{"id":17163,"date":"2020-03-30T10:55:41","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T10:55:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17163"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:27:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:27:27","slug":"mi-hai-spezzato-il-cuore-ma-non-mi-hai-spezzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-hai-spezzato-il-cuore-ma-non-mi-hai-spezzato\/","title":{"rendered":"Hai spezzato il mio cuore ma non mi hai spezzato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando mi hai lasciato, ho pensato che fosse la fine del mondo. Ho pensato che la mia vita fosse giunta al termine e che non ci fosse pi\u00f9 nulla per cui vivere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti ho dato tutto me stesso e, mentre ero con te, ho smesso di esistere come qualcosa di diverso dalla tua ragazza. <\/span><\/p>\n

And when you left, I just didn\u2019t know what to do with myself anymore. I felt like my existence had no meaning and no purpose. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eri l'unica persona che mi dava felicit\u00e0 e che riusciva a farmi sorridere. E tutto questo non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordo vagamente i mesi successivi. Ho passato tutto quel tempo a piangere per te e ad aspettare che tornassi. Sentivo che avrei barattato tutto in questo mondo solo per sentire la tua voce e vedere il tuo volto ancora una volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pathetic, I know. But that was exactly how I felt. I couldn\u2019t get myself into doing anything productive and all I did was think of you. I cried from the moment I\u2019d wake up to the moment I\u2019d fall asleep. <\/span><\/p>\n

And even when I would manage to fall asleep, I would still dream about you. This pain you left behind consumed my entire being and I didn\u2019t see any signs of a bright future ahead of me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I just assumed I\u2019d suffer for you as long as I breathed. <\/span><\/p>\n

And then, one day, it just didn\u2019t hurt that much. I was still thinking of you but I didn\u2019t have the feeling I would die without you by my side. <\/span><\/p>\n

E da quel momento ho capito che sarei sopravvissuta. Sapevo che mi ci sarebbe voluto del tempo, ma ero certa che prima o poi sarebbe successo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dopo qualche tempo, sono giunto alla conclusione che <\/span>you leaving me wasn\u2019t so bad after all. <\/b>Sei stata solo una dura lezione<\/span><\/a> I had to learn. I saw that I was foolish for thinking that my life had come to its end just because you weren\u2019t in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ho capito che il mio amore per te non era l'unica cosa che mi rendeva la donna che sono. Ho capito che prima o poi mi sarei allontanata da te ed ero determinata a farlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was still the woman I was before I met you. You came very close to breaking me and you did damage me emotionally but you didn\u2019t destroy me completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the beginning, I was terrified that I would never love someone the way I loved you. I was scared that I wouldn\u2019t let anyone in after you. I was positive that everyone would hurt me the way you did. <\/span><\/p>\n

But most of all, I was scared that this pain you\u2019d put me through would damage me for life. I was certain that this experience would make me a bitter, negative person and that I would never recover from everything I\u2019d survived after you left. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were my toughest lesson. You taught me what I don\u2019t want from love and what love shouldn\u2019t look like. You taught me that it\u2019s OK to feel emotional pain and that I need to give myself<\/span> tempo per guarire<\/span><\/a>prima di ogni altra cosa. <\/span><\/p>\n

You taught me not to allow myself to be defined by someone else\u2019s presence or the lack of it. You taught me not to allow anyone to give meaning to my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto, <\/span>mi hai fatto capire che devo imparare <\/b>amare me stesso<\/b><\/a>,<\/b> anche se hai smesso di amarmi. Mi hai fatto capire che sono il mio migliore amico e che sono l'unica persona su cui posso contare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ve made it way harder for me to believe in true love.<\/b> But that doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019ve lost faith in it completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, <\/span>hai giocato con la mia fiducia<\/b> but you didn\u2019t manage to make me an insecure person.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, <\/span>you\u2019ve changed some things about me<\/b> ma sono rimasto sostanzialmente lo stesso.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, <\/span>Ero arrabbiato<\/b> but I didn\u2019t become bitter and I hold no resentment.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec,<\/span> you\u2019ve hurt me in more than one way<\/b> ma so che guarir\u00f2 e mi riprender\u00f2.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, <\/span>you\u2019ve made me vulnerable <\/b>but you didn\u2019t take my strength away from me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, you broke my heart but you didn\u2019t break me.<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/b>E questo \u00e8 il mio pi\u00f9 grande successo. <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you left me, I thought of it as the end of the world. I thought my life had come to an end and that there was nothing for me to live for anymore. I gave you my everything and while I was with you, I ceased to exist as anything else but your girlfriend….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":17164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/vladislav-todorov-611107-unsplash-1-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17163\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}