{"id":17254,"date":"2018-04-04T07:27:35","date_gmt":"2018-04-04T07:27:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17254"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:29:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:29:07","slug":"sei-stato-tu-a-dimostrarle-che-sta-meglio-da-sola","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-stato-tu-a-dimostrarle-che-sta-meglio-da-sola\/","title":{"rendered":"Sei stato tu a dimostrarle che \u00e8 meglio che stia da sola"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t be surprised one day when you look around and notice she isn\u2019t there<\/a> for you anymore. Don\u2019t be surprised when you ring her and she doesn\u2019t pick up the phone. Don\u2019t be surprised when you\u2019re no longer the first person she calls when something bad happens to her. Don\u2019t be surprised when she stops counting on you. The bottom line is, you were the one who showed her she didn\u2019t really have you.<\/p>\n

You showed her she couldn\u2019t count on you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non sei mai stato l\u00ec<\/a> when she needed you. You should\u2019ve been partners but you left her to do all the work while you laid back and relaxed. You let her swim the oceans for you alone and you didn\u2019t even lift a finger for her.<\/p>\n

All her battles, she had to fight alone. Whatever was done to her in her life, she had to handle it without you. And you know why? Because you showed her she couldn\u2019t count on you. She had no other choice but to handle it alone then.<\/p>\n

You showed her she shouldn\u2019t miss you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You made her feel like you never missed her. She never felt like her absence was noticed by you. She never saw you reacting scared to the idea of losing her. You never told her what she meant to you or that she should be there in your life. Actually, you showed her the absolute opposite. You showed her you didn\u2019t care that she was missing you or craving you.<\/p>\n

You showed her she shouldn\u2019t choose you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You kept choosing others over her. You kept giving your time to others rather than spending it with her. You never made a true effort to show her she was the one you truly wanted, so what do you think she could conclude from that? You showed her she shouldn\u2019t keep putting at the top of her list someone who didn\u2019t even put her on his list at all.<\/p>\n

You showed her that you don\u2019t really care.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019d been numb and oblivious to her needs for far too long. You never cared to invest yourself in the relationship as much as she did. She was the one who always went the extra mile for you and she never complained about any of it. But you soon made it clear that she was walking miles for someone who didn\u2019t really give a damn. So why should she continue walking miles for someone who didn\u2019t even deserve it? She shouldn\u2019t. So she stopped.<\/p>\n

You showed her you don\u2019t really love her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Those who love don\u2019t behave like you did. Those who love treat the person they love with respect. Those who love make sure their love is visible, they don\u2019t play games, they don\u2019t make the other person wonder if they\u2019re loved or not. See, those who love take care of the people they love. If you loved, she wasn\u2019t the person you loved.<\/p>\n

You showed her she\u2019s better off on her own.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con te accanto dovrebbe sentirsi l'unica donna al mondo. Invece, le tue azioni le hanno fatto dubitare del suo valore. Il modo in cui l'hai trattata le ha fatto sentire come se qualsiasi cosa facesse non fosse abbastanza per te. Non ha mai avuto la sensazione che tu ti preoccupassi per lei o che la amassi.<\/p>\n

After a while, she realized that you were only tearing her confidence down. After a while, she realized you were only dragging her spirit down. After a while, she realized she was swimming the ocean for someone who was far from willing to do the same. After a while, she realized she was the only one trying, that she was trying so hard for the wrong guy, for the guy who wasn\u2019t good for her. You were the one who showed her she\u2019s better off on her own.<\/p>\n

So please don\u2019t act surprised when she\u2019s no longer there for you. You were never there for her anyway.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t be surprised one day when you look around and notice she isn\u2019t there for you anymore. Don\u2019t be surprised when you ring her and she doesn\u2019t pick up the phone. Don\u2019t be surprised when you\u2019re no longer the first person she calls when something bad happens to her. Don\u2019t be surprised when she stops…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17255,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17254","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/allef-vinicius-305443.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17254","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17254"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17254\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17255"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17254"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17254"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17254"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}