{"id":17071,"date":"2020-05-28T11:32:19","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T11:32:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17071"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:58:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:58:52","slug":"mi-dispiace-per-la-donna-che-ti-amera-dopo-di-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-dispiace-per-la-donna-che-ti-amera-dopo-di-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi dispiace per la donna che ti amer\u00e0 dopo di me"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sapevi che sono sempre stato un po' geloso. Non \u00e8 una cosa di cui vado fiera, ma \u00e8 semplicemente quello che sono sempre stata.<\/p>\n

When we were together, my biggest fear wasn\u2019t that you\u2019d leave me, it was that you\u2019d find someone else. I could never imagine you being with anyone else but me.<\/p>\n

E pensavo che non sarei mai sopravvissuto vedendoti con un'altra donna.<\/p>\n

When we broke things off for the last time, I told you I hoped you would never find a woman who\u2019d love you.<\/p>\n

E lo ammetto, ero arrabbiato, ferito e deluso quando le ho detto quelle parole.<\/p>\n

E speravo, per paura e gelosia, che non sarebbe mai arrivata una donna che ti avrebbe amato come ti amavo io.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But now I am very much aware that a day will come when you\u2019ll find someone. Someone who will love you the way I loved you, even when you are unlovable.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno che vi amer\u00e0 al meglio e al peggio, a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\n

And although this may come as a shock to you, I won\u2019t be jealous of that woman. I won\u2019t hate her and I am not afraid of the idea that she\u2019ll exist one day.<\/p>\n

Mi fa pena.<\/b><\/p>\n

I feel sorry for this woman, whoever she will be, because I know you better than anybody. I know you\u2019ll never change. <\/b><\/p>\n

And I have no doubt that you\u2019ll make her life a living hell. <\/b><\/p>\n

In the beginning, she\u2019ll be enchanted by you. She\u2019ll think that all of her dreams are finally coming true.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll think she has found her soulmate, that she has found her true happiness.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll know exactly what to tell her and how to behave to win her over. You\u2019ll say everything she wants to hear, just so you can have her.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll present yourself as a loyal, reliable and trustworthy guy.<\/p>\n

And before she realizes, she\u2019ll fall for you. She won\u2019t know that ama un uomo distrutto <\/a> .<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t know what hit her but she won\u2019t be able to control herself around you. She\u2019ll think of you as the perfect guy who has everything she\u2019s been looking for all along.<\/p>\n

And the moment you feel that, the moment you feel you have her, you\u2019ll change. Or at least, she\u2019ll think you\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But actually, you\u2019ll only be showing her your true self.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t happen overnight but from the moment you see how much she loves you, everything will be different.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, there won\u2019t be a good morning text waiting for her. You\u2019ll stop calling her to see how her day was.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you\u2019ll be too busy to see her and all of her problems will become irrelevant.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, she will be your priority. You\u2019ll leave everything and everyone waiting just so you could go to her whenever she needs you.<\/p>\n

But the second she gets used to it, you\u2019ll see it and you\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Suddenly, she\u2019ll be at the bottom of your priority list and everybody and everything will become more important than her.<\/p>\n

Suddenly, she\u2019ll feel like she has to beg for your attention and love.<\/p>\n

Quando se ne render\u00e0 conto, sar\u00e0 troppo tardi.<\/b><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll already love you and she\u2019ll try everything in her power for you to go back to your old ways.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll wonder if there was anything she did for you to become like this.<\/p>\n

And she\u2019ll blame herself for every little fight, for every time you look at some other girl, for every time you leave her hanging.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll lose her confidence and she\u2019ll start thinking that she is not enough for you.<\/p>\n

Ma non sa che questo \u00e8 il suo vero volto.<\/p>\n

Non sapr\u00e0 mai che avete sempre finto di essere qualcuno che non eravate, finch\u00e9 non avete visto che l'avevate in pugno.<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 allora che avete iniziato approfittando di lei <\/a> \u00c8 stato allora che hai iniziato a usarla in tutti i modi possibili ed \u00e8 stato allora che hai iniziato a dare per scontato lei e il suo amore.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato allora che avete smesso di impegnarvi.<\/p>\n

Little will she know that you\u2019ll never love her in the way every woman deserves to be loved.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When she first meets you, she\u2019ll never imagine what a monster you actually are.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t know that you\u2019ll never respect her and that you won\u2019t appreciate all the sacrifices she\u2019ll be making.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t know that you\u2019ll make her life a living hell and that she\u2019ll wish she had never met you.<\/p>\n

Lo so, perch\u00e9 un tempo ero come lei. Ed \u00e8 per questo che non sono gelosa di lei.<\/b>\u2014<\/b>Mi dispiace per lei. <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You knew I was always a little bit jealous. That is not something I am proud of but that is simply who I\u2019ve always been. When we were together, my biggest fear wasn\u2019t that you\u2019d leave me, it was that you\u2019d find someone else. I could never imagine you being with anyone else but me….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":96774,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17071","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I-Feel-Sorry-For-The-Woman-Who-Will-Love-You-After-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17071","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17071"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17071\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96774"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17071"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17071"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17071"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}