{"id":16984,"date":"2019-12-27T11:14:13","date_gmt":"2019-12-27T11:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16984"},"modified":"2022-01-10T03:11:35","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T03:11:35","slug":"una-lettera-aperta-alla-mia-prossima-fidanzata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-aperta-alla-mia-prossima-fidanzata\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera aperta alla prossima fidanzata del mio ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Correre. Correte il pi\u00f9 velocemente possibile e il pi\u00f9 lontano possibile.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Detesto le persone che criticano i loro ex. Sono stati la nostra scelta e a un certo punto della nostra vita li abbiamo amati. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Li amavamo come nessun altro e pensavamo che quelle persone sarebbero rimaste nella nostra vita, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/2016297149\/how-make-sure-man-never-leaves-you-according-his-zodiac-sign-astrology\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">senza mai lasciarci<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sempre presenti quando avevamo bisogno di loro. <\/span><b>Ma, oh Dio, quanto mi sbagliavo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As I woman, I feel it\u2019s my responsibility to tell you that you need to be careful. I wouldn&#8217;t want you to get hurt or to get your heart broken by someone who doesn&#8217;t even have one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>That man you will be looking at is like a grenade and you&#8217;re just waiting for him to explode and tear your whole world into pieces. He isn&#8217;t able to love a woman. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Never was, never will be. He doesn&#8217;t know how breakable the heart of a woman is, nor does he know how fragile her body is.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A woman breaks under the weight of someone who doesn&#8217;t give her the love and appreciation she deserves. You must know that, you&#8217;re a woman too. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you don&#8217;t get the appreciation you deserve, it seems like there&#8217;s no way you can make the relationship work but you continue on fighting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Be careful. He doesn&#8217;t have limits.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/hai-superato-tutti-i-miei-limiti1\/\"> Supera i confini<\/a> and he doesn&#8217;t think twice about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He will never consider your feelings while he&#8217;s saying what&#8217;s on his mind and it doesn&#8217;t bother him if he offends you to the point where you&#8217;re crying your eyes out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If he says he loves you, don&#8217;t believe him. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I fell for that trap too many times and my heart still hasn&#8217;t recovered from the pain he inflicted on me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always watch his actions and see if they follow up with his words. The moment you see that there&#8217;s nothing you can do for him to stop lying and treating you like you aren&#8217;t worthy of the truth, leave. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lasciare andare quel <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/finalmente-allontanarsi-dal-manipolatore-tossico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manipolatore tossico<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and don&#8217;t let him fool you that he can change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Non \u00e8 capace di cambiare.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I know that you&#8217;re probably thinking that I&#8217;m telling you all this because I still love him or because of some kind of jealousy, but no. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m telling you this as a friend. As someone who doesn&#8217;t want you to go through everything that I&#8217;ve experienced. I wouldn&#8217;t want any woman to ever fall into his devious hands.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-25990 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-724x1024.png\" alt=\"Una lettera aperta alla prossima ragazza del mio ex\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-724x1024.png 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-212x300.png 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5-768x1086.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Untitled-design-5.png 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>So che sembra simpatico.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> He seems like he can give you the world and that he&#8217;ll make you happy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His eyes hypnotize you to the point where you think that you haven&#8217;t seen anything more beautiful in your entire life but truth be told, it\u2019s all an act.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>To him, love doesn&#8217;t exist except in the dictionary.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Love isn&#8217;t an emotion but a word that gets him what he desires. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'amore non \u00e8 altro che <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-techniques-all-girls-use-to-manipulate-guys\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un modo per manipolare le donne<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who have fallen head over heels for him. But it doesn&#8217;t mean anything to him but victory. Nothing but a way to show his power.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t wait for him to come home. Lock the door.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You won&#8217;t be able to fall asleep at night because you&#8217;ll be waiting for him and you don&#8217;t want that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t want any man to treat you that way. At least lock the door so he knows that there&#8217;s no way he will ever again get another chance. I wish I had been smarter back then.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish I hadn\u2019t told him how hurt I was, I wish I had never said that his behavior was painful to me. My emotions were stronger than I was but I want to tell you that you need to be strong for the both of us. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show him that he can&#8217;t play with a woman&#8217;s heart like that. Show him how to treasure a woman and if you see that he&#8217;s not changing<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">andare avanti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I&#8217;ve given you all the advice you need in order to survive the relationship.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Forse voi sarete diversi. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elephantjournal.com\/2016\/03\/no-matter-how-hard-you-love-him-you-wont-be-able-to-change-him\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forse siete davvero in grado di cambiarlo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But if not, know that you&#8217;re not the only one who tried and failed. I&#8217;m just sorry that you will have to go through all that with him in order to see who he truly is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tuttavia, quando il dolore e la lotta saranno finiti, vi renderete conto di quanto siano preziose le persone che sanno amare. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Troverete una nuova forza per vivere e troverete la motivazione per andare avanti, non importa quanto tempo vi ci vorr\u00e0. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>La cosa migliore di una relazione con lui \u00e8 che ne esci pi\u00f9 forte di prima.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Run. Run as fast as you can and as far as you can. I used to hate those people who would bash their exes. They were our choice and at one point in our life, we loved them. We loved them like no one else and we thought that those people were going to stay&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":16989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16984","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/george-gvasalia-554878-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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