{"id":16973,"date":"2018-03-27T10:42:39","date_gmt":"2018-03-27T10:42:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16973"},"modified":"2022-01-10T01:10:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T01:10:22","slug":"sono-perfettamente-imperfetta-e-questo-mi-va-piu-che-bene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sono-perfettamente-imperfetta-e-questo-mi-va-piu-che-bene\/","title":{"rendered":"Sono perfettamente imperfetta e questo mi va pi\u00f9 che bene"},"content":{"rendered":"

Qualcuno vi ha mai detto che siete perfetti?<\/strong> <\/em>Vi ha fatto sentire bene o vi ha fatto sentire male perch\u00e9 dovevate giustificare la vostra perfezione sforzandovi di pi\u00f9, essendo migliori e non arrendendovi mai? Vedete, viviamo in un mondo in cui tutti sono cercando di essere perfetti<\/a>come se la loro vita dipendesse da questo. Quando apro il mio Facebook, appaiono solo volti perfetti.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che riesco a vedere sono donne perfette<\/a>con case, mariti e figli perfetti, che vanno in destinazioni esotiche perfette e che vivono vite perfette.<\/strong><\/em> They have perfect jobs with perfect colleagues and they seem like they don\u2019t have any problems.<\/p>\n

Ma sapete una cosa? Che si fotta!<\/strong> Fuck their perfect lives when they have to use Photoshop in every selfie they take because they are not as beautiful as they appear to be. Fuck their perfect husbands who hit on every hot woman who comes along. Fuck their vacations to exotic destinations because they took out a bank loan so they could show off in front of their \u2018perfect\u2019 friends.<\/p>\n

Ad alcune persone interessa solo che tu sia ricco e che la societ\u00e0 ti accetti.<\/strong><\/em> Because you don\u2019t want to do something to depart from societal rules, right? It is extremely important to be a part of something and if you don\u2019t belong anywhere, you don\u2019t exist, at least not in a world like this.<\/p>\n

Quindi, ancora una volta, che si fotta il mondo!<\/strong><\/em> I never was perfect and I don\u2019t want to be perfect. I am perfectly imperfect and I am more than okay with that. I don\u2019t want to be one of those girls who doesn\u2019t think with her own head and who nods to all the shit that others say just because they have an important role in society. I don\u2019t want to be molded into something I don\u2019t want to be just because someone else likes it. I want to be on my own. I want to find the right path to happiness and I want to think in a normal and healthy way.<\/p>\n

And if someone has a problem with that or if someone doesn\u2019t accept me the way I am, then I don\u2019t need that person in my life.<\/strong><\/em> Sar\u00f2 sempre un po' disordinata, un po' pazza e una ragazza che porta il suo cuore sulla manica per tutta la vita. Perch\u00e9 alla fine \u00e8 questo che conta di pi\u00f9. Voglio fare una vita che sia solo mia, senza che gli altri mi dicano cosa fare o come comportarmi.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 io non sono come quelli ragazze perfette<\/a> che si vede per strada.<\/strong><\/em> I will never say something just so others will like me. I will always say what I mean, no matter how good or bad it may sound. But at least it will come from the bottom of my heart. And no matter what happens, I will never strive for perfection because it really doesn\u2019t exist. I will always be a girl with my own scars that are a part of my story.<\/p>\n

Sar\u00f2 diversa dalle altre persone che incontrerete perch\u00e9 sono unica ed \u00e8 questo che mi rende cos\u00ec speciale.<\/strong><\/em> Rimarr\u00f2 sempre fedele a me stessa, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 l'unico modo per non perdermi. E qualunque cosa accada, mi amer\u00f2 e mi accetter\u00f2 sempre per come sono. Solo cos\u00ec potr\u00f2 trovare la pace che tanto desidero. Perch\u00e9 la vita \u00e8 troppo breve e l'ultima cosa di cui ho bisogno \u00e8 fingere di essere qualcun altro. Sono orgogliosa di tutto ci\u00f2 che ho realizzato e, anche se non \u00e8 molto, sono grata per ogni lezione e ogni benedizione che ricevo.<\/p>\n

Quindi, questa sono io, perfettamente imperfetta e mi va pi\u00f9 che bene cos\u00ec.<\/strong><\/em> If you want to accept me like this, don\u2019t try to change me. I will change when I feel it is the right time for that and not when someone else wants me to. I like to be beautifully broken and a little bit on my own. That is what makes me so unique and I don\u2019t want to change that for anything in this world.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Did anyone ever tell you that you are perfect? Did it make you feel good or did it made you feel bad because you had to justify your perfection by trying harder, being better and never giving up? You see, we are living in a world where everybody is trying to be perfect, like their…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":16978,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16973","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/adult-art-beanie-736603.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16973","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16973"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16973\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16978"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16973"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16973"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16973"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}