{"id":1690,"date":"2019-06-22T09:27:51","date_gmt":"2019-06-22T09:27:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1690"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:16:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:16:19","slug":"4-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-rimangono-in-una-cattiva-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-rimangono-in-una-cattiva-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"4 motivi per cui le donne restano in relazioni sbagliate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tendiamo a credere che tutti vogliamo il meglio per noi. Ma \u00e8 davvero cos\u00ec? O a volte ci accontentiamo di meno?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho notato che le donne intorno a me preferiscono esprimere i loro atteggiamenti e che parlano apertamente delle cose che vogliono. Non si direbbe mai che queste donne si accontentino di poco. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tuttavia, quando si tratta di amore e relazioni, le cose possono essere diverse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1693 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo che tiene in braccio una donna in abito nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-262x175.jpg 262w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-735x490.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-335x223.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-347x231.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-520x346.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-640x426.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ci sono alcuni motivi per cui le donne scelgono di rimanere in una relazione, anche se non sono soddisfatte del proprio partner. Dopo aver ascoltato le loro storie, posso dirvi 4 di questi motivi.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Paura di finire da soli<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Credo che la maggior parte delle donne abbia questo problema. \u00c8 naturale per tutti noi cercare sicurezza e conforto nel nostro partner. Esiste un mito che dipinge la solitudine come qualcosa di terribile.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A volte abbiamo questa immagine stereotipata di una vecchia signora single con un gruppo di gatti. E anche se ci scherziamo su, abbiamo segretamente paura di fare la stessa fine. Questo \u00e8 il motivo pi\u00f9 comune per cui le donne rimangono in relazioni sbagliate. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Credono che stare con <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chiunque<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e8 meglio che essere <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">solo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Even if they are not attracted to a guy and don\u2019t love him, they keep on dating him because they feel they have (at least some) security.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In qualit\u00e0 di nuova generazione di donne forti e indipendenti, dobbiamo dimostrare al mondo che <a href=\"http:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/jamie-varon\/2014\/04\/a-relationship-will-not-make-you-happy-so-stop-looking-for-happiness-there\/\" rel=\"noopener\">don\u2019t need anyone in order to be happy<\/a>. Signore, pensateci. Essere sole \u00e8 davvero peggio che stare con la persona sbagliata?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t think so.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Bassa autostima<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many women are facing troubles because they don\u2019t think they are beautiful enough, smart enough, etc. Leaving their comfort zones scares them. Some women don\u2019t believe they can have better than what they already have, and don\u2019t want to risk it all. They are afraid of being rejected by men, and that is why they stick to their partners, despite the fact they are not the perfect matches.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, women who have low self-esteem don\u2019t like conflicts and arguments, so they will do anything just to avoid confrontation. They are afraid to break up with their partners. They pretend that everything is okay because they are insecure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1694 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana.jpg\" alt=\"Donna in piedi in un prato al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/dawn-nature-sunset-womana-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perhaps they think, \u201cWho else would want me?\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is an obstacle that every adult woman should overcome. Once we gain our self-esteem back, we will do what it takes to be happy. I\u2019m sure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-true-signs-love-way-loves\/\">6 veri segni che lo amate molto pi\u00f9 di quanto lui ami voi<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">For the children\u2019s sake<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Throughout the history, staying in a relationship or marriage just because of kids was considered the right thing to do. A long time ago, this was even considered to be a woman\u2019s obligation. Even today, some women feel it as something mandatory.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Women confessed that they decided to put up with all kinds of problems (such as abusive partners, cheating husbands, etc.) just because they didn\u2019t want to disappoint their children. A relationship\/marriage like that is destined to fail eventually.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In effetti, se si vuole il meglio per i propri figli, si dovrebbe terminare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-signs-toxic-relationship\/\">una cattiva relazione<\/a>. Non fate un favore ai vostri figli se li lasciate crescere in una famiglia infelice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Inoltre, non state dando loro un buon esempio, soprattutto se avete delle figlie. Ricordate che siete il loro modello. \u00c8 vostro dovere insegnare loro una visione sana dell'amore, delle relazioni e del matrimonio.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">L'amore<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forse sembra strano, ma quando amiamo cos\u00ec tanto una persona, ci rifiutiamo di vedere la realt\u00e0 cos\u00ec com'\u00e8. Continuiamo a tollerare alcune cose che sono cos\u00ec negative per noi. Permettiamo che ci tradiscano, che ci manipolino, che ci mentano. A volte mi chiedo: siamo pazzi o cosa?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00ec, \u00e8 possibile per una donna amare veramente il proprio partner, nonostante tutto. Tuttavia, l'amore illimitato a volte pu\u00f2 portare danni se ci si lascia guidare ciecamente da esso. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C'\u00e8 un grande pericolo in agguato: la possibilit\u00e0 di sacrificare qualsiasi cosa solo perch\u00e9 amiamo qualcuno.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le donne che si trovano in queste situazioni hanno bisogno di molto coraggio. Rinunciare al proprio amore \u00e8 probabilmente la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile. Sappiamo tutti quanto siano difficili le rotture e quanto possa essere ancora peggio quando si prova ancora qualcosa per qualcuno.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We tend to believe we all want what\u2019s best for us. Is it really so? Or sometimes do we settle for less? I noticed that women around me prefer expressing their attitudes, and that they speak up about things they want. You would never say these women settle for less. However, when it comes to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":1693,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/marcelo-matarazzo-287570a-min.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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