{"id":16999,"date":"2020-06-27T13:18:56","date_gmt":"2020-06-27T13:18:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16999"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:45:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:45:50","slug":"5-segni-che-non-merita-una-seconda-possibilita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segni-che-non-merita-una-seconda-possibilita\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Segni che non merita una seconda possibilit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avere il cuore spezzato \u00e8 uno dei peggiori dolori emotivi che si possano affrontare.<\/p>\n

Vi sentite senza speranza e l'unica cosa che volete \u00e8 tornare da quel ragazzo che vi ha causato tutto questo dolore.<\/p>\n

And he behaves like he wants you back too. But you simply don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Avete paura che you won\u2019t be able to move on<\/a> without this man by your side but at the same time, you are terrified he\u2019ll hurt you all over again.<\/p>\n

You are aware that things between the two of you didn\u2019t work out for a reason but all you want to do is let him back in your life.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve found yourself in a dead-end street and you don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Of course, there are situations in which people deserve a second chance. But there are also times when you shouldn\u2019t allow them to re-enter your life, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Here are 5 signs your ex doesn\u2019t deserve for you to give him a second chance under any circumstances.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the first time he has done this<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Una seconda possibilit\u00e0 viene data a qualcuno solo una volta e, anche in questo caso, non \u00e8 qualcosa che si dovrebbe distribuire facilmente.<\/p>\n

Un conto \u00e8 se il vostro ragazzo \u00e8 sempre stato un bravo ragazzo che una volta ha commesso un errore sciocco.<\/p>\n

In questa situazione, il suo errore pu\u00f2 essere visto come un'eccezione ed \u00e8 perfettamente normale che voi riconsideriate di dargli una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019ve given numerous \u2018second\u2019 chances to this guy but he keeps doing the same things that bother you over and over again, it is more than obvious that he doesn\u2019t deserve any more of your time and attention.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t keep his promises<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

One of the signs that you shouldn\u2019t even consider taking your ex back is the fact that he never keeps his promises.<\/p>\n

Anche se volete davvero che cambi, nel profondo sapete che questo ragazzo non \u00e8 affidabile.<\/p>\n

For as long as you can remember, he\u2019s been giving you false promises and telling you everything you want to hear.<\/p>\n

But he never kept any one of those promises. You don\u2019t know whether he intentionally lies to you just to keep you around or if he is simply not reliable.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, cosa ti fa pensare che questa volta sar\u00e0 diverso?<\/p>\n

Why do you think he is someone who deserves a second chance from you, when it\u2019s probable that he\u2019ll make you all the promises in the world but won\u2019t keep any of them?<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t really sorry<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quando qualcuno \u00e8 davvero pentito e pronto a cambiare, il vostro istinto vi dice che \u00e8 sincero.<\/p>\n

Allo stesso modo, il vostro intuito vi dir\u00e0 se questo ragazzo ti sta solo portando avanti<\/a> e se vuole che tu pensi che sia davvero dispiaciuto.<\/p>\n

So che vuoi credere alle sue buone intenzioni nei tuoi confronti, ma sta davvero mostrando rimorso e assumendosi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle sue azioni o ti sta solo dicendo quello che vuoi sentire?<\/p>\n

Si sta facendo in quattro per ottenere il vostro perdono o siete voi a giustificare il suo comportamento, perch\u00e9 volete giustificarlo?<\/p>\n

When a man is really sorry and doesn\u2019t want to make the same mistakes all over again, he will do whatever it takes just so you forgive him.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014if he wants to be with you, he\u2019ll chase you to the end of the world just to make it happen.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, if a guy is not ready to be accountable for his own actions, he definitely doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance.<\/p>\n

It only means that he doesn\u2019t care enough about winning you over, that he is not aware of the things he\u2019s done to you or that he is perfectly aware of everything but just doesn\u2019t care enough to deal with it.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t take you seriously anymore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se siete una di quelle ragazze che continuano a dare decine di seconde possibilit\u00e0 ogni volta che il fidanzato sbaglia qualcosa, la dura verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ha smesso di prendervi sul serio secoli fa.<\/p>\n

If this is the case with you and your boyfriend, let me tell you that he doesn\u2019t have any intention of changing, no matter what he says.<\/p>\n

Lui vi conosce molto bene e sa cosa avete bisogno di sentire per farlo tornare nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

You keep threatening that this is the last time you are letting him back in your life and that you\u2019ll leave him for good if he doesn\u2019t change his behavior and treatment of you but he knows very well that you won\u2019t back your words with actions.<\/p>\n

Mi dispiace essere io a dirtelo, ma questo ragazzo ti prende per matto.<\/p>\n

He thinks he can do whatever he wants and knows you\u2019ll always be there waiting for him.<\/p>\n

Your empty words don\u2019t really scare him and you aren\u2019t accomplishing a thing.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t forget what he did<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se pensate di dare al vostro ragazzo una seconda possibilit\u00e0, dovete sapere che dimenticare e perdonare sono due cose completamente diverse.<\/p>\n

Although forgiving someone for the harm he\u2019s done to you is hard and challenging, forgetting is even more difficult.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest mistakes you could make in a relationship is convincing yourself that you\u2019ve forgiven or forgotten about something that still haunts you.<\/p>\n

So che probabilmente vi mancano questo e quello lo ami ancora<\/a> but taking him back won\u2019t change a lot, especially if you know that you will be holding grudges and that resentment and bitterness will become a part of you and your relationship.<\/p>\n

In this case, it\u2019s better not to give him another chance, because you obviously can\u2019t move on from the things he did to you and the two of you will never have a stable, healthy relationship in those kinds of circumstances.<\/p>\n

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