{"id":17067,"date":"2020-11-08T11:06:51","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T11:06:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17067"},"modified":"2022-01-09T18:18:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T18:18:05","slug":"sei-la-mia-piu-grande-delusione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-la-mia-piu-grande-delusione\/","title":{"rendered":"Sei la mia pi\u00f9 grande delusione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What you did to me was more than terrible. You shattered my dreams and destroyed my entire world. You put me through an unimaginable amount of pain that I was sure I couldn\u2019t handle.<\/p>\n<p>But I did. I didn\u2019t only learn to handle it but I also survived. I survived you and everything you put me through. Somehow, my life kept going without you in it.<\/p>\n<p><b>Non ho intenzione di mentire<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>\u00e8 stato tutt'altro che facile. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>All'inizio non vedevo la fine della mia infelicit\u00e0. Pensavo che avrei sofferto per il resto della mia vita perch\u00e9 ti eri allontanato da me. Ero certa che non sarei mai riuscita a dimenticarti.<\/p>\n<p>At first, I hoped you\u2019d come back. I hoped you\u2019d realize you had made a huge mistake by abandoning me and that you\u2019d try to fix things.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all, I hoped that you\u2019d understand how much you loved me and that we would continue where we left off. So, I waited for that to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Ero pronto a perdonarti per avermi lasciato e per tutto il dolore che mi hai causato, purch\u00e9 potessi riaverti indietro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122293 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside.jpg\" alt=\"una donna asiatica triste si siede alla finestra e guarda fuori\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But time passed by and that didn\u2019t happen. And what did happen was life. Everywhere around me, life went on and I was standing still, in one place, waiting for you.<\/p>\n<p>And then one morning, after a while, I woke up and you weren\u2019t the first thing that crossed my mind. And I didn\u2019t realize that until a few hours had passed.<\/p>\n<p>Qualcun altro lo considererebbe irrilevante, ma per me era enorme. Dopo qualche tempo, mi sorpresi a sorridere di nuovo senza un motivo particolare.<\/p>\n<p>And I knew I was on the path to my recovery. For the first time ever, I had hope that there would come a time when I\u2019d get over you.<\/p>\n<p>E quel momento \u00e8 arrivato. <b>Sono davvero sopravvissuta a te. E ti ho davvero perdonato per tutto quello che \u00e8 successo tra noi. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ti ho perdonato per avermi lasciato in un batter d'occhio e ti ho perdonato per non esserti mai chiesto come le tue azioni mi facessero sentire. Ti perdono per tutto, tranne che per una cosa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122294 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"la bionda triste pensa al tavolo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>I can\u2019t forgive you for disappointing me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it \u2014 you were never perfect. And neither was I. But I thought we were perfect for each other. After all, that was what you tried to convince me all along, wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Hai lavorato molto duramente per guadagnarti la mia fiducia e per presentarti come un uomo affidabile e maturo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 I always saw your flaws and I accepted them as part of you. But despite all of these flaws, I always thought you were an amazing guy.<\/p>\n<p>Pensavo a lei come a un grande uomo e, soprattutto, a una grande persona. Ero sicura della forza del suo carattere. Pensavo a lei come a un uomo di parola, come a una persona che non avrebbe mai violato la mia fiducia.<\/p>\n<p>I considered you to be a man I could trust with my life and I was sure you\u2019d never hurt me the way you did.<\/p>\n<p>Ma il modo in cui <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-ha-lasciato-il-pavimento-implorando-di-restare\/\">mi hai lasciato<\/a> e tutto quello che hai fatto dopo che te ne sei andato mi ha mostrato quanto mi sbagliavo. Mi ha mostrato che eri grande solo ai miei occhi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122295 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"una bionda triste distesa sul letto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You weren\u2019t this great man and great person<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>Ti immaginavo solo cos\u00ec. Eri solo il mio pi\u00f9 grande amore. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mi sono reso conto che mi aspettavo e speravo solo che lei fosse <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/communication\/9-ways-better-person.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> una persona migliore <\/a> than you actually were. And then it hit me \u2014 I never knew the real you.<\/p>\n<p>I will never know whether you pretended to be someone you obviously weren\u2019t or if I just chose to see you differently. I will never know if you changed after you walked away from me or if this was your true face all along.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 hai iniziato a comportarti come se non fossi mai esistito, come se non fossimo mai esistiti.<\/p>\n<p>When you walked away without ever giving me an explanation, without saying a word, you proved that our relationship never meant a thing to you \u2014 that I didn\u2019t mean anything to you. You did everything you swore you would never do.<\/p>\n<p>E ora, <b> you are the man you swore you\u2019d never be. Now, you are my biggest disappointment.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122296 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Sei la mia pi\u00f9 grande delusione\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> <\/b> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What you did to me was more than terrible. You shattered my dreams and destroyed my entire world. You put me through an unimaginable amount of pain that I was sure I couldn\u2019t handle. But I did. I didn\u2019t only learn to handle it but I also survived. I survived you and everything you put&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122292,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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