourself! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all about finding balance. You need to make sure your child is getting the development they need but also don\u2019t forget about your well-being.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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