{"id":16819,"date":"2018-03-22T14:45:14","date_gmt":"2018-03-22T14:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16819"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:21:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:21:13","slug":"5-cose-che-ogni-ragazza-che-sta-affrontando-una-rottura-dovrebbe-sentirsi-dire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-ogni-ragazza-che-sta-affrontando-una-rottura-dovrebbe-sentirsi-dire\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose che ogni ragazza che sta attraversando una rottura dovrebbe sentirsi dire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non esiste persona al mondo che non abbia avuto una rottura dolorosa in passato.<\/p>\n<p>Quando lo si affronta, si pensa che sia la fine del mondo, ma poi ci si rende conto che fa parte della vita. Ma \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile quando c'\u00e8 qualcuno che ti prende per mano in questa dolorosa esperienza.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco quindi 5 cose che avrei voluto mi venissero dette quando stavo attraversando una rottura, che avrebbero reso tutto molto pi\u00f9 semplice.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Sopravviverete<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando si affronta una brutta rottura, si pensa che il peso del mondo intero sia caduto sulle proprie spalle.<\/p>\n<p>For you, life has no meaning anymore and you don\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel. In those moments of despair, you are positive that you\u2019ll never get over this guy and that you\u2019ll suffer forever. But I am here to tell you that everything will be OK.<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019ve heard this line far too many times but it really isn\u2019t just an empty phrase\u2014it\u2019s the truth. Yes, you are going through a lot of emotional pain now but there will come a time when you\u2019ll laugh at this.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this pain seems unbearable and too much for you to handle at the moment but life will put you through more difficult situations and this break-up will look like a piece of cake. No matter what you think now, you\u2019ll get better and you\u2019ll survive.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Non ne vale la pena<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I assume that this is the last thing you want to hear right now but this guy is really not worth it. It will take a long time before you really understand this but he didn\u2019t deserve everything you are going through now because of him.<\/p>\n<p>This won\u2019t reduce your suffering, because you still love him despite knowing this, but it is something you should repeat to yourself constantly.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 degno delle vostre lacrime, non \u00e8 degno di tutte le notti insonni e non \u00e8 degno della vostra sofferenza.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/10-signs-hes-not-worthy-of-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">non \u00e8 degno di te<\/a>. It is simple\u2014if he was worthy, he wouldn\u2019t have put you through everything you are going through.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. Probabilmente anche lui sta soffrendo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Una delle prime domande che tutti ci poniamo quando stiamo vivendo una crisi di cuore \u00e8 se siamo gli unici a sentirci cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>Anche questo ragazzo pensa a me? Gli manco, anche solo un po'? Agli uomini piace fingere di essere dei duri e di soffrire raramente per amore. Ma io sono qui per dirvi che tutto questo \u00e8 una stronzata.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably suffering the same way you are but he just doesn\u2019t show it. You are not the only one waiting for his phone call or stalking him on social media\u2014he does it too.<\/p>\n<p>But this shouldn\u2019t be a sign for you to get back together with this guy, it should only help you stop feeling miserable about yourself.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. He wasn\u2019t the love of your life<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-state-attraversando-una-rottura-dolorosa\/\">siete nel bel mezzo di una dolorosa separazione<\/a>Probabilmente pensate che quest'uomo sia l'amore della vostra vita. Da questo punto di vista, siete convinti di non aver mai amato nessuno come avete amato lui e che non amerete mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>You think this man was your soulmate and that you\u2019ll never find someone like him. And that is normal. But it doesn\u2019t make it true. Trust me\u2014this guy was probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-screaming-signs-not-soulmate\/\">non la tua anima gemella<\/a> or the love of your life and you\u2019ll definitely love again, despite what you may think now.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let yourself fall into despair, thinking you\u2019ll end up forever alone. Yes, you\u2019ll probably spend some time consumed by this sadness you are feeling now but as soon as you meet someone new, it will go away.<\/p>\n<p>Arriver\u00e0 un uomo che vi far\u00e0 dimenticare che questo ragazzo \u00e8 mai esistito. Probabilmente tutto questo vi sembrer\u00e0 improbabile e impossibile, ma credetemi, accadr\u00e0 quando meno ve lo aspettate.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Questa sar\u00e0 una lezione per voi<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I know you probably think that this was the worst thing that could\u2019ve happened to you.<\/p>\n<p>You feel hopeless, like all of your dreams and hopes have been shattered into pieces. But trust me\u2014there will come a time when you\u2019ll realize this was the best thing that could\u2019ve happened. There will come a time when you\u2019ll see that he was your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/sei-stata-la-mia-lezione-piu-dura\/\">la lezione pi\u00f9 difficile<\/a> ma che \u00e8 stata un'esperienza preziosa.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t see it now but there will come a time when you\u2019ll thank God that this man walked away from your life.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world who didn\u2019t have a painful break-up in the past. When you are going through it, you think of it as the end of the world, but later you realize it is all part of life. But it is easier when there is someone to take your hand&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":16820,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16819","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/asdrubal-luna-485688-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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