{"id":17015,"date":"2018-03-28T07:33:29","date_gmt":"2018-03-28T07:33:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17015"},"modified":"2022-01-17T16:14:06","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T16:14:06","slug":"6-situazioni-in-cui-e-piu-che-giusto-mettere-se-stessi-al-primo-posto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-situazioni-in-cui-e-piu-che-giusto-mettere-se-stessi-al-primo-posto\/","title":{"rendered":"6 situazioni in cui \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che giusto mettere se stessi al primo posto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da quando avete memoria, avete sempre messo gli altri al primo posto. Pensavate che fosse l'unica cosa giusta da fare e che qualsiasi altra cosa fosse egoista.<\/p>\n

Ma sono qui per dirvi che c'\u00e8 una grande differenza tra essere egoista e dare priorit\u00e0 a se stessi<\/a> di tanto in tanto.<\/p>\n

Ci sono situazioni in cui mettere se stessi al primo posto<\/a> is the only option you have and when it\u2019s more than OK to do it. Here are 6 of them.<\/p>\n

1. When you feel like you\u2019ve had enough<\/span><\/h2>\n

There are times when we all feel like we are overwhelmed and that we can\u2019t take it anymore. And although you may feel that this is a sign of weakness, this is a perfectly normal thing to feel.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what it is but you just feel like you\u2019ve had enough of everything. And this is one of the situations where devi mettere te stesso al primo posto.<\/a><\/p>\n

What you need to do is to give yourself a break and leave everything you are doing and move away from everyone who is burdening you. Sometimes, other people\u2019s problems simply become too much for you.<\/p>\n

It is always OK to step aside and to put yourself first whenever you\u2019re feeling like this.<\/p>\n

2. Quando siete voi ad avere bisogno di aiuto<\/span><\/h2>\n

Se siete empatici sensibili, siete sempre presenti per tutti gli altri. Vi prendete cura di loro, li ascoltate e non siete mai troppo occupati per aiutarli a risolvere tutti i loro problemi.<\/p>\n

Ma ci sono momenti in cui siete voi ad avere bisogno di aiuto. Di solito, in queste situazioni, non c'\u00e8 nessuno intorno a voi che possa aiutarvi.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 questo il momento in cui dovreste mettere voi stessi al primo posto, perch\u00e9 siete gli unici a potervi aiutare.<\/p>\n

You may think it\u2019s selfish to put your own problems before everyone else\u2019s but actually this is the only natural thing to do.<\/p>\n

3. Quando si \u00e8 circondati da persone tossiche<\/span><\/h2>\n

A volte, le persone pi\u00f9 vicine a noi sono quelle pi\u00f9 tossiche. E questa \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 difficili da accettare nella vita.<\/p>\n

Sono le persone che significano tutto per voi e quelle che hanno fatto parte della vostra vita per tutto il tempo che riuscite a ricordare.<\/p>\n

But,that doesn\u2019t mean they are good for you. So, whenever you feel that someone brings negativity to your life, deep down you know you need to cut this person out of your life. But you feel guilty for even considering it.<\/p>\n

E sono qui per dirvi che eliminare le persone tossiche dalla vostra vita \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che dovete fare, non importa quanto sembri difficile.<\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 una delle cose che dovete fare per voi stessi, perch\u00e9 queste persone vi lasceranno solo cicatrici emotive e questa \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che volete o di cui avete bisogno.<\/p>\n

4. Quando ci si impegna troppo<\/span><\/h2>\n

Ci sono momenti in cui si ha la sensazione di essere gli unici a impegnarsi a fondo in una relazione con qualcuno.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t only include romantic relationships but also friendships and family relations. You see that you are the only one fighting for the other person and the only one who gives a damn.<\/p>\n

Whenever you feel like this, it\u2019s time to put yourself first. It\u2019s time to stop trying so hard around someone who doesn\u2019t match your efforts and who doesn\u2019t love you the way you love them. And there is nothing selfish in that.<\/p>\n

5. When you are trying to save someone who doesn\u2019t want to be saved<\/span><\/h2>\n

Siete una persona che vede il bene in ogni persona che incontra. Pensate che alcune persone abbiano solo bisogno di essere amate per diventare migliori.<\/p>\n

You want to fix everyone who\u2019s been broken in the past and you want to heal everyone who\u2019s been hurt. You think of yourself as this superwoman who can save everyone.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, there are people who don\u2019t want to be saved, despite all of your efforts. And that is a situation in which you have to give up on those people, as much as it hurts.<\/p>\n

Because you won\u2019t change them or save them, you\u2019ll only be destroyed by their negativity and that is the last thing you need.<\/p>\n

6. When you are with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/span><\/h2>\n

We\u2019ve all been in a situation in which we try hard around someone who doesn\u2019t deserve us, when we stay with someone who brings us pain, who takes us for granted and who will never see our true value.<\/p>\n

Ma per qualche motivo, continuiamo a scegliere quella persona invece di noi stessi. E io sono qui per dirvi di smettere di farlo. Ci sono momenti in cui \u00e8 necessario scegliete voi stessi<\/a> over everyone else, if you want what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

I know you probably think of this as selfish, but trust me\u2014when you do it, you\u2019ll realize that it was the best decision you\u2019ve ever made. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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