{"id":16908,"date":"2020-04-26T11:40:51","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T11:40:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16908"},"modified":"2021-08-11T21:14:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T21:14:37","slug":"10-segni-che-e-solo-un-altro-stronzo-egoista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-che-e-solo-un-altro-stronzo-egoista\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segni che \u00e8 solo un altro stronzo egoista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando siamo innamorati tendiamo a trascurare i difetti dell'altro, perch\u00e9 siamo cos\u00ec follemente innamorati che lo consideriamo perfetto.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s one thing to ignore it if he never puts clothes in the washing machine or forgets to do the dishes, but it\u2019s a completely different thing to ignore that his selfish ass is not capable of loving anyone but himself.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you\u2019re the giver in the relationship and like you\u2019re screaming at a brick wall but nothing is happening, you could be stuck in a relationship with a selfish man.<\/p>\n<p>Check for other signs that he\u2019s just another selfish asshole you should <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relrules.com\/7-types-of-people-you-need-to-kick-out-of-your-life\/\" rel=\"noopener\">cacciate dalla vostra vita<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h2>1. Parla solo di se stesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con camicia bianca che parla con una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-wearing-white-shirt-talking-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s so involved with himself that there\u2019s hardly any time left for you to talk about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>E c'\u00e8 sempre qualche dramma nella sua vita o qualche lode da cantare a se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Quando cercate di parlare di voi stessi, vi interrompe con la stessa cosa che gli \u00e8 successa l'altro giorno.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no way in hell you can feel special, because that man is one hell of a one-upper and a show thief.<\/p>\n<h2>2. He never shows interest in how you\u2019re doing<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90645\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside.jpg\" alt=\"coppia al caff\u00e8 all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-at-cafe-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In healthy relationships, it\u2019s normal to check up on your partner regularly and make sure that they\u2019re doing okay.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner is not there for you to vent to him and just go on with your life, while they\u2019re the one taking the weight.<\/p>\n<p>And if you feel like he\u2019s constantly doing this to you, using you as a trash bin for his drama, but he never seems to be interested in how you\u2019re doing, let him go.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che non \u00e8 in grado di chiederti della tua giornata \u00e8 incapace di amarti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/choose-man-loves-way-deserve-loved\/\">nel modo in cui meritate di essere amati.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. He\u2019s selfish in the bedroom<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90646\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna gambe nude\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-and-woman-naked-legs-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t really care if you finish or not, as long as he finishes. He\u2019s extremely selfish when it comes to providing you with pleasure in the bedroom and the only time you\u2019re actually getting it on is when he\u2019s interested.<\/p>\n<p>That behavior will soon transfer to other parts of your life, not just the bedroom\u2014are you sure he\u2019s worth it?<\/p>\n<h2>4. He doesn\u2019t know the meaning of the word compromise<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90647\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che conversa seriamente a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-having-serious-conversation-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando abbiamo una relazione, uniamo due mondi, due vite, in una sola. Il compromesso \u00e8 davvero necessario per far funzionare le cose.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s not interested in compromising and his way is the only way, it means that he is too selfish to give up on his life and the things he loves for you but he expects you to do it for him.<\/p>\n<p>A man who doesn\u2019t care about your happiness doesn\u2019t care about you. The only person he <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/an-open-letter-guy-cares-himself\/1797785\" rel=\"noopener\">si preoccupa di se stesso.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>5. He\u2019s highly concerned about your looks<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che sussurra alla sua bella donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-whispering-to-his-beautiful-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another sign of him being selfish is that he\u2019s highly concerned about the way you look and the clothes you wear.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s going to be seen with you, he wants you to look your best. He has a reputation to keep, you know? It doesn\u2019t matter if he hurts your feelings in the process.<\/p>\n<h2>6. You\u2019re only doing things that are of interest to him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90650\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una coppia infelice in un balcone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/side-view-of-unhappy-couple-in-a-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The thing with selfish men is that they\u2019re interested only in the things they can benefit from.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s being nice to you, so he can get something from you or taking you to a certain show where his boss will be, there is always a reason for him to do things.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you don\u2019t see it at first, trust me, it\u2019s there. Just try to think of how many times he\u2019s done something just because you felt like it.<\/p>\n<h2>7. He interrupts you\u2014all the time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Foto con messa a fuoco ridotta di uomo e donna che parlano in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/shallow-focus-photo-of-man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Especially in public. He needs to show that he is the man, he\u2019s the one in charge and his opinion is the best one.<\/p>\n<p>He is the smartest, the best and the most skillful man you could meet and you\u2019re just his silly girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che non ha interesse a lasciare che la sua donna mostri la sua esperienza e le sue conoscenze \u00e8 un uomo con problemi di autostima che ha bisogno di sminuire tutti per sentirsi meglio con se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s a man who will try to hold you back from the future you deserve, just because he needs to be more successful than you are.<\/p>\n<h2>8. You\u2019re always the one to apologize<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90652\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo pazzo che punta il dito contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He can never take the blame, simply because he\u2019s the perfect one. How could he do something wrong? He did that only because he knows what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s a man who is so good at guilt-tripping that you actually end up feeling guilty for being the one who is hurt, so you apologize to him.<\/p>\n<p>If you notice a pattern that you\u2019re always the one apologizing, while he\u2019s the perfect one, think about your relationship. You can\u2019t always be the one to blame.<\/p>\n<h2>9. He always reminds you about how much he\u2019s doing for you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90653\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia infelice che litiga sul divano di casa in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While he\u2019s incapable of apologizing and looking after your feelings, he\u2019s perfectly capable of reminding you of the things he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta ha portato i tuoi vestiti in tintoria e ne parla per tutto il mese successivo.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che gli chiedete di aiutarvi con qualcosa, lui ve lo sbatte in faccia.<\/p>\n<p>Siete davvero pronti ad ascoltarlo per il resto della vostra vita? O anche per il resto della settimana?<\/p>\n<h2>10. Ti fa aspettare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90654\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa sdraiata sul letto che scrive sul suo cellulare\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-and-typing-on-her-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re having dates when it\u2019s convenient for him and going out only when he feels like it.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re texting only when he\u2019s interested in doing so and that\u2019s so rare you often think that the guy died. If he doesn\u2019t make time for you, stop waiting for him.<\/p>\n<p>Ti meriti di pi\u00f9 di un uomo che ti fa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/meritano-di-fissare-lo-schermo-vuoto\/\">fissare uno schermo vuoto<\/a> e che ti fa aspettare solo perch\u00e9 sa che tu aspetterai.<\/p>\n<p>Sai di meritare molto di pi\u00f9, quindi perch\u00e9 ti accontenti del suo culo egoista?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-90655 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 segni che \u00e8 solo un altro stronzo egoista\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole-_-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we\u2019re in love we tend to overlook the flaws of our significant other, because we\u2019re so madly in love that we think of them as perfect. But it\u2019s one thing to ignore it if he never puts clothes in the washing machine or forgets to do the dishes, but it\u2019s a completely different thing&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":90642,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/10-Signs-Hes-Just-Another-Selfish-Asshole.jpg",800,542,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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