{"id":17038,"date":"2020-03-28T09:03:14","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T09:03:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17038"},"modified":"2022-02-27T13:45:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T13:45:13","slug":"so-che-ti-manco-e-non-me-ne-frega-un-fk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/so-che-ti-manco-e-non-me-ne-frega-un-fk\/","title":{"rendered":"So che ti manco e non me ne frega un ca**o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s not my fault that you are an idiot who left me. It\u2019s not my fault that you\u2019ve made the biggest mistake of your life and you\u2019ve realized it too late. That\u2019s why, my darling, I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Pensavi che la vita sarebbe stata migliore senza di me, pensavi di poter fare meglio. Ma hai fatto una cazzata!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t say anything the day you decided to leave me. I didn\u2019t beg for you to stay, I didn\u2019t try to stop you and I didn\u2019t ask you why.<\/p>\n<p>Even though I loved you, I let you go. But you know what? I\u2019m glad you walked away because your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/my-heart-deserves-more-than-your-half-assed-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">amore a met\u00e0<\/a> non \u00e8 quello che mi merito.<\/p>\n<p>I slammed the door in your face without shedding one tear, even though I was crying a river inside that I never wanted you to see. I wouldn\u2019t let you see my pain. That was something that was beneath me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Superare te era la lotta che stavo per intraprendere. Era una battaglia solo mia.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I really hope that you are happy for leaving me because if you\u2019re not, then all of this would have been in vain. You would have broken my heart in vain and you would have lost me in vain.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you miss me and frankly, I don\u2019t give a fuck. I know that you know that you made the biggest mistake of your life because you\u2019re never going to find anyone who will treat you like I did and you are aware of that.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>But I don\u2019t miss you. I only miss the person I was before I met you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>La nostra relazione mi ha cambiato. Ho provato cos\u00ec tanto a far funzionare il nostro rapporto. Ho provato cos\u00ec tanto a compiacerti e mi aspettavo di ricevere qualcosa in cambio, ma non \u00e8 mai successo.<\/p>\n<p>Ho ricevuto solo dolore e tortura e questo mi ha cambiato. Non ero pi\u00f9 la stessa persona di prima. Mi manca la mia vecchia persona.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That\u2019s why I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me but guess what? You\u2019re never going to get me back. You\u2019re history.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ti manco perch\u00e9 c'ero sempre per te.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che avevi bisogno di me, io ero l\u00ec per te.<\/p>\n<p>When you had a bad day and came home all fucked up, I offered you a shoulder to cry on, despite the fact that I had my own problems which you regularly ignored because they weren\u2019t important to you. I wasn\u2019t important to you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ti manco perch\u00e9 ero il tuo sacco da boxe su cui sfogarti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I was there whenever you needed to blow off some steam. When you were annoyed or angry, you took it all out on me. You didn\u2019t care, not one bit, that you fed me with negative energy almost every day.<\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t care less that you destroyed me bit by bit with your poisonous words. You were that selfish, so I really don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You miss me because you\u2019ve realized how lucky you were to have me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now that you\u2019re waking up in the morning all alone. There is no one there to hug and kiss you good morning. There is no one there to text you how much she loves you.<\/p>\n<p>There is no one there to call you just to say she misses you. You miss that, I get it, but really darling, I don\u2019t give a fuck. You had your chance and you decided you could do better. Okay, now\u2019s your chance. Good luck!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ti manco perch\u00e9 mi hai usato per aumentare il tuo ego.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Mi criticavi sempre. Qualsiasi cosa facessi non era mai abbastanza per te. Potevi sempre fare meglio di me, ma non ci hai mai provato.<\/p>\n<p>I know why you never tried; it was because you were incapable. You hid your incompetence by judging me and making me feel like crap, like I was completely incapable. That\u2019s what made you feel better than me.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em><strong>I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me and I don\u2019t want you back, only because you would feel more important by putting me down.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ti manco perch\u00e9 nessuno vuole pi\u00f9 sopportare le tue stronzate.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ho sopportato molto pi\u00f9 di quanto avrei dovuto. Non \u00e8 mai stata colpa tua. Qualunque cosa sia successa, sapevi esattamente come difenderti. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/287448\/14-signs-someone-always-playing-the-victim\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fare la vittima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In qualche modo sapevi come farmi dimenticare quello che ti stavo dicendo. Sapevi cambiare argomento e incolparmi per qualcosa che avevo fatto 3 mesi fa.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s how all the attention would move from you to me and poor you, no one understood how you were feeling and how hurt you were. See, I don\u2019t miss that!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You miss me because you\u2019re no one\u2019s priority now that I\u2019m gone.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I knew that no one else would put up with you. Maybe you even had a backup plan when you left me but where is she now? I know\u2014she left your sorry ass when you tried to control her like you did me.<\/p>\n<p>It blew up in your face and she told you she never wanted to see you again. That\u2019s why you miss me.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em><strong>I put up with everything you did to me because I loved you. But now that you have left me, I feel like a huge burden has fallen from my chest and I really don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me. I don\u2019t miss you.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>You miss me because I\u2019ve realized I deserve better.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t you like to come back into my life now that you see how happy I am and how satisfied I am with myself? Well, you are responsible for that, so thank you so much.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per avermi fatto capire che stavo perdendo tempo quando ero al tuo fianco.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per avermi impedito di odiarmi, perch\u00e9 sarebbe successo se fossi rimasta con te. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-della-lettera-non-riconosce-piu\/\">Non mi riconoscerei pi\u00f9<\/a> e inizierei a odiare te e poi me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You can\u2019t come back to me, I won\u2019t let you. You can miss me but I won\u2019t miss you and frankly, I no longer give a fuck that you do.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91029 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"So che ti manco e non me ne frega un ca**o\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i-know-that-you-miss-me-and-i-dont-give-a-fk-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s not my fault that you are an idiot who left me. It\u2019s not my fault that you\u2019ve made the biggest mistake of your life and you\u2019ve realized it too late. That\u2019s why, my darling, I don\u2019t give a fuck that you miss me. You thought that life would be better without me, you thought&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17038","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/rodolfo-sanches-carvalho-439913-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17038","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17038"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17038\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17040"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17038"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17038"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17038"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}