{"id":17238,"date":"2020-08-03T13:27:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-03T13:27:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17238"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:54:13","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:54:13","slug":"quando-si-sa-che-non-funzionera-mai-ma-si-continua-a-tornare-luno-dallaltro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-si-sa-che-non-funzionera-mai-ma-si-continua-a-tornare-luno-dallaltro\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando si sa che non funzioner\u00e0 mai, ma si continua a tornare l'uno dall'altro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes, your love for someone is stronger than everything else. Sometimes, your mind simply can\u2019t control your actions, no matter how hard you try. Sometimes, you need to put a stop to some things but you just can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n

Se vi siete mai trovati in una situazione in cui siete pazzi di un ragazzo ma sapete che non c'\u00e8 futuro per voi due, sapete esattamente di cosa sto parlando.<\/p>\n

Questo ragazzo ha sconvolto il vostro mondo dal primo momento in cui lo avete visto. E sai che lui prova la stessa cosa per te.<\/p>\n

Voi due siete follemente innamorati l'uno dell'altro<\/a> and you can\u2019t keep your hands off of one another.<\/p>\n

Ma dal momento in cui l'ha incontrato, ha capito che era un problema<\/a>. Sapeva che voi due non avreste mai potuto trovare pace l'uno accanto all'altro.<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ve always thought that he is your other half\u2014you could never imagine loving someone that much.  <\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You both want things between you to work out badly but somehow that is not happening. You keep fighting and breaking up because you simply can\u2019t get along.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t know why that is so. You don\u2019t doubt his feelings and you are certain that you love him as well.<\/p>\n

Nonostante tutto, continuate a tornare l'uno dall'altra. Nel profondo, entrambi sapete che non riuscirete mai ad avere una relazione sana e forte, ma c'\u00e8 una forza inspiegabile che vi trascina l'uno verso l'altro.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every time you break things off, you decide to call it quits for good. You decide this is the last time you\u2019ll let this man into your life, because you know he is toxic for you.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to mean that he is a bad guy\u2014voi due non siete semplicemente fatti l'uno per l'altra<\/a>. He wakes up the worst in you and that is something you don\u2019t need in your life.<\/p>\n

Ma ogni volta torna strisciando<\/a>Lo riprendete, come se non fosse successo nulla.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Pur sapendo che non c'\u00e8 futuro per voi due, sperate segretamente che questa volta sia diverso. <\/b>And I am here to tell you that it won\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

Neither of you is obviously ready to change. You are both grown-ups and it would be absurd to expect either of you to change so that you could fit the other person\u2019s standards.<\/p>\n

It is possible that you are both hot-tempered or that your personalities simply don\u2019t match.<\/p>\n

The two of you have been together for ages and by now, you should\u2019ve learned how to function together. But, obviously, that didn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

And if it hadn\u2019t happened by now, why would you think it would in the future? Perch\u00e9 pensate che questa volta sar\u00e0 diverso, quando in passato le cose sono finite sempre allo stesso modo?<\/b><\/p>\n

Whatever it is that is keeping you two from being happy, it is obviously something that you can\u2019t surpass and it\u2019s time for you to stop running from that fact.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you accept the fact that your partner is not someone you need in your life, despite all the love you feel for him.<\/p>\n

So che pensate che il vero amore possa sconfiggere qualsiasi cosa. E certamente pu\u00f2 farlo. But it\u2019s obvious that this is not true love, as much as you wish for it to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

True love shouldn\u2019t make you feel like this. Yes, this guy gives you butterflies and passion you\u2019ve never felt before, but admit it\u2014you feel stressed and overwhelmed all the time.<\/p>\n

Non sapete mai a che punto siete con lui e non sapete mai cosa vi riserva il futuro. Anche se all'inizio pu\u00f2 sembrare eccitante, con il tempo diventa estenuante.<\/p>\n

True love will make you feel peaceful. It will feel like home. It will make all the puzzles fit in place and it will be everything you\u2019ve been looking for all along, without even knowing it.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, per il bene della vostra salute mentale e fisica, siate voi ad andarvene. Perch\u00e9 questo non \u00e8 vero amore<\/b>\u2014<\/b>it\u2019s torture.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know you are scared of making the wrong decision and I know you don\u2019t want to hurt yourself or your partner. And I am not going to lie to you\u2014it won\u2019t be easy.<\/p>\n

Sarete devastati una volta che avrete finalmente messo fine a questa farsa. E vi mancher\u00e0 come l'inferno.<\/p>\n

You will cry, you will feel like you can\u2019t live without him and you will want to go back to him. And this is when you\u2019ll have to be the strongest.<\/p>\n

This is when you\u2019ll have to realize that sometimes l'amore non basta<\/a> and this is when you\u2019ll have to accept the fact that you\u2019d never be happy with this guy.<\/p>\n

But all of this pain will go away in time. And you\u2019ll be grateful you finally ended it. You\u2019ll be thankful you saved yourself from a lifetime of misery.<\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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