{"id":16807,"date":"2018-03-22T13:36:18","date_gmt":"2018-03-22T13:36:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16807"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:59:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:59:00","slug":"sei-una-lezione-che-vorrei-non-aver-mai-imparato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-una-lezione-che-vorrei-non-aver-mai-imparato\/","title":{"rendered":"Sei una lezione che vorrei non aver mai imparato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo senti? \u00c8 il suono del mio cuore che si spezza perch\u00e9 mi hai tradito nel modo peggiore possibile. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi hai dato la speranza che mi amerai, <\/span>senza alcuna intenzione di farlo<\/span><\/a>. Come hai potuto farmi questo? Come hai potuto fare una cosa del genere alla donna che ti amava pi\u00f9 di se stessa? <\/span><\/p>\n

I admit it\u2014it was my biggest mistake but I can\u2019t turn back time. I can just learn a lesson from the shitty behavior you showed me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hai fatto di tutto per allontanarmi una volta che ho mostrato interesse per te. Hai allontanato la ragazza che voleva davvero essere tua. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y<\/span>ou see, I didn\u2019t want the moon and the stars. I just wanted you to love me like I loved you. I just wanted you to try as hard as I was trying. I just wanted you to fight for me, but you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che ho sempre voluto \u00e8 il tuo amore.<\/h2>\n

Ho persino accettato tutti i tuoi difetti e i tuoi bagagli del passato. Ho cercato di capirti ogni volta che avevi dei problemi ed ero l\u00ec per abbracciarti e dirti che tutto andr\u00e0 bene. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if that helped you, but I gave my best to make you feel better. I gave it all for the man I loved but who couldn\u2019t love me back. And that was all I wanted all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prendere la tua mano con orgoglio e mostrarti al mondo invece di incontrarti in segreto in sudice stanze d'albergo. Ma ho accettato tutto questo perch\u00e9 pensavo che saresti cambiato.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensavo che il mio amore ti avrebbe cambiato. Pensavo che avresti visto quanto amore e affetto c'erano in ogni tocco, in ogni bacio, in ogni abbraccio. Ma, come sempre, non te ne sei accorto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non ho mai ricevuto il trattamento che meritavo e mi sono sempre accontentato di meno di quello che meritavo perch\u00e9 ti amavo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Volevo solo che mi trattassi con rispetto.<\/h2>\n

So tell me, did I ask too much from you? Was it too much to ask the man I loved to treat me like I deserved to be treated? You know that I never asked anything that you couldn\u2019t give me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t ask for diamonds and stars. I just asked for your love and some respect\u2014respect that would make me stay. I just wanted to see you trying as hard as me. If you had tried a little bit harder, maybe we would have made it then.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma questo era troppo per te!<\/h2>\n

You had some twisted idea of love in your head that didn\u2019t make any sense. You wanted me to give you the girlfriend benefits while you didn\u2019t give me boyfriend benefits at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was good only when I was sleeping with you, but when I wanted to meet the people that are important to you, you didn\u2019t have the guts to admit to them that we were dating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if I deserved all the relationship benefits, you never gave any to me. You weren\u2019t ready to do anything for me, even if I did even the impossible for you. You didn\u2019t care about me at all. But you should have.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to accept me.<\/h2>\n

You always wanted to change me and to mold me into someone who was a \u2018<\/span>fidanzata perfetta<\/span><\/a>\u2019 according to your taste. With you, I experienced an almost love\u2014the type when you don\u2019t know if you are with someone or not<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were keeping me close because that was convenient for you, but on the other hand, you didn\u2019t want to commit fully because you were scared. And trust me, there was nothing to be scared about. But you missed seeing that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti \u00e8 mancato vedere una donna davanti a te con il cuore in mano. Quella che tremava ogni volta che ti vedeva. Una ragazza che era molto pi\u00f9 di quanto tu meritassi.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to put me first.<\/h2>\n

For you, I was always a second option\u2014a girl who will be there when everyone else abandons you. The one who doesn\u2019t ask much but kisses and hugs you every time life slaps you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sono stata la ragazza che \u00e8 rimasta con te anche quando le cose andavano cos\u00ec male che qualsiasi altra persona probabilmente se ne sarebbe andata al mio posto. Ma sono rimasta accanto a te. E tutto quello che ho fatto, l'ho fatto per entrambi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Too bad that you never saw that. But maybe you didn\u2019t want to see, right? Because it was much easier to close your eyes to the good things I did for you because you could convince me that you owed me nothing after all. <\/span><\/p>\n

E sai qual \u00e8 stata la parte peggiore? Hai pensato che sarei sempre stata l\u00ec, a elemosinare briciole del tuo amore, ma ti sbagliavi di grosso.<\/p>\n

Mi sono stancato di essere l'unico a provarci.<\/h2>\n

Admit it\u2014you were actually okay with losing me. You thought that there are other girls who are much better than me and will give you the love and affection I gave you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even want to fight for me when I wanted you to do that. You were indifferent the whole time. And that is exactly the opposite of love. When you are indifferent, you feel the same whether someone is there or not.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need that person like the air you breathe. But too bad that I needed you even more than the air I was breathing. I needed you more than I have ever needed anything in my life. And you not giving a damn about me was something that made my whole world fall apart. <\/span><\/p>\n

The day when you didn\u2019t choose me, you actually lost me. Mi hai perso per sempre<\/a> and there wasn\u2019t a way that you could bring me back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per quanto volessi restare, mi hai respinto.<\/h2>\n

Mi hai allontanato ogni volta che ho dovuto implorarti di ascoltarmi. Mi hai allontanato fregandotene di me quando avevo pi\u00f9 bisogno di te. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi hai allontanato con la tua indifferenza e la tua mancanza di amore. Mi hai allontanato senza l'intenzione di lottare per me e di riconquistarmi. <\/span><\/p>\n

So I am asking you: \u201cAre you happy now?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Hai davvero perso una ragazza che voleva essere tua.<\/h2>\n

E volevo solo il tuo amore e il tuo affetto. Volevo che mi guardassi e pensassi che sei cos\u00ec fortunato ad avermi. Volevo che ammirassi le cose che faccio e che mi dicessi che eri orgoglioso di me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t want those bad words from your mouth. I didn\u2019t want gaslighting, lying and manipulation. But unfortunately, that was all I got from you. I never got the unconditional love I craved so much. <\/span><\/p>\n

I never got all those magical moments that people in love have the chance to experience. You didn\u2019t know to provide me with the only thing I needed from you\u2014love!<\/span><\/p>\n

After you realize that you won\u2019t have a girl like me anymore, you will try to find me in every other woman but you won\u2019t find me. No woman will treat you like I did, look at you with admiration and proudness and no one will ever put you first like I did.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nessuno di loro rester\u00e0 con te quando gli mostrerai il tuo vero volto. \u00c8 una cosa che solo io ero in grado di fare.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma il punto fondamentale \u00e8 che devo ringraziarvi per questa lezione. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have realized how strong I was. I would never have started cherishing myself enough to start a new chapter of my life with someone who is worthy of my love and everything that I can give. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you ever see me again don\u2019t look at me like I was shattered. I am just a breathtaking mosaic of the battles I\u2019ve won!<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you hear that? That is the sound of my heart breaking because you betrayed me in the worst possible way. You gave me hope that you will love me, without any intention to do so. How could you do that to me? How could you do something like this to the woman that loved…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":30620,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16807","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/adult-blur-bonnet-246804-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16807","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16807"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16807\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30620"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}