{"id":16974,"date":"2020-04-06T10:39:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T10:39:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16974"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:16:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:16:03","slug":"preferisco-rimanere-single-piuttosto-che-accontentarmi-di-poco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/preferisco-rimanere-single-piuttosto-che-accontentarmi-di-poco\/","title":{"rendered":"Preferisco rimanere single piuttosto che accontentarmi di meno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono stufa di sentirmi dire che sono troppo esigente, che i miei standard sono troppo alti e che finir\u00f2 per rimanere sola. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick of hearing questions about wedding bells and what the hell I am waiting for. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick of being looked down on just because I\u2019m single. So, this one goes out to all of those people who are drowning me in the nonsense of settling. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for someone I don\u2019t love.<\/b> Ho avuto relazioni in cui ero quello che si preoccupava di pi\u00f9 e in cui ero quello che si preoccupava di meno. <\/p>\n

You can\u2019t forza d'amore <\/a> . Just like I couldn\u2019t make my ex love me, I can\u2019t be forced to love someone else. I tried, believe me I did. \u201c Give it time,\u201d <\/i> hanno detto. <\/p>\n

Ma per quanto ci abbia provato, non ha mai funzionato. Non importa quanto io aspetti, l'amore non arriva. Cos\u00ec ho smesso di aspettare. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than sacrifice my dreams.<\/b> I\u2019ve seen so many unhappy people who gave up on their dreams for the sake of their relationship. <\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not ready to do that. I\u2019m not ready to give up on my dream of traveling the world while I can. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m not ready to give up on the idea of living my dream, because my partner needs me to. There are sacrifices that I\u2019ll never make for love. And my future is one of them. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for something half-assed.<\/b> Whether it\u2019s love, passion or life. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want it. I had it already, I was living off of crumbs of love. <\/p>\n

I was stuck in the same place with a man I couldn\u2019t imagine my future with and I was dreaming about making my dreams come true. <\/p>\n

I dreamed about a brighter future but he wasn\u2019t part of it. So I stopped dreaming and started doing. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than to have a <\/b>relazione senza rispetto<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I\u2019m more than someone who will make you goddamn sandwiches and babies and bring you beer. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m a woman who wants to have children and who wants to raise them. And I want it all. I want to watch them grow, I want to kiss their bruises and sing them lullabies. <\/p>\n

Voglio vederli andare all'universit\u00e0 e voglio dare loro una vita adeguata. <\/p>\n

E voglio che il mio partner rispetti questo desiderio. Che rispetti me, le mie scelte, il mio passato e le mie conoscenze. <\/p>\n

E, dannazione, voglio qualcuno che lo faccia con me. Tutto quanto. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than be in a one-sided relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

Voglio qualcuno che si impegni quanto me e che non mi faccia mai elemosinare l'amore. <\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Voglio qualcuno che combatta per me e con me, non contro di me. Voglio avere l'amore che hanno i miei genitori. Un amore con fiducia e rispetto reciproci. <\/p>\n

Amore senza giochi, sorrisi falsi e bugie. Voglio lealt\u00e0, onest\u00e0 e integrit\u00e0. E mi rifiuto di abbassare i miei standard. <\/p>\n

There are certain times where it\u2019s okay to do it but love is not one of them. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than question my worth.<\/b> Because, you see, when you are dating a manipulator, you don\u2019t know it until it\u2019s too late. <\/p>\n

Until you have already lost all of you, your confidence, worth and faith. You don\u2019t know it until they leave you for dead, all bruised and naked. <\/p>\n

E Non ho ricostruito me stesso <\/a> che qualcuno porti via tutto. <\/p>\n

Non ho attraversato l'inferno della depressione per caderci di nuovo. Non ho posseduto il mondo perch\u00e9 qualcuno mi sminuisse. <\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quindi, ho scelto di rimanere single finch\u00e9 qualcuno non lo possiede con me.   <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for lies. <\/b> I\u2019ve been promised lifelong love before. <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been made to believe that love is supposed to hurt. They say if it doesn\u2019t hurt, it\u2019s not real. But love is not about the pain, for heaven\u2019s sake. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s about acceptance, the will to fight and the passion you share together. It\u2019s about lowering your walls to let someone in and that someone protecting you. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s about rewriting the stars together, not putting them out. And I have had enough of others people\u2019s darkness. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than give up on me.<\/b> I\u2019m weird, proud and one hell of a badass. I learned how to be my own hero, so I don\u2019t need a new one. <\/p>\n

I learned how to fight my own battles, so I\u2019m not looking for a knight in shining armor. I learned how to love myself but the thing is, I want someone to love me as well. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about me needing someone in my life, it\u2019s about me wanting someone there. I want someone to have my back when it all goes south. <\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Voglio qualcuno che cammini accanto a me, non che mi porti in braccio, fino alla fine della strada. E voglio quel tipo di amore da film, ma non a qualsiasi costo. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than <\/b>accontentarsi di<\/b><\/a> meno.<\/b> Per qualsiasi cosa meno di quanto io meriti e voglia. <\/p>\n

And God knows that I\u2019m not asking for much. In a world full of fuckboys, games and lies, I\u2019m asking for honesty and loyalty. <\/p>\n

In a world full of darkness and pain, I\u2019m asking for joy and someone who will shine with me. <\/p>\n

In a world full of hate, violence and brokenness, I\u2019m asking for someone who will share love with me. <\/p>\n

Qualcuno che combatta le difficolt\u00e0 con me, non che mi abbandoni al primo ostacolo. <\/p>\n

Quindi, scelgo la vita da single finch\u00e9 l'amore non sceglie me. Scelgo me stessa finch\u00e9 il mio cuore non sceglie qualcun altro. <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Preferisco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sick of hearing how I\u2019m too picky, how my standards are too high and how I\u2019ll end up all alone. I\u2019m sick of hearing questions about wedding bells and what the hell I am waiting for. I\u2019m sick of being looked down on just because I\u2019m single. So, this one goes out to all…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":77055,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Id-Rather-Stay-Single-Than-Settle-For-Less.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16974"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16974\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77055"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}