{"id":16835,"date":"2020-08-23T09:27:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T09:27:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16835"},"modified":"2022-01-26T02:00:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-26T02:00:38","slug":"5-cose-orribili-che-i-narcisisti-fanno-per-controllare-le-loro-vittime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-orribili-che-i-narcisisti-fanno-per-controllare-le-loro-vittime\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose orribili che i narcisisti fanno per controllare le loro vittime"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le persone che soffrono di un Disturbo Narcisistico di Personalit\u00e0 non sanno come comportarsi nelle relazioni intime.<\/p>\n

Mancano di empatia e comprensione per gli altri e, nel processo di trascurare e manipolare il partner, pensano solo a se stessi.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that they are incapable of feeling love, they are incapable of loving anyone but themselves.<\/p>\n

Il loro amore per se stessi \u00e8 al di sopra di ogni altra cosa e li spinge a manipolare le loro vittime affinch\u00e9 facciano ci\u00f2 che vogliono e come lo vogliono.<\/p>\n

Being trapped in a narcissist\u2019s grasp can destroy you and it\u2019s almost impossible to break free from it. You are a victim of mind control and manipolazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You are being brainwashed and your confidence and self-love are crushed into dust\u2014they don\u2019t exist. That is, in fact, how they keep you under their control.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Vi schiacciano per potervi governare.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They destroy you completely, making you think that you don\u2019t deserve anything else. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vi fanno pensare che siete fortunati ad averli nella vostra vita perch\u00e9 vi hanno fatto credere che nessuno vi amer\u00e0 mai, che non siete amabili e che siete completamente orrendi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

So, you hang on to their abusive love because you don\u2019t know any better and you\u2019re scared to let go and start all over again.<\/p>\n

When someone keeps feeding you with negativity and claims that you are incapable of living without them, that you are incompetent and actually there is no use to you whatsoever, after some time, you start believing it and when the time comes and you want to leave, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared that you are not going to make it.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni narcisistiche sono come le droghe.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

L'abuso dura cos\u00ec a lungo che il corpo e la mente si abituano.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you break free finally, you\u2019ll start craving it in a second. You\u2019ll crave the dose of a narcissist because he managed to emotionally hook you on his evil.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni narcisistiche sono umilianti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He will drag you to the darkest place of your life. You won\u2019t be able to think straight nor will you know what you\u2019re doing. The only thing you will know is that you want it to stop.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll keep praying for the pain to go away and for him to stop, to shut up. You\u2019ll burn inside, but your face will be calm. Cold. Blank.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Le relazioni narcisistiche vi cambiano<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They change who you\u2019ve been. Those people tear you down and crush you from the inside with their abuso narcisistico<\/a> tattica. <\/p>\n

They rebuild you into the person they want by their side, not you. You are just a casual victim whom they don\u2019t give a shit about.<\/p>\n

Your feelings don\u2019t matter to them. You are not a human being. To them, you are a little insignificant nobody.<\/p>\n

Questo ti cambia nel profondo. Anche quando vi allontanerete da lui, non sarete pi\u00f9 gli stessi.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You will try to bring joy back into your life and in the beginning, it\u2019s going to be excruciating.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll wish you\u2019d never been born. You\u2019ll curse the day you met him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to be angry with yourself for letting a narcissistic sociopath ruin your life, ruin you. But, it\u2019s not your fault. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You did nothing wrong, so you can\u2019t blame yourself. You never see them coming. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sono cos\u00ec subdoli e manipolatori che possono camuffarsi come vogliono. Una volta che lo fanno, una volta che ti fidi di loro, ti intrappolano.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I narcisisti usano tattiche subdole<\/a> manipolare per fargli fare le cose a modo loro. Ottengono sempre quello che vogliono e in ogni circostanza, e siete voi a pagarne il prezzo.<\/p>\n

Proiezione di sentimenti negativi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a defense mechanism to protect themselves.<\/p>\n

They will project their negative feelings onto you and they will put the blame on you which will make you feel like crap when instead, it\u2019s them who have to feel that way.<\/p>\n

Ma vi manipoleranno facendovi credere che sia stata colpa vostra e che dobbiate sentirvi in colpa per qualcosa che hanno fatto.<\/p>\n

In the end, you\u2019ll find yourself apologizing for something you haven\u2019t done. This turns into a serious problem because a narcissist can\u2019t accept he was wrong.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t accept that he is not flawless and that from time to time, he can make a mistake. That\u2019s why he needs you to project his negative feelings, too.<\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di sentirsi innocente e ha bisogno che voi vi sentiate in colpa.<\/p>\n

