{"id":16848,"date":"2020-04-23T10:51:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T10:51:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16848"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:14:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:14:46","slug":"10-segnali-che-indicano-che-non-dovete-piu-preoccuparvi-per-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segnali-che-indicano-che-non-dovete-piu-preoccuparvi-per-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segni che non dovreste pi\u00f9 preoccuparvi di lui"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non tutte le relazioni sono destinate a essere felici e contente e non tutti i film hanno un lieto fine.<\/p>\n<p>And sometimes, no matter how hard we try or how much effort we put into a relationship, it\u2019s worth nothing if we\u2019re the only one doing it.<\/p>\n<p>Finisce solo per spezzare il nostro cuore pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte, finch\u00e9 non si frantuma in milioni di pezzi.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re stuck on the edge of our breaking point, wondering whether it\u2019s better to let go of it all or to keep on fighting just a little bit longer.<\/p>\n<p>In quest'ultimo caso, basta una piccola spinta perch\u00e9 ci si sciolga completamente, si perda il terreno solido sotto i piedi e si cada.<\/p>\n<p>To save yourself and your heart from that happening and to prevent him from taking away another piece of you, it\u2019s time you decide to let the guy go and to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-motivi-per-mettere-sempre-al-primo-posto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mettete voi stessi al primo posto<\/a> per cambiare.<\/p>\n<p>Cercate questi segnali che vi dicono che non dovete pi\u00f9 preoccuparvi di lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti mente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79334\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che ascolta un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-listening-to-man-in-cafe-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo avete sorpreso in diverse occasioni a mentirvi sulle cose pi\u00f9 ridicole.<\/p>\n<p>Why he\u2019s late to dinner, what he\u2019s doing at work, with whom he went to the bar (even if it\u2019s just colleagues from work).<\/p>\n<p>It makes you wonder if he\u2019s lying about the important stuff as well\u2014about the future plans he has with you, about the love he feels or about his loyalty.<\/p>\n<p>Compulsive liars are the worst and they\u2019re so good at their lying game that they actually make us feel like we\u2019re losing our mind.<\/p>\n<p>Kick his lying ass out of your life, he\u2019s not even worthy of being in it in the first place!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can\u2019t remember the last time you were happy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79335\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda altrove\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se hai davvero bisogno di sederti e di sforzarti di pensare all'ultima volta che sei stata veramente felice, perch\u00e9 stai con lui?<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s not making you happy, if he\u2019s not making any effort to put a smile on your face, he doesn\u2019t deserve to put tears there either.<\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019re constantly feeling exhausted and drained after spending time with him, he\u2019s nothing but an emotional leech.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t feel appreciated<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79336\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata e pensierosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non importa cosa si faccia e quanto ci si sforzi, sembra che lui non lo veda mai.<\/p>\n<p>Vede solo le cose che ha fatto lui e canta sempre le sue lodi, sminuendo i vostri sforzi.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s just a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/my-life\/better-life\/how-to-stop-selfish-people-from-hurting-you\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">segno di un uomo egoista<\/a> che non riconoscer\u00e0 mai le cose che fate per lui e per la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s a man who doesn\u2019t know how to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d without rubbing your nose in something he did better.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti ha tradito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79338\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange con le mani sul viso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-with-hands-on-the-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Superare l'infedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 difficile e le cose non sono pi\u00f9 come una volta.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re always wondering if he\u2019s going to do it again or you\u2019re looking for signs of him cheating.<\/p>\n<p>And trust is so hard to earn but so easy to break that it\u2019s completely normal if you\u2019re having a hard time getting over it.<\/p>\n<p>This one completely depends on you and the situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re married and you really want to make it work and he\u2019s honestly sorry about it, maybe he does deserve a second chance.<\/p>\n<p>But if you suspect that he will never change and that this wasn\u2019t just a one-time thing, the only person you should give a second chance is you.<\/p>\n<p>Walk away and give yourself a chance to be happy again. It can be painful and scary in the beginning but it\u2019ll be worth it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti fa sentire inferiore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79339\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che urla contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mai, e dico mai, si dovrebbe sopportare qualcuno che <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/fulfillment-any-age\/201712\/how-handle-people-who-make-you-feel-inferior\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ti fa sentire inferiore<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not a god, these are not the fifties and you are a remarkable human being who deserves to be treated equal and respected.