{"id":16922,"date":"2020-09-26T13:32:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T13:32:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16922"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:30:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:30:19","slug":"ad-ogni-ragazza-con-problemi-di-abbandono","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ad-ogni-ragazza-con-problemi-di-abbandono\/","title":{"rendered":"A tutte le ragazze con problemi di abbandono"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ciao a te. So che avete deciso di leggere questo articolo non appena avete visto la parola \"abbandono\" nel titolo.<\/p>\n

This is one of the most painful words for you to hear or read. You try to run away from it, but it\u2019s like its haunting you whenever you look.<\/p>\n

So che avete enormi cicatrici emotive. Da quando ha memoria, le persone l'hanno lasciata in sospeso.<\/p>\n

Erano persone a cui hai dato tutto quello che avevi, ma non hai ricevuto nulla in cambio<\/a>. Persone che ti hanno promesso il mondo e poi ti hanno voltato le spalle.<\/p>\n

Sono stati presenti finch\u00e9 hanno avuto bisogno di voi. Per loro andavi bene quando ti occupavi delle loro questioni e risolvevi i loro problemi.<\/p>\n

Ma non appena eravate voi ad avere bisogno di qualcosa, loro non si facevano trovare da nessuna parte. Nessuno di loro apprezzava tutti i sacrifici e gli sforzi che stavate facendo.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ti hanno abbandonato tutti quando avevi pi\u00f9 bisogno di loro e questo ti ha segnato per tutta la vita. Gli amici, anche i familiari, ma soprattutto gli uomini ti hanno trattato cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

And I know you\u2019ve changed. In the past, you were someone who had a lot of trust in men, someone who believed that there was something good in everyone in this world.<\/p>\n

But, you were proven to be wrong. So, you\u2019ve built thick walls around you. You\u2019ve lost trust in people in general and especially in men.<\/p>\n

E so che hai paura. Pensate che tutti gli uomini che incrociano il vostro cammino cercheranno solo di approfittarsi di voi. Luiti usa per il suo ego<\/a> e di avere qualcuno intorno.<\/p>\n

You are positive that you\u2019ll never find someone who will try to heal you and who will understand everything you\u2019ve gone through.<\/p>\n

Pensate che nessuno potrebbe mai amarvi. Siete convinti che ci sia qualcosa di sbagliato in voi, visto che tutti nella vostra vita vi trattano allo stesso modo.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve assured you that you are good for nothing and that you don\u2019t deserve to be loved. So you\u2019ve given up hope. You\u2019ve given up the idea that true love will ever find you.<\/p>\n

Pensate che nessun uomo sar\u00e0 mai pronto a sopportarvi. Non arriver\u00e0 mai un uomo che si sforzer\u00e0 di curare tutte le vostre ferite e che vi convincer\u00e0 che non tutti sono uguali.<\/p>\n

And you think it is better that way. You don\u2019t give anyone a chance to get to know the real you because you think they will use you as soon as they see your vulnerable side.<\/p>\n

So you carry this fa\u00e7ade, this tough girl mask that chases men away from you\u2014you think that is for the best.<\/p>\n

That it is the only way to protect yourself from going through the things you\u2019ve already gone through.<\/p>\n

But, I am here to tell you not to give up. I am here to tell you that everything is going to be OK, although you probably don\u2019t believe me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Arriver\u00e0 un uomo che vi amer\u00e0, nonostante tutte le vostre insicurezze. Un uomo chenon rinunciare mai a te<\/a>. Un uomo che sapr\u00e0 riconoscere la vera te.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che vedr\u00e0 la ragazza smarrita e spaventata che hai sepolto dentro di te. Quest'uomo sapr\u00e0 che stai solo aspettando di essere amata.<\/p>\n

This man will know all about your fears. But, he won\u2019t run away from them. Instead, he will fight them together with you.<\/p>\n

He will know that your abandonment issues are a battle you can\u2019t control and he\u2019ll never blame you for has happened to you. Instead, he will understand.<\/p>\n

Capir\u00e0 tutto quello che avete passato e capir\u00e0 che tutto questo vi ha reso la persona che siete oggi. Ma, soprattutto, capir\u00e0 voi.<\/p>\n

E vi accetter\u00e0. Vi amer\u00e0 anche quando sarete frustrati o spaventati. Vi amer\u00e0 con tutte le vostre paure e i vostri problemi di fiducia.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Vi amer\u00e0 con tutti i vostri problemi e demoni interiori. Non vi considerer\u00e0 mai un peso.<\/p>\n

Instead, this man will see right through your armour shield. He will see that you were broken. But, he\u2019ll never try to use that against you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he will cherish your sensitivity and vulnerability. He will take care of you and you\u2019ll never overwhelm him.<\/p>\n

This man will be patient with you. He\u2019ll understand everything you went through and he won\u2019t expect you to open up to him right away.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that you can\u2019t trust him from the very beginning and he\u2019ll put an effort to win over your trust.<\/p>\n

And most importantly, this man will never abandon you. Even if you try to chase him away, he\u2019ll do anything in his power to stay.<\/p>\n

This guy will always have your back and will hold your hand through all life\u2019s difficulties. He will never leave you alone and he\u2019ll make sure you always know that.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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