\u00c8 diventato distante. Disinteressato. Non ha quasi mai tempo per voi e anche quando lo ha, \u00e8 solo l'ombra dell'uomo che conoscevate un tempo.<\/p>\n
Quando si parla con lui, continua a fare promesse che non mantiene mai. Ha bisogno di tempo per rimettere in sesto la sua vita.<\/p>\n
He is going through a rough patch right now and that\u2019s why he treats you poorly. He will be l'uomo che ti meriti<\/a> se gli si concede un po' di tempo.<\/p>\n But when you look at it, you have been waiting for forever and nothing has changed. You shouldn\u2019t be the one paying the high price for his problems.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t suffer because he is miserable. You bend over backward to please him but it\u2019s never enough. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n \u00c8 talmente abituato al suo ruolo di vittima che ormai nella vostra relazione viene sempre frainteso e la colpa \u00e8 sempre tua.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Ma tu continui a resistere. Continua a dargli pezzi di s\u00e9 solo per farlo sentire meglio.<\/p>\n You are putting his happiness before your own. What you don\u2019t realize is that you can\u2019t fix somebody who doesn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n E se resterete e cercherete di aggiustarlo, niente vi taglier\u00e0 cos\u00ec profondamente come quei suoi pezzi in frantumi. Niente vi far\u00e0 pi\u00f9 male.<\/strong><\/p>\n His brokenness and his dissatisfaction with his life don\u2019t have anything to do with you, even if he makes you feel like that sometimes. You have this feeling that it\u2019s your responsibility to help him but you can\u2019t help a hopeless case.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t do his job for him. Change comes only to those who welcome it into their lives. And he is clearly used to things being the way they are.<\/p>\n L'unica cosa che dovreste fare \u00e8 amarlo finch\u00e9 non si rimette in sesto.<\/strong> That\u2019s what people in normal and healthy relationships do.<\/p>\n They support each other and they stay through thick and thin. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t look at his problems like they are your own.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t fight battles that are not yours. You shouldn\u2019t let him use you in that way.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t you realize that somebody else in his shoes would thank God he has you? To have somebody who cares so much.<\/p>\n Somebody supportive. Somebody who stays no matter what. But he is not that somebody. He is taking your efforts for granted and he doesn\u2019t appreciate you nearly as much as he should.<\/p>\n Cercare di sistemare lui, cercare di sistemare entrambi, probabilmente peggiora le cose. Vi state solo muovendo in cerchi di qualcosa di malsano, di qualcosa di unilaterale e di totalmente codipendente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Hai trascurato te stessa. Hai messo i suoi bisogni davanti ai tuoi e hai dimenticato che meriti di essere ricambiata con la stessa intensit\u00e0.<\/p>\n Vi meritate qualcuno che sia presente per voi quanto voi lo siete per lui. Qualcuno che stia al vostro fianco quando state attraversando un momento difficile.<\/p>\n Qualcuno con cui condividere le risate e le vittorie. Qualcuno che vi faccia entrare completamente.<\/p>\n Someone who will know how to give as much as he takes. You don\u2019t have that now.<\/p>\n Se resti e combatti ancora un po', ti distrugger\u00e0 emotivamente. Lui si prender\u00e0 cos\u00ec tanto che non avrete nulla da dare a voi stesse.<\/strong><\/p>\n You are probably already at your limit. His state of mind doesn\u2019t give him the right to treat you badly.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t put up with everything just because you love so deeply.<\/p>\n Love shouldn\u2019t consist only of sacrifice. Love should be something you are both involved in, something mutual.<\/p>\n Dovreste essere in grado di vedere i suoi sforzi, i suoi investimenti, la sua determinazione a migliorare le cose per entrambi. If you are the only one trying, the only one fixing things, it is not love, it\u2019s torture.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t stay somewhere where you are not appreciated. Don\u2019t be afraid to turn over a new leaf in a completely new book.<\/p>\n![\"autunno](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/autumn-in-the-park-stands-a-sad-woman.jpg\")
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