He will do this by any means necessary. He\u2019ll be hurtful and cruel because, in the end, he really doesn\u2019t care about you or your feelings at all.<\/p>\n

Cambiamento di gioco<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He will find something wrong in everything you do. No matter how hard you try, he will ruin it and crap all over everything you\u2019ve done so far.<\/p>\n

If you did everything he has asked you to do, and he can\u2019t complain because he has got no reason for saying anything, he will change the rules.<\/p>\n

Si rifar\u00e0 a ci\u00f2 che ha detto in precedenza e vi proporr\u00e0 una nuova serie di regole quasi impossibili, solo per farvi fallire e farvi sentire in colpa.<\/p>\n

Vi metter\u00e0 in una situazione in cui lavorerete duramente, in modo che lui possa approvarvi. Purtroppo, voi cercate la sua convalida e la sua approvazione.<\/p>\n

Ma le sue continue critiche avranno il loro peso.<\/p>\n

L'assillo costante vi lascer\u00e0 una cicatrice. Vi sentirete ansiosi e depressi perch\u00e9 nulla di ci\u00f2 che fate sembra essere abbastanza buono.<\/p>\n

Your self-esteem falls faster than the speed of light and as it decreases, the chances you\u2019re going to be more submissive to him are bigger.<\/p>\n

The thing is by criticizing you all the time, he is diverting you from all the good things you\u2019ve done and making you focus on just the bad ones which makes you feel bad and obsessed with thinking about why can\u2019t you succeed in anything.<\/p>\n

Controllo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Cercher\u00e0 di isolarvi dal resto del mondo perch\u00e9, che ci crediate o no, ha paura. Ha paura che lei lo lasci, che perda la sua vittima.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have anybody to drain and that\u2019s what will destroy him. If he doesn\u2019t have anyone to suck the energy from, like an vampiro emotivo<\/a>, perir\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Vogliono essere gli unici a poter avere una qualche influenza sulla vostra vita, per potervi controllare.<\/p>\n

They will cut you off from your friends and family, so you don\u2019t get the chance to hear the truth or a few words of support and advice.<\/p>\n

Apart from the getting you as far away as possible from the people you love, they will try to control where you\u2019re going, with whom you are going, how much money you\u2019re spending and for what.<\/p>\n

La vostra vita diventer\u00e0 fondamentalmente una prigione all'aperto.<\/p>\n

Cambiare argomento<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve had enough and if you sober up even for a minute, you\u2019ll see things for what they are. Maybe you\u2019ve just had enough and you want to confront him.<\/p>\n

In qualche modo, lei trova tutto il coraggio e la forza per farlo, ma lui cosa fa?<\/p>\n

He plays the victim and brings out a completely different subject and punishes you for something that you\u2019ve done 3 months ago.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che fanno continuamente.<\/p>\n

He will blame you or point out a mistake you did a long time ago and it\u2019s not just coincidental.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s been keeping that for times just like this, for times when he hasn\u2019t got any other way out but to bring out your past mistakes to make you feel like you\u2019re the abuser and he is the victim.<\/p>\n

And of course, he never mentioned it before now. He didn\u2019t mention it three months ago because he knew he was going to need it some other time.<\/p>\n

Sarcasmo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

User\u00e0 scherzi crudeli per ferirvi, ma ovviamente saranno mascherati da scherzi innocui.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, se vi arrabbiate, lui vi far\u00e0 sembrare che state esagerando e che non c'\u00e8 motivo di arrabbiarsi o di farsi male perch\u00e9 stava solo scherzando.<\/p>\n

But the real motive behind it is never to tease you. It\u2019s exactly what you think it is\u2014it\u2019s to hurt you.<\/p>\n

He will use a patronizing tone with you to humiliate you even more. He will act like you\u2019re a child, you are incapable of doing things for yourself and you need him to show everything to you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to stay strong and resist everything narcissists are capable of doing to you. They are extremely dangerous and their disease can destroy you if you let it.<\/p>\n

Devi essere forte<\/a>, believe in yourself and believe in what you\u2019re doing because it\u2019s right. Don\u2019t let him mess up your mind because if you surrender, you won\u2019t be able to bounce back so easily.<\/p>\n

And even if he broke you, it\u2019s not too late to come back to life. At least you\u2019ll learn a lesson and find out more about yourself. You\u2019ll bring back your self-worth and respect.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn to love yourself again because no one can take that away from you forever. They can only make you forget about it\u2014not lose it.<\/p>\n

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