<\/p>\n<p>And this doesn\u2019t apply only to your relationship, it applies to your whole life! Remember your worth and remind yourself of it every day.<\/p>\n<p>Keep your head held high and don\u2019t ever let anyone take your worth away from you. No matter how much you love them, you need to love yourself more.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La vostra fiducia continua ad essere infranta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79341\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When we love someone, we trust them with our heart and emotions, trusting that they won\u2019t hurt us, trusting that they won\u2019t betray us.<\/p>\n<p>And if that trust keeps on being broken, if he\u2019s hurting you over and over again, making you think that you\u2019re not good enough or if he has someone else, it\u2019s time you see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n<p>I know that letting go sometimes looks scarier and harder than staying in hell, but it\u2019s the best thing you can do for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>And always remember that you deserve to be happy too. You deserve what\u2019s best for you and he\u2019s not it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">7. Vi sentite ansiosi quando pensate alla vostra relazione di coppia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79345\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/anxious-woman-sitting-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna ansiosa seduta in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/anxious-woman-sitting-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/anxious-woman-sitting-in-cafe-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/anxious-woman-sitting-in-cafe-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/anxious-woman-sitting-in-cafe-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se l'ansia continua a prendervi a calci nello stomaco ogni volta che pensate a lui o quando tornate a casa da lui, allora c'\u00e8 qualcosa che non va.<\/p>\n<p>Le farfalle sono fantastiche, l'eccitazione \u00e8 incredibile e l'eccitazione \u00e8 alle stelle. Ma l'ansia \u00e8 sbagliata.<\/p>\n<p>L'ansia \u00e8 un vero inferno. Soprattutto se la causa sono il suo carattere e il suo comportamento. Cara, perch\u00e9 ti stai facendo questo?<\/p>\n<p>He wouldn\u2019t do it for you and you know it. And a man who isn\u2019t ready to walk through fire for you doesn\u2019t deserve to walk in the sunshine with you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Continuate a farvi male<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79348\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in lite seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 sembrare assurdo che qualcuno rimanga in una relazione in cui continua a farsi male, ma facciamo cose folli e stupide per amore.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie ai ricordi di come era una volta e di quanto eravamo felici, restiamo e continuiamo a lottare.<\/p>\n<p>But if you keep on getting hurt and he doesn\u2019t seem like he even notices, ditch his ass. He\u2019s not worthy of your tears and pain.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si aspetta che sacrifichiate il vostro futuro e le vostre convinzioni per lui.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79350\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che litiga in cucina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Che razza di uomo si aspetta una cosa del genere? Una cosa che non si dovrebbe mai sacrificare in una relazione \u00e8 se stessi e chi si \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>Se sognavate di diventare insegnanti o di avere una vostra azienda e lui ha l'idea che siate una casalinga e vuole che abbandoniate quel sogno, l'unica cosa che dovreste lasciare \u00e8 lui.<\/p>\n<p>Il compromesso \u00e8 la chiave per il successo di una relazione, ma solo fino a quando lo si fa insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Una persona non \u00e8 destinata a mettere in pausa la propria vita per permettere all'altra di prosperare.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste prosperare insieme.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re the only one who still gives a damn<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79355\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-laying.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul letto mentre l&#039;uomo giace\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-laying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-laying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-while-man-laying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per l'amore bisogna essere in due e un <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/2018309615\/why-lasting-love-two-way-street-how-to-keep-going\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">La relazione deve essere sempre una strada a doppio senso<\/a>. If it\u2019s not, if it\u2019s a one-sided relationship, then it\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing and no one is worthy of your love if they\u2019re not ready to love you back.<\/p>\n<p>E soprattutto non se vi hanno ingannato e hanno usato il fatto che li amate per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vogliono.<\/p>\n<p>Honey, if you\u2019re the only still fighting, stop it. Fight for yourself this time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79327\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 segni che non dovreste pi\u00f9 preoccuparvi di lui\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79326\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him-pinterest.png\" alt=\"10 segni che non dovreste pi\u00f9 preoccuparvi di lui\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him-pinterest.png 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him-pinterest-212x300.png 212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not all relationships are meant to be happily ever after and not every movie has a happy ending. And sometimes, no matter how hard we try or how much effort we put into a relationship, it\u2019s worth nothing if we\u2019re the only one doing it. It just ends up breaking our heart over and over&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":79360,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Signs-You-Should-No-Longer-Give-A-Damn-About-Him.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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