{"id":17166,"date":"2018-03-30T11:25:08","date_gmt":"2018-03-30T11:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17166"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:32:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:32:48","slug":"ad-ogni-ragazza-che-pensa-di-essere-difficile-da-amare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ad-ogni-ragazza-che-pensa-di-essere-difficile-da-amare\/","title":{"rendered":"A tutte le ragazze che pensano di essere difficili da amare"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been hearing this for as long as you can remember. All the men you\u2019ve encountered in your life have told you that you are challenging, that you are hard to love and difficult to put up with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been told you are a handful, that you expect too much of everyone and that you are a perfectionist. And you think this cannot be a coincidence<\/span>\u2014<\/span>deve esserci un fondo di verit\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

Con il tempo, avete iniziato a crederci e a vederlo come qualcosa di negativo. Avete pensato a questo come a una vostra colpa, come a qualcosa che fa scappare gli uomini da voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, avete lasciato che vi definisse. Avete iniziato a incolpare questa vostra qualit\u00e0 come il motivo per cui nessuna delle vostre relazioni ha avuto successo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You started blaming yourself for all the bad treatment you were getting and everything you\u2019ve been through in life.<\/span><\/p>\n

But I am here to tell you it\u2019s time to stop feeling this way. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sono qui per dirvi che non \u00e8 difficile amarvi. Siete solo forti,<\/span> donna indipendente <\/span><\/a>con le sue opinioni e i suoi atteggiamenti. Lei \u00e8 una persona che lotta per se stessa e per ci\u00f2 che ritiene giusto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y<\/span>ou are a woman who relies on herself only and a woman who doesn\u2019t trust everybody who comes into her life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non siete una persona che si lascia definire dagli uomini e non siete una persona che cambier\u00e0 l'essenza del suo essere solo per essere pi\u00f9 simpatica a qualche ragazzo o per rientrare negli standard della societ\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have a very strong intuition and you don\u2019t get fooled easily. You are not easily lied to, because it offends your intelligence.<\/span><\/p>\n

Rispettate voi stessi e pretendete che tutti nella vostra vita vi rispettino e vi apprezzino. Non permettete mai alle persone di darvi per scontate o di trattarvi con condiscendenza, perch\u00e9 conoscete il vostro vero valore.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t make you hard to love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Le vostre qualit\u00e0 rendono<\/span> uomini immaturi<\/span><\/a><\/em> feel insecure about you. They feel threatened and as if they aren\u2019t man enough.<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n

Questi uomini conoscono la vostra forza di carattere, sono consapevoli del vostro potere e del vostro coraggio e sanno benissimo che non potrebbero mai manipolarvi come vorrebbero. <\/span><\/p>\n

B<\/span>ut their fragile ego doesn\u2019t allow them to accept that, nor say it to you. So, they choose to blame you for everything. They choose to persuade you to feel guilty for being difficult to handle or hard to deal with. <\/span><\/p>\n

What those men don\u2019t know is that you hide a heart full of love. They don\u2019t know that your strength is something that would help them get through life. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you being a fighter means that you would also fight against everyone and everything just to preserve your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would never leave their side and that you would hold their hand through all of life\u2019s difficulties. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know you would never disrespect them, if they respected you. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would believe in them, even when everyone else stopped. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would love them unconditionally and that you are someone who would make sacrifices for their well-being, if they proved to be worthy of your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, smettete di incolparvi, di pensare che siete difficili da amare, perch\u00e9 non lo siete.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are just hard to love for men who don\u2019t deserve you and who are not worthy of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t expect too much from people<\/span>\u2014<\/span>sei solo una persona che d\u00e0 molto e si aspetta lo stesso trattamento. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know that you shouldn\u2019t be <\/span>l'unico che si impegna a fondo<\/span><\/a> in una relazione e questo va pi\u00f9 che bene. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to prioritize the people who treat you as an option and that is what you should continue doing. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know you don\u2019t believe me now but trust me, <\/span>arriver\u00e0 un uomo che penser\u00e0 che siete degni di tutti i problemi.<\/b><\/p>\n

It will take you some time and a lot of patience but you will let him get close to you because you\u2019ll feel that his intentions are sincere and that his feelings are real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando entrer\u00e0 nella vostra vita, quest'uomo vi vedr\u00e0 per quello che siete e capir\u00e0 quanto siete preziose. Vedr\u00e0 tutte le vostre qualit\u00e0 e cercher\u00e0 di farvi deporre il vostro scudo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quest'uomo vi amer\u00e0 fino alla luna e ritorno per quello che siete. Amer\u00e0 tutte le vostre imperfezioni e vi amer\u00e0 nel modo in cui meritate di essere amate. <\/span><\/p>\n

B<\/span>ut most of all, he will fight all your insecurities away and he will show you that there is much about you to be loved. By doing this, he will teach you how to love yourself again. When this man comes along, you\u2019ll never again think you\u2019re hard to love. <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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